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women around the world heed my call. your comfort above everything. dont put on those shoes that hurt after walking in them for 30 minutes dont wake up 1 hour and a half earlier to put on make up or do your hair dont tolerate a man talking down to you dont follow trends you dont care for dont let yourself feel hungry dont go places or do things to please someone else and most importantly. try that hobby or class or job that you think you will fail at.
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It’s done! One of the coolest pieces I’ve done so far!
She’s 2ftx2ft, 293 pieces, and many different reds 🖤
I fucking love doing massive pieces 🖤 can’t wait to design my next one. What should I theme it around?
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Honestly it boils down to reparenting yourself & rewiring your own neuronal pathways & telling yourself a firm “stop” when you notice your mind slipping down negative loopholes & being present in the moment & enjoying being mid task rather than waiting for it to end & not thinking of inertia as your baseline and natural way of living
So tempting to keep embarking on the same self destructive cycle over & over & over again . But at some point you have to put ur foot down w ur own behaviors & be the thing that truly saves u
spent MONTHS looking for this stupid tumblr post bcuz i constantly want to reference it and it wouldn't come up no matter what i searched despite it being (what i thought) was a popular well-known tumblr post only to find that the original blog turned off reblogs and deactivated and that it only got 12k notes total. but im posting it anyway to preserve its legacy
Mirror-Ball Spiders: these spiders are covered in shimmering, mirror-like panels that shift and expand as the muscles of the abdomen contract
Spiders of the genus Thwaitesia are often described as mirror-ball spiders, because their bodies are lined with reflective panels that make them look like tiny disco-balls. These arachnids are also known as dewdrop spiders or sequined spiders.
Above: two different species of mirror-ball spider
The shimmering panels on the abdomen are produced by a digestive secretion known as guanine, which seeps out through the lining of the spider's gut and forms a mosaic of crystalline cells just beneath the surface of the abdomen.
Above: Thwaitesia argentiopunctata and Thwaitesia margaritifera
The crystals shrink and expand as the muscles in the spider's abdomen contract; they often shrink when the spider is agitated, and they expand as it begins to relax.
Above: the panels expanding and contracting
The adaptive purpose of the shimmering effect is unclear, but researchers believe that it mimics the glistening appearance of raindrops or beads of dew, which could allow the spiders to blend in with their environment.
Above: another view of the guanine crystals shifting just below a thin layer of cuticle
The reflective panels may also help to confuse predators, as this article explains:
The spider’s decorative patterning may seem like a dead give-away to predators, but for those looking to feast on this arachnid, the hunt might result in confusion and failure.
“Like a disco ball with lots of different mirrors, the reflective splotches on the spider’s abdomen probably scatter light and make it difficult for predators to see it,” says Robert Whyte, an honorary researcher in arachnology at the Queensland Museum.
Above: Thwaitesia affinis
There are at least 22 known species of mirror-ball spider, and their physical features can vary significantly. In some cases, the silver panels on the abdomen are accompanied by colorful, iridescent spots and scales, and the abdomen itself may have a red, orange, green, yellow, or beige appearance.
Above: spiders of the genus Thwaitesia
These spiders are widely distributed throughout the southern hemisphere. They can be found in the tropical and neotropical rainforests of South America, Southeast Asia, Africa, Australia, India, Sri Lanka, China, Singapore, and Madagascar.
Above: Thwaitesia nigronodosa
Mirror-ball spiders are not aggressive toward humans, and there are virtually no recorded cases of humans being bitten by the spiders of this genus. They're also tiny, with most individuals measuring just 2-4mm long (roughly 1/10th of an inch), which means that their fangs are often too small to penetrate human skin.
Above: Thwaitesia margaritifera
Sources & More Info:
iNaturalist: Mirror-Ball Spiders
Australian Geographic: This Sequined Spider Glistens in the Light
My Modern Met: The "Mirror Spider" and its Changing Mosaic of Reflective Panels
A Field Guide to the Spiders of Australia: Tiny Forest Jewels: Spectacular Thwaitesia Spiders
Science Friday: How is a Spider Like a Disco Ball?
Land for Wildlife: Spider Sampling Points to a Potential Indicator Genus (PDF)
Royal Society Publishing: The Spider Cuticle
BBC Science Focus: Mobile Disco
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Ellen Bass and Laura Davis, The Courage to Heal, 1988
["If Not Sex, How About.... : Ellen's Story
When my lover began to say no to sex on a regular basis, I quickly realized that it wasn't okay with me for her to simply say no, turn over, and go to sleep. I wanted something, even if I couldn't have sex. And the closer to sex the better. If she couldn't do that, I wanted her to take a bath with me. If that was too threatening, maybe she could give me a massage. And if that was too much, then maybe we could go for a walk and hold hands. And so on.
Also I didn't want to have to ask for it. Asking and having her say no was difficult enough. I wanted the next move to be hers.
"I want you to offer me something," I told her, "anything you feel you can give. You can say, 'No, I don't want to make love but I'd like to kiss a little,' or 'No, but I love you very much,' or 'No, but I'll rub your back.'"
This was hard for her. When she said no she felt guilty. It was difficult to offer something else, and to her, the offerings felt pitifully small compared to actually having sex, which is what she knew I really wanted. Often when she said no, she was in her own turmoil— which was why she said no in the first place— and she resented having to deal with my feelings at all. Now I was asking her to give even when she didn't really want to, to stay aware that there were two of us in this relationship.
It didn't develop smoothly, but my lover gradually learned to offer something when she didn't want to make love. One morning after a particularly bad night she said, "Would you like me to make you breakfast?" I didn't really want her lousy breakfast. I wanted sex. But she had offered something as much as she was capable of giving at the time. I knew she was sincere. "Yes," I said. And we ate omelettes together while Tina Turner sang "Let's Stay Together" on the radio. We both cried. And I learned that there were ways to stay close, to feel nurtured and loved, that weren't sexual."]