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I don't think there's a single nation with more right to this proverb than Haiti
so do people know that multiple trans people across the US have reported that their pharmacists have arbitrarily denied them testosterone prescriptions, either because "you need authorization" or "company policy" or, in states where its legal, because they don't feel comfortable giving it to them.
i wouldn't be surprised if its also common for this to happen with estrogen, i found one news story on a trans woman experiencing this, but looking it up there seems to be a LOT of cases of this happening with testosterone. which makes me suspect people feel empowered to do this with T in particular because of its criminalized status. regardless, i do not see this brought up much! and i think we should discuss it more, at the very least to prepare people in case they experience this, so they know how to handle the situation.
examples below the cut for length:
CVS for years refused to sell me the needles I need for my T injections (prescription was not required, but they lied and said one was), would say they were out of stock (not when I see the box right there), loudly asked why I need my T when other patient convos were done quietly or not at all, deliberately gave me insulin needles (I need much larger) or sometimes only 1 needle for a multi-dose prescription. (Even for 1 dose, you should have at least 2 needles -- one to draw with and one to inject.) They also "dropped" my vial a few times.
Any one of these could be ignorance/accidents, but these each happened multiple times from 3 locations.
If your clinic does its own dispensing, I highly recommend switching to that for your prescription. If you are worried about needles, get your provider to include the needle info on the scrip. And if you *really* have issues with the needles, buy them in bulk online.
Picking up from @verkool’s post showing George Martin in drag. From a modern perspective, it’s easy to lose sight of the way cross-dressing, for cis men, was often very straight-coded in 20th-century Britain.
There’s a long tradition of male comedians playing female roles in British Christmas pantomime shows: the pantomime dame is a huge British theatrical tradition. It feeds into British sketch comedy (just think how often the Monty Python team play women) and was a staple of mainstream British light entertainment. And that fed into non-professional comedy too. The George Martin photo shows him performing a skit his time in the Fleet Air Arm during the war, and was the kind of thing you could expect to see at any soldiers’ entertainment.
Rochelle Sherona and Clive Rowe in the Hackney Empire’s Christmas pantomime in 2021. Rowe has played Hackney’s pantomime dame for 30 years, and was nominated for a BAFTA for it. John’s Thisbe wig is clearly in the same tradition.
It varies hugely, but those performances often enforced gender definitions rather than pushing them. “Man in a dress” jokes affirm heterosexuality: look how big and butch he looks in this frilly outfit! In George Martin’s wartime skit, I’d guess that he was picked to play the ballerina because he was so tall, and therefore less girly. We know Paul was considered for Thisbe in the Shakespeare sketch, before he and John swapped roles. I suspect that’s because John made it look straight-coded, where Paul’s androgyny might have landed differently. But John is definitely ticking some of those “affirming heterosexuality” boxes: it’s why his dress is cut to show off his “manly” biceps. (I think it’s quite likely that Paul’s Hamburg pink nightie was straight-coded too. Sorry.)
In 20th-century Britain, this was assumed to be straight.
Of course, some of the men putting on dresses for entertainment were queer. The comic tradition gave them plausible deniability, as well as space to play with gender. Scottish comedian Stanley Baxter, one of the biggest names in British light entertainment in the 1970s and 80s, was celebrated for playing female roles (the queen and Marlene Dietrich were favourites). He came out in 2020, at the age of 94. He’s a good example of how drag could read as Very Much Not Queer in 20th-century Britain. Baxter presented as straight: he was married, had an understanding with his wife, and was very protective of his personal life. In the 1990s, he was offered a role in the Harry Potter movies, but turned it down because he feared that it would lead to tabloid attention and being outed. That was too big a risk, but drag was safe.
At least one of these looks was scandalous.
