the patron saint of lost causes

hello does someone want to come to my house and throw everything out?

yes i'm overstimulated why do you ask

hello friend I will trade you! want to come to my house and throw everything out?

I do not want to deal with my emotions about stuff I want the stuff to go away

please god yes

my stuff is a really fun cool mix of emotionally heavy stuff i cannot deal with and recycling i feel bad throwing out (either because I feel like I could upcycle/craft with it or because my city suspended recycling for a few months and i collect so much to recycle that I did not want to overwhelm the trash people when they come every other week, so stuff has slowly been piling up as i try to work through this backlog)

I will happily trade you for my mom's 30 years of teaching supplies and my dad's, mom's, and grandparents' decades of hobby supplies.

at the risk of making that second pile I mentioned worse... can I just have those??

That depends. Are you willing to put in the effort to negotiate with my mom, dad, and [late] grandparents?

woah woah woah nobody said anything about talking to PEOPLE

#so is my face #not labeling this with any of the fat fetishist tags cause it's not like that #I am fat and I love every body type I'm just extra noisy about loving my fellow fat ones cause we need to hear it

If it helps, the grandparents are much less vindictive via ouija board 🤷

alphacrone

pulling yourself up by your strap-on or whatever they say

Fat queers just please know that my lap is very very comfortable

bugshroom

Body hair hairy chest hairy stomach hairy back hairy ass hairy legs hairy arms #YES

Dear closeted queer friend from my middle and high school years who both introduced me to myself and wrecked my mental health for laughs: I love you and I hate you and I think about you all the time

uhnonymoos

"transfems can have sex life and maybe even talk about it and maybe even a lot to someone or somewhere" and "transfems existing isn't inherently sexual" is something that must coexist by DEFAULT if you see transfems as human as you see everyone else

sjowgren-deactivated20240728

this isn’t fun anymore i need a kiss

big-ender

noxidae

[ID: Post by erin._.yes:

If you are into men, they will say you are performing womanhood for the male gaze. If you are T4T, they will take it as proof that you are a deviant fetishist. If a cisgender lesbian is dating you, they will imply that you are preying on lesbians. And if you are content with a cat and a book, then they will paint you as an unfortunate incel.

Don't waste your time on someone who clothes their hate in whatever line's convenient. It's their problem, not yours.

You deserve better.

You win by being happy while they are mad. End ID.]

manuciruja

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

manuciruja

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

we gotta get back to torrent distribution, i just watched someone eat eight grand in bandwidth charges because they ran a direct-download piracy site with local file hosting through cloudflare. torrents were invented literally for this exact reason

torrents work like this

i have a file or folder on my pc that i want to share with other people. let's call it gayshit.mp3

unfortunately gayshit.mp3 is 750mb and im not paying for discord nitro so i need another way to send it

i put it into qbittorrent and it makes a torrent file. this is essentially a very small file that points to gayshit.mp3 so other computers can find it. kinda like a treasure map

i send this tiny file to my friend, who loads it into qbittorrent. their computer takes a moment to find mine over the vast expanse of cyberspace and then (as long as my pc is running and the file is still where it should be), it gets copied from my hard drive to theirs

this is the cool part: if somebody else loads that tiny file, they can download it from both of us. if i'm offline but my friend is on, the third person can still get it. this also means that if two people have separate halves of the file, they can download the other half from each other. as long as some combination of people have the pieces between them, they can all have the whole thing.

crucially this does not require a server!!! you can just upload the file to a few people and as long as they keep it, it's still accessible. as long as somebody, somewhere is still connected, it's available forever. the only way it goes away is if everybody disconnects from it.

please learn to torrent

macleod

An expert guide to get started using torrentsTorrents are one of the most popular forms of file sharing on the internet, accounting for over

always use qbittorrent, do not use bitorrent or utorrent.

kekamao

wait, why not utorrent? I'm pretty sure I've been using it since childhood but i was never explained how everything actually works in there

bittorrent and utorrent were both owned by the guy who originally invented torrents, bram cohen. he sold his company to weird crypto guys in like 2018 or somethin and they put a bunch of sketchy shit in there. qbittorrent is just objectively the best client at this point (plus it's open source yay yippee)

GIVE MEXICO A NUKE 🇲🇽 DEATH TO USA

visit-ba-sing-se

I am running a marathon with a twisted ankle and it hurts but some pain is normal, right? Everyone says it's supposed to be hard. It is a marathon after all. I am running a marathon with a twisted ankle but honestly it could be worse, right? I heard someone once finished with a broken leg. The ankle is nothing compared to that. I am running a marathon with a twisted ankle but you can get used to pain, right? The body can endure almost anything. The problem is always the mind. I am running a marathon with a twisted ankle but I made it this far, that means I can keep going, right? Everyone says it's supposed to be hard. It is a marathon after all.

hello does someone want to come to my house and throw everything out?

yes i'm overstimulated why do you ask

hello friend I will trade you! want to come to my house and throw everything out?

I do not want to deal with my emotions about stuff I want the stuff to go away

please god yes

my stuff is a really fun cool mix of emotionally heavy stuff i cannot deal with and recycling i feel bad throwing out (either because I feel like I could upcycle/craft with it or because my city suspended recycling for a few months and i collect so much to recycle that I did not want to overwhelm the trash people when they come every other week, so stuff has slowly been piling up as i try to work through this backlog)

I will happily trade you for my mom's 30 years of teaching supplies and my dad's, mom's, and grandparents' decades of hobby supplies.

at the risk of making that second pile I mentioned worse... can I just have those??