So I have this friend who read The Name of the Wind a while ago and her former friend used to be a big fan like me, so sometimes we talk about the series. And she brought up a point I had not considered and apparently is a common thought about the series: Kvotheās time with Felurian made him a man. And she asked me what I thought about that, and here are my thoughts.Ā
So we can all agree, Kvotheās time in the Fae world change him. He becomes more adult and even more jaded than he was, as proven by his time later spent with the Adem and the fake Edema Ruh. However, while Felurian and all that sex contributed to how he changed, I think the Ctaeth and defeating Felurian (temporarily) are what truly changed him.Ā
Disclaimer: I hate that people associate sex and becoming an adult. It seems quite strange and convoluted to me, but thatās not what matters here.Ā
The Cthaeh tells Kvothe some of the worst things in his life. It tells him how his parents died, he tells him about Denna being beaten. These truths further broke Kvothe and then he grew because of it. That was a far more impactful moment than the majority (if not all) of his time with Felurian.Ā
The heartbreak of what Kvothe has learned, about his parents and about Denna completely shake his word view. He may have suspected before but the Cthaeh confirmed his worst nightmares and forced him into the dark reality of his life, even more so than before. This emotional toll reworks Kvotheās mindset, not to mention the unknown influence it has on him that we learn later from Bast. Did you ever think Kvothe might not have killed that fake Edema Ruh troupe if he hadnāt had met the Cthaeh? He might have found a more humane way of saving them without his familyās deaths so fresh in his memory. Hmmmmm⦠just food for thought.Ā
Felurian also taught him magic, fae magic. He made his shaed with her. He then learns her true name. and defeats her with magic. This shows how his intellect has grown, not just that, but how to use the knowledge he has gained, from a combination of Ben, Elodin, and Felurian.Ā
Kvothe now has more knowledge and power than he has ever had before and he knows how to use it. The fact that this is paired with him losing his virginity is probably more a cue to the reader that he is becoming a man, but not because of the sex, because of the Fae. And it has less to do with sex and more to do with knowledge and power.
Iām sure many people disagree with me on this, but hey, itās personal interpretation, and thatās one of the best parts of books, right?Ā