if you have a bf/husband i don't respect you

Late 30's lesbian.

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

And what if women and girls were just allowed to exist as they are? Without sexualising themselves or compressing their ribcage to minimise their breasts?

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

Their backwards breast ironing; our progressive binding

[this-is-trans-joy]

Reminder to newly out trans women/fems or anyone else on E, don’t let anyone gaslight you about your period symptoms. don’t let anyone with a child’s level understanding of how periods work make you feel like you’re stupid or delusional for experiencing period symptoms, especially if you think there might be something wrong.

things like endometriosis can develop in an estrogen-dominated system, because its the hormones that cause the growth of endometrial lesions, not the “parts” themselves. If you’re experiencing unusually painful symptoms* then you have a right to find a doctor who will take you seriously and not try to gaslight you into thinking that the pain is “normal”.

*period pain is not supposed to affect your daily life. It’s supposed to feel more like an inconvenience rather than a medical emergency. If you are struggling to go about your life, if you can’t move due to the pain, if you’re bed-ridden for the majority of your period, then that is not normal and you need to find a doctor who is going to take your pain seriously. This obviously goes for anyone who experiences periods because unfortunately it’s not common knowledge that experiencing agonising levels of pain is NOT NORMAL!!!

[eukaryotasmain]

Trans women do not experience medical menstruation because they do not have a uterus or ovaries.

Men have less than 20 documented endometriosis medical cases GLOBALLY.

Womyn have 190 *MILLION*.

[stellasbiggestfangirl]

REPEAT: You cannot have a period if you don't have a uterus. Get over it, penis havers.

[bettybeagettymcclanahan]

[bushpropaganda]

you are not experiencing periods, you are experiencing the side effects of your body overdosing on estrogen. attempting a "hormonal cycle" by lessening the estrogen you take or stopping it altogether is your body trying to return to its natural male state. transwoman "PMDD" is due to fucking up your endocrine system. and male endometriosis is so rare that you'd be more likely to get struck by lightning—twice.

fucking stop this shit. you do not have periods, you are experiencing side effects from injecting hormones into your body that do not belong there. it is so insulting to pretend like you experience what women do, when women endure very real suffering, societal and medical stigma, and death due to menstruation.

it is not "gaslighting", it's fucking fact. and demonizing women who actually experience periods into staying silent about a biological process we endure is some male supremacist, misogynistic, patriarchal shit. saying we don't know how periods work, when yall are the ones who are too stupid to look into the side effects of males taking estrogen and are delusional enough to believe that males without uteruses can magically experience a female biological process, is hilarious.

shame on the female people who cosign and encourage this bullshit. it is not trans activism, it is female erasure. but of course, males must always take priority, even in female-exclusive experiences. the patriarchy requires it.

[vintage-bentley]

When a woman says her period started, she isn’t talking about the cramps or the cravings or the acne or the bloating or any other symptom. She’s talking about the blood. The shedding of the uterine lining. Even menopausal women or women who have a health condition that causes their period to be irregular, they will experience all the symptoms but will still not say they have a period unless they bleed.

Until your uterine lining is shedding and you are bleeding, you are not experiencing a period. You’re experiencing side effects from taking hormones that your body doesn’t want or need. Stop trying to appropriate an experience that YOUR sex—males—have subjugated women for for centuries, and continue to stigmatise us for. You will never experience what we do.

[radicalcoffeeclub]

I like how physical transition is completely necessary and life saving when trans activists demand easier access to it, but if a government says "ok physical transition is important and you need to go through with some form of it to change your legal gender marker", then it becomes "forced sterilization of trans people" and an irreversible physically dangerous process that an evil government is forcing trans people to go through. Well played.

[magnetictapedatastorage]

people keep using 'pov' when they mean 'mfw'. because those are literally opposite things. the picture isn't taken from their Point Of View it is their Face When something happened

[noblackwomannocry]

publicly talking about what they post is harassment, talking about people they've victimized is harassment, talking about what they've done to you personally is harassment, looking at what they post is stalking, thinking what they post reflects on them is believing in thoughtcrime, sharing what they write verbatim is pedojacketing, and any level of public perception of what these people share is a social murdering mass campaign. it's DARVO all the way down and when it's just their general behaviour being discussed it's Deny & Attack anyway. Open Your Eyes!!!

[michellezagenda-deactivated2026]

our rights are up for debate and u want a boyfriend ?….

