Human Dumpster Fire

human fucking dumpster fire. Welcome to the trash pit Sidebar by incendavery.tumblr.com not a spoiler free blog

[norvicensiandoran]

[mckitterick]

the Ides of March grows near

[adhdoofenshmirtz]

[deathgasmic]

i am completely fine in an “i have been mentally unwell for years” kinda way

[soothedcerberus]

Art of a chicken in a bonnet, good enough for a Mother's Day card!

[oneheadtoanother]

[rhymebeat]

What I like about this comic is that it doesn’t “trivialize” mental health problems in and of themselves. It’s clear that the koala IS genuinely traumatized by what’s happened. But it does emphasize that the mental health problems are a symptom of some real tangible problem that needs to be dealt with immediately.

[depsidase]

[toothbrushunicorn]

Yep. People with nothing to lose are dangerous, and right now, there's a lot of us. With the way things are going, there's going to be a lot more in the next few years. Think you can hire guards to protect you? LMAO! Those guards are also us. You are not safe and never will be again.

[notahorseindisguise]

i dont know anything sbout the backrooms as an idea but it annoys me when people put things in there. like the idea of the backrooms is creepy enough you dont need to put a fucking evil being in it. jesus christ. what ever happened to like understated horror. nowadays if it doesnt hve a big scary being in there with claws then it doesnt count as horror

[gupdoo3]

Average Taskmaster intro

Greg: And next to me is a man who once confided in me that he thinks the NHS is run by Satanist Freemasons, IT'S LITTLE ALEX HOOOOOORNE!

Alex: Hi Greg. I've decided to start raising salmon

[boybeetles]

You know technology literacy is dying because I saw this meme with 76k likes

F11 the full screen button? You’re scared of the full screen button? F10?? It opens the menu bar???

[boybeetles]

Computers are so scary what if I accidentally hit F12 in a steam game and it takes a screenshot. What if I press shift + F12 while in word and accidentally save my document 😖

[nonaferatu]

This would have had me crucified on tumblr 10 years ago but maybe we are ready for this conversation now:

If you are a socially anxious person, you have to socialize. Your panic/anxiety attacks will only get worse and trigger more frequently if you constantly avoid contact with The Public. Not saying that you need to be a social butterfly- but there is a genuine problem with not being able to order your own meal at a restaurant. And it cannot be solved by always having someone else do it for you.

This is a PSA to about 3/4s of the Portland Youth populace

[nonaferatu]

everyone who reblogs this and is like "I ordered my own tea this week" or "I only barfed once when I had to give a presentation'- you are doing amazing sweetie. Have patience with yourself, you are relearning a skill so difficult that people get 4 year degrees to do it professionally.

[tamiveldura]

You must build your exposure tolerance in all areas. Tolerance to being outside. Tolerance to existing in the presence of other people. Tolerance to chatting uselessly about nothing for 3 minutes while you wait in line as part of the social signalling that says "you and I are alike. we are not a threat to each other. Carry on" Tolerance for discomfort itself.

I'm autistic and anxious. I can very easily not leave my house for 7 continuous days. This is not something to be proud of.

We saw this tolerance drop during COVID. Coming out of lockdown a lot of my friends joked that they had become feral.

Do not fall into the trap of remaining comfortable at all times. Your circle of comfort continuously shrinks through natural decay of tolerance.

Discomfort in this instance does not mean physical pain, it means emotional and mental uncertainty and awkwardness. It means daring to navigate within your social group for an afternoon (and then sleeping for 12 hours because this is exhausting).

Honor your need for rest and recovery. Then do it again.

People die months after they retire from their jobs because they've lost their social connections. Do not inflict this on yourself.

[cute-catts]

[ziptiesnfries]

i feel like an often-overlooked downside to 10-episode seasons and the death of the "monster of the week" format is that we get way less whump variety nowadays. used to be that there'd be dozens of opportunities for your fave to get punched or kidnapped or hypnotized or what have you. these days if it doesn't fit into the main plot, it just doesn't happen. this is a tragedy. we should be protesting.

[bigassbowlingballhead]

never forget your number one audience is yourself. if you're not having fun, then what's the point?

[byjove]

I’ve given the worst 12 years of my life to this site

[byjove]

what they don’t tell you about using a website consistently for over a decade is that you’ll have multiple internet friends you’re pretty sure have died but you’ll never know because they never gave their full name. their blog is like a monument and mortuary, a snapshot into their thoughts and a time where they could still think them. either that or they’re fine and they’re no longer into Gorillaz or whatever.

[soracities]

Jack Gilbert, from “Malvolio in San Francisco”, Collected Poems

[Text ID: “Poor Orpheus who lost so much by making the difficult journey when he might have grieved easily, Who tried to go back among the living with the smell of journey on him.”]

[coriolanusbutch]

"lady macbeth was manipulating macbeth because of her own ambition to be queen" "lady macbeth never really wanted to be queen she was only doing it because she loved her husband" no you don't understand she was doing it for them. at the beginning of the play the macbeths are a team, partners in greatness, one cannot exist without the other. she doesn't want power only for herself or only for him, she wants them to rule together, equally. that's why it's so devastating when she doesn't get that, when becoming king and queen only drives them apart, because she wanted them to be partners in greatness and she got the opposite.

[willowcrowned]

the secret to life is to always use more spinach and less rice than you think you’ll need

[willowcrowned]

the second secret to life is that fresh air warm sun and a cup of tea will make your problems small enough to start handling

[willowcrowned]

the third secret to life is that violence sometimes really is the answer

[prepare4trouble]

Does anybody else track their life though a series of obsessions? Like “ah yes, i remember that happening, i was obsessing over Star Gate Atlantis at the time,” or, “this was during my Supernatural era.” I can map out my whole life in this way.