The Queer Me

[itstimetoletyouknow]

Important summer reminder:

This is important for anyone who binds, please be safe during these hot months. Drink plenty of water!

Credit to: @xanderthepander

[itstimetoletyouknow]

Thanksgiving (Holidays)

For all those out there who went home to an unsupportive family today. Those you were misgendered and called the wrong name. Those who had to lie about their significant others or lack there of. Those made to feel as there their identity is invalid. Those who had to put up with all the transphobic, homophobic shit from family. Remember those who love you, your friends who accept you for who you are. Remember there is a safe place for you. I'm sorry you don't feel that way with the people you have to spend the holidays with. Your true home, your true family is out there. You friends they are your family. Who ever comes into your life and stays, those who know you. Who love you, and cherish their time with you. Those people are your family. That is your home.

[killjoynumber27]

Binder tips

If your binder is a little hard to get on try stretching it over a kitchen chair, that usually helps

unless, it hurts when you try to put it on, then it is too small

i recommend putting your arms in first then your head, then if you can reach to your upper back and pull it down

be able to breath and move around like normal, it isn’t supposed to suppress your movement

don’t put it in the dryer

try to plan when you’re going to wash it so you don’t have to worry about it being wet when you need it

I don’t recommend taking a shower right before putting it on, it sticks to you and can hurt

That’s all I can think of for now, feel free to add to list and share. <3

[peachesfromny-deactivated202507]

PASS THIS ON.

The first transgender suicide hotline is now up and running in the U.S. You can reach Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860.

[genderqueerpositivity]

Reminder that you are the only one who can define your identity. (◡‿◡✿)

No one else can tell you who you are. Your gender identity and your sexual and romantic orientations, how ever you choose to define them, are valid. 

[stardustbxbe]

let’s hear it for the asexuals who - aren’t against sex - have sexy thoughts/dreams - develop an attraction they didn’t think they would - have sex with somebody and feel comfortable with that because none of that makes your sexual identity any less accurate and valid

[real-tired-of-yalls-shit]

Bisexuals/pansexuals in heterosexual relationships are still part of LGBTA+

[avoiding-the-parentals-deactiva]

Reblog if you're gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, transgender or a supporter.

[itstimetoletyouknow]

This should be reblogged by everyone. Even if you’re straight, you should be a supporter.

[daddy-donowitz]

protect bi kids

protect bi kids who are told “it’s just a phase”

protect bi kids whose parents are hoping they settle into a heterosexual relationship

protect bi kids who are accused of really just being gay

protect bi kids who are told they’re “just doing it for attention”

protect bi kids who are badgered by gross people asking for threesomes

protect bi kids whose identites are constantly dismissed and invalidated

protect bi kids

[elishaalexzander]

I feel like much of the world is in a social war over what gender is and is not.

I don’t feel that its my place to tell someone else what gender is. I believe that gender identity is something that an individual has to figure out for themselves. The being said, based on my personal experience with understanding my own gender identity, I can tell you what gender is not.

Gender is not the same as your sexuality. Gender does not have to define your sexuality. Gender and sexuality are two different subjects.

Gender has nothing to do with your genitalia. Gender is not defined by a doctor, despite what’s on your birth certificate. Gender identity is more of spectrum of variable options, instead of a binary with only two options.

Gender Identity & Gender Expression are not the same thing. Gender identity is part of the mental and emotional understanding of yourself. Gender expression is your style, how you’re most comfortable presenting to the outside world.

It is my belief that somewhere through out history, things like gender identity, gender expression, genitalia & sexuality somehow got all wrapped up into one single category called gender. However, it is also my belief that the people in this world are changing. Growing into a much more colorful way of thinking and understanding.

I hope the day will come when the majority will know gender to be a personal understanding of ones self, instead of an outward understanding of everyone else.

Xoxo -Elliott Alexzander

[infinipede]

“I don’t feel that its my place to tell someone else what gender is.” 

frame this quote and stick it everywhere on tumblr and in the entire world

[veganleatherdaddy-deactivated20]

Oh my god yes 😍

[lemonros]

support trans men and boys with visible breasts

not everyone can or wants to bind. just because his chest isn’t flat doesn’t mean you shouldn’t respect him.

to trans men: you do not have to bind to be valid! if you don’t have a safe way to bind or just don’t feel like it or WHATEVER, you are valid.

[nonbinary-support]

I have just figured out that I am genderfluid, and I don't know how to tell my friends my pronouns everyday, since they switch often. Sorry if this is a dumb question.

please dont use d*mb its an ableist slur.

some ppl use bracelet colors (like all u need are those rubber bracelets or just embroidery thread or hit up the dollar store or s/t) that correlate with their pronouns (pink for she/hers, purple for they/them, green for ze/hir, whatever you want!) it could be fun to sit down and set up some colors with your friends

u can also use snapchat! and just keep em updated that way :)

-emma

[transtheticsblog]

Some tips for using an STP

Having used a lot of stps in my time, I’ve learnt a few tricks along the way to just make it that little bit easier.

Here’s a little summary of tips and tricks to keep in mind when using an stp.

• Always wear snug underwear with a side slit. It’s so much easier to use an stp when you don’t need to hoik it over a waist band.

• Another good trick as far as side slit underwear goes, is to cut a small hole in the layer that sits against your skin, where the shaft sits and actually pull the shaft through this first layer. This helps with keeping the stp in place and makes using it that much easier as it doesn’t have to bend around two separately directioned pieces of material.

• You’ll notice all side slit underwear has the slit on the right seeing most of us are right handed (I’m sure lefty underwear is available somewhere but I haven’t come across it.) To further aid in easy access, I recommend wearing your stp with the shaft sitting about 45 degrees upward and towards the left. That way it sits very comfortably, won’t create any embarrassing bulges, and is very easy to access.

• Once you’ve finished peeing,there’s a good chance there’ll be some left overs in the bottom of the cup. Discretely lift the cup forward with your thumbs, so that any remainder runs straight down the shaft and out and you’ll be guaranteed it’s all cleared.

Some tips for using an STP was originally published on transthetics

[proudanimals]

Proudly

#lgbt #lgbtq #hbtq #queer #queerfashion #genderneutral #genderqueer #genderfluid #gendernonconforming #nonbinary #pansexual #bisexual #gaymodel #gay #lesbisk #lesbian #dyke #tomboy #feminist #trans #transgender #transman #ftm #mtf #dragking #dragqueen

[kropotkindersurprise]

[sentariana]

In honour of Asexual Awareness Day yesterday (which I was unaware of) I’m going make a post explaining Asexuality as best I can so as to make things clear and to raise awareness.

There are 4 different types of attraction:

Aesthetic attraction - you find someone visually pleasing and attractive...

[itstimetoletyouknow]

This is a hella awesome explanation if anyone needs it

[awesome-brick]

reblog if you are ASEXUAL, support ASEXUAL PEOPLE, or SECRETLY A DRAGON IN HUMAN FORM