Jezzi~

💖 Female~36~Ace 💖 Ask/RP blog if you squint Reblogging random things if I don't get any asks to reply to Feel free to send in questions or starters if you like! ^~^ Will likely adopt the 'RP in asks' to prevent clogged feeds

[jezziconvair]

Okies, so making a post here of different characters people can ask about or interact with

^~^

Since I have more now than just Jez, so here we go~

Façade

Wholesome Gremlin

She's typically 4'8 and has 1 1/2 foot horns, so odds are you'll be taller

She's a bit of a gremlin and prone to pranks when not working, but can be kinda mysterious if you aren't encountering her in a multiverse setting

(Art courtesy of the amazing @maiuoart

Please be sure to check out their page for more beautiful works!)

Shorthand for things about her- 💀

Melruna

The Tsundere Insomniac

Not much needed here; she's a monster through and through, but has a physical body rather than dust for reasons

Spent an extended time in a Fell timeline and it shows, but is also unfortunately illiterate and unfamiliar with technology due to this

( Art courtesy of the esteemed @black-wolf-spirit-art , be sure to go check them out! )

Shorthand- 🐾

'Bride'

Bride of Bones

An odd and possibly creepy addition to the cast, she is practically mute. She will float along aimlessly with a large ornate hourglass she seems to communicate silently with until she finds a departed Soul to follow and keep company. Certain individuals seem to captivate her.

(Art done by the wonderful @xfr3eax , be sure to check them out!)

Shorthand- ⏳

Jezzi

The Original~™

Nervous bean with a love of unusual plants and poisons. She's also very prone to caring for others, even if it gets her hurt or taken advantage of. She has an odd tendency to be 'sick' and will disappear for a day every two weeks or so, but it can't be that bad since she looks a bit healthier the following days >:3c

Shorthand- 💖

LaFayne

The Useless Anomaly

So here she is~

Mage extraordinare~

Except.... She can't really do magic

She can make little sigils and charms to a limited degree and will play at being a fortune teller, but you won't see fireballs or anything flashy from her. Funnily enough, you also can't summon her Soul out if you could on others- she's got one all right and you can sense it, but tugging too hard only gets you the sight of her bleeding from any openings like those on her face.

Don't worry though, she's got a trick most mages can't do in exchange for her shortcomings

(New icon by our wonderful @zirkkun ! Thank you again for making this for me! )

Shorthand- 🩸

April

The delicate lamia

Tiny little thing with low HP

Always covers her mouth when talking and has a heavy lisp; her 'T' and 'L' sounds are also accompanied by an inorganic clicking sound that has her wincing. Don't approach her when she's shedding, either- her temper and anxiety go through the roof.

(Picture again courtesy of @maiuoart the sweetheart!)

Shorthand- 🥀

Bwebble

The mischievous dragon

The scourge of the delta she calls home. Loves anything remotely shiny she comes across, whether it's valuable or not. A favorite of hers is pretty colored sea glass. Her tendency is to take what she wants and barter for it if she couldn't snatch it first. There's maybe 2 braincells rattling around in there, so while she doesn't default to it, she is in fact capable of limited speech. She's about the size and weight of a red panda, capable of acid breath that comes out in bubble form, and the purple sections will shift to other colors depending on health and mood

Shorthand- 🧋

(Art by @maiuoart as she's such a bean!)

And that's the list of girls~

^~^

Feel free to ask about or interact with them- Some are pretty easy to find in random locations and universes, but others not so much

If you're curious about outside perspectives on any of them, you could always hope someone over at @cafe-au-lait-21 can mention something~

>:3c

[owl-bones]

i finally drew my swapfell bros together! i've had rascal for a while but now he finally has a brother (sometimes…..)

[topgunvolleyballscene]

how often are you getting a headache

daily

weekly

monthly

couple times a year

yearly or less

Remaining time: 2 days 10 hours

[topgunvolleyballscene]

how often are you getting a tummy ache

daily

weekly

monthly

every couple months

yearly or less

Remaining time: 2 days 10 hours

[topgunvolleyballscene]

Ok so thanks for voting on this but i need you to reblog it too

[moniquill]

[taavicleric]

My personal experience with being asked this question and then given that line, is that the neurotypical person expected you to feel shame. I have some slightly less anecdotal evidence to back up this anecdotal experience. I took substitute teacher training once, and we were told that the best thing to do with middle schoolers "acting up," was to shame them, to figure out how to draw attention to them and this negative attention in front of their peers would shame them into good behaviour, or at least silence. I raised my hand, having already distinguished myself as the "weirdo" of the group, and said, "Is this the reason I spent a lot of time in the principal's office for truthfully, loudly, and clearly answering questions like, 'would you care to share your thoughts with the class?'" And was told yes, that was a perfect example, but I was the rare case where it backfires.

Since then, I have responded to that type of question with, "Do you want an explanation, or was your intent simply to indicate that I need to feel inferior, right now?" and it does tend to turn the tables a little bit.

