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stupid dumb bastard

[medievalthymes]

bro your whimsy. you forgot your fucking whimsy. your solemn and somber attitude is scaring the hoes

[pocblog]

[hamlindigo]

This picture is making me nauseous .

[hamlindigo]

[mercuryfountain-deactivated2024]

Someone with faggot in their URL just tagged one of my posts #q slur

[shiyorin]

Two moods

[sosuperawesome]

Fruit Dinos // Ceramicorn

[yeahiwasintheshit]

[testosteronetwunk]

[zvaigzdelasas]

10D Chess

[ri5k]

everybody wants to be the perfect victim but the truth is that abuse and trauma make you a worse person (and that's okay). we can all readily admit to depression and anxiety but what about exaggerated self importance in the form of neuroticism, or how believing in your own victimhood makes you think your feelings are more important than others'? what about envy and jealousy, and constant distrust? what about volatile emotional reactions, however you justify them to yourself? these things actually hurt real people who matter. i am guilty. i want to change.

[cazort]

the narrative of growing and becoming stronger and a better person, from having gone through abuse and trauma, is one that you adopt as a survivor as part of a healing process. it's not a given, it doesn't just happen for free, it's a conscious choice that involves commitment and hard work and it does not come easily and the progress is not linear

most importantly it's not an inevitability. the laziest path out is sometimes slipping into the negatives like the above post

it's not that one narrative is truer than the other. it's that you have to fight and work and struggle to make the better narrative become the truer one. and even then, when you win, it has just become truer for you, not for all the other victims out there. and i say "truer" because we all still struggle with things sometimes, no one is perfect and no emotional healing process is perfect

[jasperjv]

Um I don't know. I don't know

[grox]

[girlnephew]

[serial-unaliver-deactivated2024]

💀💀💀💀💀

[dakt37]

Hey, if you're a minor and you're following my blog, I just need you to be aware:

You have been on this earth for fewer years than my cat has.

She turns 20 this week, everyone please say happy birthday 🥳💖

[dakt37]

Update! She tolerated wearing a hat for the occasion ✨

[dakt37]

Good news, everyone!! 🎉

[dogmotif-deactivated20240505]

when someone says "why would you want a physical copy of that? you can just stream it" i physically recoil. a feeling of dread comes over me like an evil spirit just passed through my body

[theblackparadeisdead]

I was meant to be a character in a low budget horror movie in 2005 wearing a short sleeved shirt over a long sleeved shirt to signify to the audience that I am an enjoyer of music

[gifmovie]