We know that Paul considered drag for his Gotta Dance routine, and I’ve seen tumblr framing that as “what we missed”. But by the standards of the time, the routine he did was odder and riskier, because it doesn’t fit into the man-in-a-dress framework. For comparison: a friend told me that her dad harrumphed when he first saw Marc Almond on television. Almond’s black polo neck and eyeliner read as blatantly queer - where a full drag outfit wouldn’t scandalise homophobic audiences, because it could be framed as a joke. (This suggests why the Beatle moptop, which looks pretty short to me, was scandalously gender-bending. Going slightly over the line can be more shocking than something more extreme, because it can’t be passed off as comedy.)
This didn’t necessarily travel. When Queen did the video for I Want To Break Free in 1984, they decided to do drag based on long-running British soap opera Coronation Street. In Britain, nobody batted an eyelid: that’s a standard comedy routine, nothing to see here. (If anything, the Nijinsky-inspired ballet sequences were more obviously queer, and sheltered by the drag.) But it read very differently in the US. “All around the world people laughed and they got the joke and they sort of understood it,’ May said in 2010. “I remember being on the promo tour in the Midwest of America and people’s faces turning ashen and they would say, ‘No, we can’t play this. We can’t possibly play this. You know, it looks homosexual.’”
Which makes me wonder about the cheerleader drag that the men of Wings wore in New Orleans in 1975. That lineup was mostly British (Paul, Denny, Jimmy McCoullough), so they’d all have grown up with this comic tradition. But they wore those outfits in America. Did they know the difference (as Brian May clearly didn’t)? What was the reaction in New Orleans? Was it what they expected? Was it what they wanted?
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This work is about the joy and freedom that come with deconverting from an oppressive religion. I hope you enjoy!
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watching people on this post give the absolute worst advice about photos at protests is why I play avoid-the-camera so diligently and I am prepared to smash cameras at all times
part of my role is going to people and gently saying "hey please stop taking photos of people without their consent. that can be dangerous for the people in the photos and you were asked not to at the start of the rally/march" and I have had people threaten to punch me over it so........
just stop taking photos. I don't care if they're "just for you" or if you "plan to redact them" you have no idea what situation someone is in and your photos will never be secure. if you want to take a photo just ask people in it first.
and of course they're always like "well what about those people taking photos" and I explain that "those people are known to our community and know who does and doesn't want a photo. people have already consented or not consented at past events to that person's photos and they know this" or "thanks for pointing that out I will talk to them too because they also should not be taking photos." this also, of course, does not solve the conflict and they continue taking photos anyways.
I have my own tactics for stopping photos when someone refuses that don't involve smashing cameras but they tend to escalate things anyways.
just stop. I'm so tired. just stop.
ALSO, JUST FOR THE RECORD!!!! If you are refusing to stop taking photos of people you look like a cop.
my personal philosophy is that. we as a society like to pretend that the human brain is a machine for extracting truth, when in fact it is a machine for keeping a monkey alive and happy (in that order), and human behavior needs to be understood through that lens
#a human brain is first and foremost made to use as little energy as possible while keeping you alive#so it will take all shortcuts necessary and looking for the truth is often too energy consuming - important addition from @maenara
Researchers are announcing that a 53-year-old man in Germany has been cured of HIV.
Referred to as “the Dusseldorf patient” to protect his privacy, researchers said he is the fifth confirmed case of an HIV cure. Although the details of his successful treatment were first announced at a conference in 2019, researchers could not confirm he had been officially cured at that time.
Today, researchers announced the Dusseldorf patient still has no detectable virus in his body, even after stopping his HIV medication four years ago.
Unbelievably fucking cool
A twice-yearly shot has shown to be 100 percent effective in preventing HIV infections in a study of women, and published results show it wo
Between that and new preventative shot, we might be able to eradicate HIV in the near future.
Do not forget this. No matter what happens do not forget we’re this close to finally ending this awful virus
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Btw, privatization is stealing from *you.* You are the public in "publicly owned." Oligarchs are coming in to take the things we all share ownership of as Americans, like Medicare, Social Security, National Parks, PBS and scrapping them for parts they find profitable.
The right is planning to rob us and quite literally want us to thank them for the privilege by calling it "government efficiency."