[female-eren]

Leftists turn into the biggest pro-lifers if the fetus is disabled. They'd NEVERRR take on that child themselves of course, but they'll be DAMNED if they don't try to use guilt to force women into birthing disabled babies. It's crazy, they'll be like "abort that thang" about """abled""" fetuses but as soon as there's a Downs diagnosis or something then that fetus must be born. Like why. What changed

[lostryu]

anyway gold star lesbianism is a false concept of purity when it comes to lesbians and their past relationships w men. lesbians are not lesser if they were in relationships with men while they were closeted, going through compulsory heterosexuality, or in a situation where a beard was necessary. As a lesbian who went thru comphet and has been in a relationship w a man before i was out, i assure you there is no difference between a normal ass lesbian and what u perceive to be. a 'gold star'.

if u identify as a 'gold star lesbian' ur status is fake, u have a superiority complex, and ur support of lesbians is also fake!

[pain--pilled]

2 things can be true at once: comphet is mostly bullshit bc no actual lesbian has the compulsion to have sex with men and most "lesbians" are bi women who are ashamed of being bi, AND the way lesbianism is discussed by women is made into a purity Olympics due to misogyny bc some women try to separate themselves from women who would rather subject themselves to rape just to fit in/women who gave in to peer pressure, and women don't tolerate other women who made mistakes like that due to women being misogynistic, and that's why there's such a huge purity culture around goldstarism with lesbians whereas with gay men they're like "yeah I dated a woman to fit in back in middle school, who cares lol " and other gay men just accept him and don't care, usually.

[11thfempachi]

Men are like "i can barely afford to survive. Time for a baby"

[solanasdworkinlorde]

Straight people*

[gatekeeper-of-witchcraft]

really pissed off this morning about married lesbians who engage in lesbophobic gender discourse because they know they won’t be targets of it. it is so fucking disgusting and slimy and cowardly.

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

HM I sure wonder why support from the general public is dropping more and more...........

They just like confusing ppl I swear, like flexing their knowledge on a subject everyone assumes is complex and important, but in actuality is just a bunch of contradictory illogical ideological nonsense

[mooseyondaloosey]

feels controlling tbh. Oh no you can't possibly understand it, just go along with it though. like if you don't go along with it, you're an evil bigot, but I can't explain why without it taking 3 hours. but everyone will believe me that you are an evil bigot even if they also don't understand it. this is normal social behaviour. UGH

[vintage-bentley]

Yeah these types love feeling intellectually superior. They love being smug and pretentious and taking on an “educator” role…except this stuff isn’t based in reality so they really have nothing to “educate” on. And instead of admitting that, they do this whole “ohhh it’s so complex and complicated, of course I understand it because I’m so smart and knowledgeable and queer and better than you, but your little mind just can’t handle it” song and dance.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

You would not believe the amount of fics that people have written about HP where the author changes the worldbuilding to make it so the bigotry of blood politics and house elf slavery is actually kinda justified. Like house elves are born from a family's hearth and will die if they don't serve their masters type shit. Like muggleborns are actually destroying pureblood culture or whatever and ruining generations of magic by entering the magical world bs. For people who accuse Rowling of being bigoted because of her flawed representation, they sure like to just get rid of anything that might make the characters they like look bad.

[misandristwoman]

I’m sick of women criticising leg hair discussions by saying “it’s personal choice”.

If it were a true choice, men and women would equally shave and not shave their legs. And yet, its 99% of women who shave, and 99% of men who don’t.

I’m honestly sick of women complaining about beauty standards when they take no steps in ending them. If all adult women stopped shaving their legs, young girls and teens wouldn’t feel compelled to shave, and boom, the beauty standard of hairless legs for women no longer exists.

I consciously look out for hairy legs in the summer, and I haven’t seen any yet. I’m just screaming into the void at this point.

[h4nifah]

I saw someone saying that at her grandfathers funeral, everyone talked about his hobbies and his quirky personality and sense of humour but and her grandmothers funeral, everyone talked about how she was an amazing mother and wife and good at cooking and hosting. it’s so sad how women are largely remembered for how they served and cared for others rather than who they actually were as a person

[sickofeverythingmale2]

I was watching a movie with my mother one time, and they were talking about a dead woman and how they remembered her because of the food she made for them, and I made an irritated, quippy comment about it, and my mother just said that she would like to be remembered as such. So many women just do not have dignity.

