A fly that's trapped

Marshall, genderqueer tme, white, he/she, 26, bi (new development). Dr Pepper Enthusiast

[mousegirlheart]

[delicate-viscera]

once you start noticing how fatphobic everyone and everything is, there will never be a moment you're not filled with rage

[silvaurum]

basketball dracula isn't real dude he can't-- *sudden squeaking noises from the shadows*

[silvaurum]

*two pool toys having sex tumble by in the wind* oh thank god

[silvaurum]

*thunderous slam dunk noise*

[fallout-lou-begas]

Visit Original Link

[snoleopard7]

[tamamita]

[tamamita]

Based

[tamamita]

[tamamita]

American century of humiliation uncovering before our eyes

[polls-by-fip]

im curious about a specific generational divide

regardless of you being queer or not, did your parents ever gave you the "if you turn out to be gay it would be fine" talk, before you ever had the chance to say anything on your own about that?

gen z, yes

gen z, no

millenial, yes

millenial, no

gen x, yes

gen X, no

baby boomer, yes

baby boomer, no

Remaining time: 2 days 4 hours

because it happened to me and im wondering if this was a product of the ongoing cultural change around gay issues. before i ever had the chance to say to my parents "i am this" my mom was already sitting me aside to tell me "if there is anything you want to tell me, i want you to know ill accept you no matter what"

[sunshinemoonrx]

HUH?

Most cop thing I've ever read. what the fuck are you talking about. The posts you're looking for might be on this website but we won't show them to you???

[sunshinemoonrx]

I'm sure all my settings are set to "yes show me mature content no don't filter anything" what are you TALKING ABOUT

[sunshinemoonrx]

the posts are ON THE WEBSITE. I can't search dirty words?? am I five??? is this club penguin??? when I get you

[noticesghosts]

What the hell

[noticesghosts]

What is going on

[lonestatus]

you do notttt need spiritualism you need class consciousness

[lonestatus]

"what's your star sign?" umm it's this

[dragon-age-tournament]

Ship Tournament — Round #2 / Match 30 of 44

Anders/Varric

"Whether romantic or platonic, their relationship is so important to met okay. There's their excellent background banter, Varric paying people off to protect Anders and his clinic, and as late as Act 3, Anders is still making trips to the Hanged Man just to hang out with Varric. Then you have Anders trying to give Varric the only thing he has left of his mother's once he's clearly hit the point that he assumes is no return, and I always wonder how much did Varric beat himself up over not seeing the signs, not stepping in, not doing something more? How much of that is carried with him to his refusal to give up on Solas?"

vs. Iron Bull/Krem

"there’s already so much trust, ease, and genuine affection there. bull can be loud and outrageous and larger-than-life, but he’s also incredibly observant about the people he cares about, and krem is one of the clearest examples of that. meanwhile krem has that dry competence and steady presence that works so well with bull’s energy. what makes the pairing compelling is that it doesn’t feel like attraction out of nowhere - it feels like something that could grow naturally out of loyalty and understanding"

"- captain/lieutenant dynamic is hot asf - narrative parallels after The Demands of the Qun: Bull taught Krem how to live outside his homeland, now Krem gets to teach Bull - (or you can go super angsty with the other outcome, not my thing but lots of potential there) - trans affirming sweaty buff dude sex. And Krem tops"

Which is the better ship?

Anders/Varric

Iron Bull/Krem

Voting ended onMay 1

[dutchster]

one of my favorite hobbies is not being a parent

[philcollinsenjoyer]

do you think you could hang with jesus or was he like always on

[dogpuppy]

He is my princess diana

[mrspizzle]

I’m actually fucking dying

[3rd-r8-watrbendr]

[liarsblade]

[leftistly] [secularly] having sex causes a hard to quantify but unmistakable change in your personality and being that can be detected by others. Having sex for the first time imbues you with qualities and deep understandings that you did not have in your pre-sex state.

[liarsblade]

Tumblr user standing at the front of the classroom picking petals off of roses and crumpling and uncrumpling paper and showing you that the tape is never the same amount of sticky again after being used: -except I think this is a good thing

[orcboxer]

and the post begins

because otherwise it gets kind of visually confusing to parse, which is annoying to some folks, including me

GRANTED not everybody uses the same theme or even the same update. you might have noticed my version of tumblr is earlier than yours (I don't like the new button setup)

but still, it's just about being polite

so now you know

[kiefbowl]

I saw on insta this morning a reel of a woman who's been hosting a dinner party for friends for the past two years show snap shots of the parties each month for the last year. and I'm interested in that in general, I'd like to start hosting more. so I go into the comments and there are just some rank ass ppl saying things like "oh so you're rich rich" and "some of us don't have money." Is it fun living so miserably?

[creatureofthecornfield]

maybe im too broke but if you can afford to host a dinner party every month thats fucking rich, unless you're hosting a potluck, dinner parties are fucking expensive

[kiefbowl]

okay so what?

[creatureofthecornfield]

so what? not everyone has the fucking means to throw fancy ass dinner parties constantly, some of us are fuckin suffering.

[kiefbowl]

yeah but like why is that relevant to someone posting their dinner party. it has nothing to do with you.

[creatureofthecornfield]

you're the one criticizing poor folks for being irritated that the rich can flaunt their wealth for everyone to see constantly. if you wanna have a nice thing with friends thats fine but its for a group chat, not the public internet. rich folks need to quit showing off.

[kiefbowl]

wow you really do think the world is about you. well good luck with that

[creatureofthecornfield]

maybe if you stopped to acknowledge that its not a politically neurotypical act to flaunt wealth youd understand the irritation towards people who make it impossible to exist as a impoverished person without being reminded of how privelaged people will always have more thsn you.

[kiefbowl]

no <3

[bisexualhunterbiden]

Hang on, can we talk about "politically neurotypical" for a sec?

[biglawbear]

Holy shit people need to stop acting so fucking helpless

If you can afford a box of pasta and a jar of sauce, you can fucking host a dinner party

It's about seeing your friends and sharing a meal and time together, not "fancy" food, what the fuck do you think people are serving at a dinner party, wagyu beef?

People regularly have to figure out how to feed entire families on a budget, if a working single mom can figure out how to feed multiple children every single night for years, you can learn how to cook for your friends once in a while

Maybe you're suffering because you choose to be miserable and decide to be alone and nobody wants to be around you, not because you don't have money

Make a fucking effort good god

[doomhamster]

"Privileged people" means the sort of people who can host huge parties and hire caterers and decorators and entertainers and everything!

The kind of person who can afford to invite a few friends over, put out flowers and a tablecloth and grandma's wineglasses, and maybe cook something a bit fancier than you'd eat on an ordinary weekday? They're not "flaunting wealth". They're modelling the kind of life we should ALL be able to live.

Also "not politically neuroatypical"? To steal a phrase from my Jewish buddies, just call us the R slur, this is taking forever.

[mikkeneko]

Yeah this need for people to be constantly performing miserable poverty and scraping for gruel off the rocky ground while wearing grey hemp and bemoaning your lot in life lest you get labeled An Enemy Of The Grand Cause is not taking us anywhere good

[catchymemes]

[anjomecanico]

Start commenting "not all men" in posts saying something positive about men

[bobdylanyaoi]

i’m a fujoshi and i’m a himejoshi and im a hetjoshi i just like it when people fuck i cannot lie