[betterbemeta]

Be careful though; someone who does this to you likely already has decided there's only one acceptable outcome and will subordinate you no matter how you attempt to resist. It is good that sometimes the tables turn, but the majority of people who feel comfortable enough to put themselves in the position of power this way do not willingly accept a rebuke and may escalate or even become violent if you try.

Disengaging or redirecting their attention sometimes can help. Other people are very good for this and an interruption from a third party almost always de-fuses the situation. Someone trying to do this to you will often only go forward when you're alone, so try not to be if you know it's coming.

But if all else fails (it's your boss, a parent, a teacher, another authority, someone with massive social advantage compared to yourself, etc.) you may be stuck with someone who's plan A is to subordinate & punish you and they have no plan B. You may just end up taking heat no matter what and its not your fault. They are the ones who want 'an excuse' to belittle others.

[farewell-to-lorien]

Talking to Ghosts, by Sienna Gonzales.

[ahsoka-in-a-hood]

Apparently some people still need to hear this so: using an 'ai checker' is still using ai. If you are feeding someone's fic to one of these checkers, you will still not be sure their fic is ai because they are not 100% accurate, but you can be 100% sure that you are using ai. For fic. Furthermore you are doing the work of an ai scraper for them. You are, personally, feeding the machine. There is no actual excuse for using an ai checker on fanfic as a hobby. YOU are the problem.

If you think a fic is ai, mute it and move on. That's it. That's all you do.

[justangrymacaroni]

shaking women by their shoulders with all my strength, screaming YOU DONT NEED TO GET PERMISSION TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE!!!!

[justangrymacaroni]

you can choose to break up with someone for any reason. and it’s your choice. you’re allowed. you don’t need to ask for permission. you don’t even need to do it in person. you won’t get in trouble. in fact, most of the time you’ll be in trouble for fucking staying.

[justangrymacaroni]

they don’t even have to suck! you can just be tired! or bored! or want to be single! you don’t have to stay with a person you don’t want to be with because they “are such a good person and haven’t done anything wrong”!

WHY DO I KEEP TALKING TO WOMEN WHO ARE STUCK IN RELATIONSHIPS THEY DONT WANT TO BE IN

[justangrymacaroni]

with no-fault divorces currently on the fucking chopping block, we really need to start telling young women that they have autonomy when it comes to their romantic relationships.

no, you don’t have to date that guy just cuz he wants to date you.

no, you don’t have to stay with her because she doesn’t want to break up.

no, you don’t have to keep dating them even though they haven’t cheated/abused you/whatever horrible thing is your only reference for ending a relationship.

this is basic info, but you’d be surprised at how many women don’t understand this, or feel like it’s not true.

[justangrymacaroni]

and before ANYONE says that this goes for everyone, not just women, yes of course it does. anyone of any gender can suffer from this.

but let’s not deny that women are taught this shit from a young age. be virtuous, forgiving, kind, soft, turn the other cheek, it’s just cuz he’s a man and you’re a girl and you don’t understand. stay with him or you’re a bitch.

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[cheaphalloweencostume]

im trying to go to sleep but i cannotttttt stop thinking about this and laughing

[thestarsaredown]

Listen, we have to keep this thing circulating on the internet for at least another two decades, because I have to believe that one day that little girl will be grown enough to stumble upon it and She Will Explain

[holy-muffins]

We’ve made it 5 years folks

[knightshade86]

[the-east-art]

Useful image for when your internet friends have rain in their cities and you don’t

[dinomoder]

This is the best ad for Project Hail Mary I have ever seen. Like if I was on the fence about watching or reading it, this would convince me to do so.

[gay-mooshrooms]

[mimosa-sexypeople-contests-2026]

If I didn’t already watch it this would’ve got me to buy it

[taraxippos]

I think this is the single funniest artfight rule. Like....I guess?

[taraxippos]

[taraxippos]

WHO DID THIS

[eisenkrahe]

[flipocrite]

not she berry or he berry but no berry

and that is berry good

[eisenkrahe]

[flipocrite]

not she berry or he berry but no berry

and that is berry good

[feralkitten420]

"You need to relax"

Best I can do is dissociate

[lizardho]

I’m reading a book on biofeedback trainings right now and they talk about this. The words “try” or “need” add pressure to stuff. Sometimes switching from “I need to calm down” or “I’m trying to slow my breathing” to “I’m allowing myself to calm down a little more with each exhale” or “I’m giving myself permission to slow my breathing” can be more helpful. There’s a difference between “try to relax the muscle” and “allow the muscle to soften” that is significant enough that for some people it can totally change the outcome of a relaxation exercise.

For other tips and tricks, instead of asking “why” you can’t change a thought/feeling (why being an offensive question, meaning it forces you to respond defensively - in this case defending the emotion you don’t like) you can ask “is there any leeway or wiggle room with this feeling/thought/belief for something else?” Oftentimes we know multiple things at once, and by allowing for a small amount of ambiguity we can start to accept the situation more fully.

[angelvvrath]

Was just diagnosed with “need to bite you” disorder. Yeah sorry it’s terminal. The only cure is biting you. C’mere.

[draculagerard]

Gen AI is nothing special I can also draw / write badly, help you with math inconsistently, answer you dubiously, and consume amounts of water you would think are physically impossible