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there’s a decent amt of neurologists who’ve called the sleep schedules we’re obligated to be on despite flagrant conflict with our natural circadian rhythms “borderline torture” and the work hours we’re expected to put in despite the fact that the average person can only maintain maximal efficiency and focus for 3 hours at a time “nearly inhumane” and i think about that a lot
Donald Trump wants people to expose diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts in the federal government. The idea is already flopping.
The threat was loud and clear: Report your so-called “DEI” employees or else. What exactly “DEIA or similar ideologies” means is up in the air, but the message was out there. And so was the email address of the DEIA snitching hotline. Fake emails quickly started to roll in. ‘I don’t care, fuck these McCarthyite bastards,” one BlueSky user said, with an screenshot attached of an email to the hotline where he ironically reported Donald Trump and JD Vance for being “put in their positions solely because of their race and/or gender despite the fact that they are wholly unqualified for their jobs and, in some cases, have criminal records.” “Anyone have a script to fire off a billion e-mails an hour??” another user asked in the replies. “Anyone can email anything of any size even if it crashes the site,” one X user noted. The scope and effectiveness of this latest phase of Trump’s anti-DEI crusade remains to be seen.
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MAKE IT UTTERLY UNUSABLE :D
The email is [email protected] btw
Don't just spam it today. Keep spamming it until they shut it down. Spam it for weeks, months, however long it takes. Queue this post to reblog periodically to remind other people. Set reminders on your phone or calendar to send Trump bullshit. Treat this like a challenge and win it
Don't let the momentum die down. Don't allow the tipline to become useable in a few weeks when this post stops spreading. Don't allow them to harm vulnerable people on your watch
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it does still make me insane specifically how many queer people lovingly embrace astrology. I went to a poetry workshop yesterday that was genuinely quite good but also included an option to disclose astrology designations during introductions and so many people broke out some variation of "I'm a [x] sum but I have a [y] placement and it SHOWS" girl no it doesn't. that's meaningless correlation you completely invented the causation
I'd say that rejecting biological determinism in favor of space gas determinism isn't the slay the astrology queers think it is but if I'm being completely honest I fear that many members of our community haven't even really rejected biological determinism so much as sprinkled a layer of glitter on it
The point I hope y'all are getting tbh
50 Terms of Endearment
This selection of words used as terms of endearment over the past thousand years shows several items that have stood the test of time, notably darling and dear, and some recurring motifs, such as those from the semantic fields of taste and the animal kingdom. But several belong to their own time: bawcock and bully, for example, are encountered in Shakespeare.
darling (c. 888) ⚜ dear (c. 1230) ⚜ sweetheart (c. 1290)
heart (c. 1305) ⚜ honey (c. 1375) ⚜ dove (c. 1386)
cinnamon; love (c. 1405) ⚜ mulling (c. 1475) ⚜ daisy (c. 1485)
mouse (c. 1520) ⚜ whiting (c. 1529) ⚜ fool (c. 1530) ⚜ beautiful (1535)
soul (c. 1538) ⚜ bully (1548) ⚜ lamb (c. 1556) ⚜ pussy (c. 1557)
ding-ding (1564) ⚜ lover (1573) ⚜ pug (1580) ⚜ mopsy (1582)
bun (1587) ⚜ wanton (1589) ⚜ ladybird (1597) ⚜ chuck (1598)
sweetkin (1599) ⚜ duck; joy (1600) ⚜ sparrow (c. 1600)
bawcock (c. 1601) ⚜ nutting (1606) ⚜ tickling (1607)
bagpudding (1608) ⚜ dainty (1611) ⚜ flitter-mouse (1612)
pretty (1616) ⚜ old thing (c. 1625) ⚜ duckling (1630) ⚜ sweetling (1648)
pet (1767) ⚜ sweetie (1778) ⚜ cabbage (1840) ⚜ prawn (1895)
so-and-so (1897) ⚜ pumpkin (1900) ⚜ pussums (1912)
treasure (1920) ⚜ sugar (1930) ⚜ lamb-chop (1962)
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