Anywhere you want

Had you never heard a bout of words like these? Never ever thought it'd sound so much like me

[nocountryforlesbians]

love is stored in the amy’s frozen meal

[sonypraystation]

how u doing

im not thinking about it

[sweetlikeacherry]

[oumaimas]

excerpt from The Book of Delights by Ross Gay (transcript under the cut)

Keep reading

[littleyellowleaves]

waiting for tea

[xjmlm]

Ellen He

[fraudbible-deactivated20201010]

I deleted your city off my weather app

[kuchipachi]

[legomydoggos]

2020 has been the year of Rogue learning and loving that he can lay in bodies of water instead of just wading and I fully support him

[ajaxbird]

bronze wing

[pastelparrotlet]

Isn’t it wonderful how you’re always finding new songs and new books and new shows and new hobbies and new places and new people to fall in love with?  There will always be things to love, as long as you stick around to find them.

[hyydraworks]

More little cows.

[greelin]

i don’t ever comment on ppl’s posts bc it feels rude but these are hands down the best things i have ever seen in my entire two plus decades of living. thank you op

[vespertineflora]

[ID: a photo of seven, presumably tiny and VERY cute ceramics cows]

[podencos]

[user64290]

DBT Skill for Relationship Maintenance

GIVE (for the relationships you want to keep)

G- gentle. Be mindful of your facial expressions/harshness in your voice. Inflections. Tone. Even in disagreement, state your claim respectfully and learn to tolerate a “no”.  I-[act] interested. be mindful of your body language. Are you looking away or at your phone? Are you furiously tapping  your shoe, waiting to counter their argument? Even if you want to do all these things, give them your undivided attention. Act as you’d want them to act if you were expressing yourself.

V-validate. As much as you crave validation right now, you need to give it to get it. Avoid words such as “but” as it will negate the validation. For instance, “I know that I messed up, but I had a bad day and you had no right to point that out to me”. 

Try “I know that I messed up and it upsets you because ______. I want you to know I had a bad day and wasn’t thinking clearly.” Big difference, right.

E-easy manner. Soften your approach. You’re angry enough to clench your teeth and scream or sad enough to close down and relapse. Ok, that’s valid. Now be objective. You feel that way, but it isn’t necessarily the reality of the situation. Save face a little bit. This isn’t about wearing a facade, its about not allowing the intensity of your emotions control the nature of the conversation.

[metagnostic-deactivated20200809]

you seem awfully upset *generously coats a klonopin in peanut butter and offers it to you* have a reesies piecies

[kitchentable]

ladies is it valid to idealize a quickly approaching uncertain future

[screenshotsofdespair]

[idleminds]

[m96k]

Your future needs you

Your past doesn’t