[femtay]

a lot is talked about famous men who were/are abusers but many times their victims are seen as numbers or just "the victim". i think it's important to highlight the brave women who spoke out and survived these crimes.

dylan farrow is a writer and advocate for survivors of sexual abuse. she has published two YA books, "hush" and it's sequel "veil". you can find her as realdylanfarrow on twitter and instagram. her abuser is woody allen.

virginia giuffre is an advocate for victims of sex trafficking. she created a non-profit organization for survivors based in the US under the name "speak out, act, reclaim" (SOAR). you can find her on instagram as virginia.giuffre.7. one of her abusers was jeffrey epstein.

lauren sivan is a reporter and actress. she has worked for broadcasts such as Fox, ESPN and NBC. she appeared in the movie taken 3. you can find her on instagram as idiotsivan. her abuser is harvey weinstein.

andrea constand was a basketball player, having played for canada's national team. now she is an advocate for mental health and environmentalism. you can find her on instagram as andreaconstand (she's also a psychedelic support therapist. independently of how i feel about that, inform yourself before signing up for anything). her abuser is bill cosby.

melissa schuman is a singer and advocate for sexual assault survivors. she was a member of the girl group "dream". you can find her on instagram as themelissaschuman. her abuser is nick carter.

[femtay]

pam dawber is an actress and producer. she was a huge part of the world of 80's sitcoms in the U.S. she is also talented at singing, showcasing said talents during the filming of different tv shows. the man who sexually harrassed her was robin williams.

monica lewinsky is an activist against cyberbullying and has a master's degree in psychology. you can find her on instagram as monica_lewinsky. in her early 20s she was coerced into a sexual relationship with bill clinton, who abused his power as president to harass her.

cassie ventura is a famous singer, dancer, actress and model. you can find her on instagram as cassie. the man who raped and assaulted her is sean "diddy" comes.

elizabeth jean carrol is a writer, journalist and advice columnist. she had a colum in elle magazine that lasted three decades named "ask e. jean", in which she discussed themes of feminism and sex. many of her writings about womanhood, sports, true crime and more can be found online. she was sexually abused by donald trump.

bobbie phillips is an animal advocate, actress and martial artist, known for performing her own stunts and fighting scenes. during her 20s and 30s she was also a swimsuit model. the man who sexually assaulted her is les moonves.

eliza dushku is an actress, producer, activist and voice actress. she is also the ceo of "boston diva productions" and recently has become a certified therapist. dushku is a director of THRIVE-Gulu organization, dedicated to helping survivors of war. she was sexually harrassed by michael weatherly.

[femtay]

thelma fardin is an actress, singer and activist. she started her acting and singing career as a child and continues acting till this day. some of her most popular works include "patito feo" and "consentidos". fardin’s acting/singing career extends from film, to tv, to theater. in 2018 she became a member of the "Colectivo Actrices Argentinas", a collective that advocates for women’s rights and socioeconomic reforms in her country. you can find her on instagram as soythelmafardin. she was raped by juan darthés.

wendy riss gatsiounis is screenwriter, tv writer and producer. she is better known for being the writer of the tv shows "the killing" and "reign", as well as a producer for "genius" on National Geographic. she was sexually harassed by dustin hoffman.

kim saeron was a model and actress. she started her career as a child and had big roles both on tv and film, as well as popular model gigs and advertisement. some of her most known works are "a girl at my door", "secret healer" and "bloodhounds". you can look at her, now set as memorialized, account on instagram by the username ron_sae. she was groomed and abused by kim soohyun.

delia dueñas, who went by "pepsi paloma", was an actress, dancer and model. she was discovered when she was a teen and introduced to the industry who sexualized her. she was gangraped by two of the "sotto brothers": vic sotto and joey de leon.

amanda white is a producer. she worked in "good will hunting" and produced "i'm still here", "kill theory" and "the people speak". in 2008 she became a partner and producer in iam8bit, a video game publisher and artist collective company. she was sexually harassed by casey affleck.

tippi hedren is a former model, actress and animal rights activist. some of her most popular works include "the birds", "marnie" and "roar". hedren also worked as a voice actress for two different batman animated series. she is the founder of the Shambala Preserve, a wild animal sanctuary. she was mentally abused on set and sexually harassed by alfred hitchcock.

[tabbycatcarnival]

Train yourself to refer to “The World Cup” as “the Men’s World Cup”

[eliza1exe]

When I tell women that shaving contributes to the patriarchy, I'm not telling them to stop—I'm telling them to acknowledge that patriarchy has conditioned us to believe that our body hair is "unnatural" and "dirty." If body hair is unnatural, then why does it grow on our skin?

"Oh but I have sensory issues" I don't see men with hairy beards saying that. I don't see men shaving their armpits because of that.