Why Are You Here?

Adult (27) autistic nonbinary person. Call me Seven They/them

[isuggestyouthliberation]

trans men and transmasc children exist and you can't make jokes ignoring a section of the youth while claiming to advocate for our liberation as a whole. either you care about and advocate for all youth or don't truly care about the youth at all - just the youth that fit the right criteria for you.

sincerely a transmasc minor.

tell this to every girl sexually harassed by boys her age, ever black child called slurs and attacked by their classmates.

tell this to me, as a transfem minor, facing misogyny and rumormongering after my friendgroup of transmascs decided to out me.

standing with the most vulnerable parts of a class isn't being selective. it's essential to our projects of liberation.

[livingvampiregod]

As a trans masc, I WAS a sexually harassed little girl. Hell, I didn't even realize my identity until I turned 20! Are you going to look me in the eyes and say I'm privileged for being sexually harassed and assaulted?

Erasing my past to push a narrative is gross, but it's even grosser that you're turning this into trans fem vs trans masc.

Your blatant disregard for part of your community shows your ignorance and transphobic behavior.

You're not anything better than us, you're not above us, and you're not going to shove us back into the closet with your fucking bigotry.

[i-suggest-transing-your-gender]

the this-is blogs abt transandrophobia dont have their askblogs open here rn so im here but this is transandrophobia right?

This is transandrophobia AND weird as hell

[cock-holliday]

Noooo youth lib account, don't imply that people being infantilized by their attackers are actually infantilizing themselves and so mocking them for it is okay, you are literally the youth lib account

Noooooooo youthlib account stop extrapolating positionality on a whole group from your interpersonal experience with shitty friends. Your asshole friendgroup being assholes does not make them your oppressor, and shitty people weaseling out of accountability for being shitty is STILL not the same as inherent oppressor status NOR proof that people removing the autonomy of trans men is the same as someone being a shithead.

I am aware that anecdotes are not proof of something being universal, but if that's what we've decided is the Truth, then lemme say how every single transmasc I know WAS a "girl sexually harassed by boys (her) age." "every black child" are there no Black transmascs???

Youth lib and the transmasc portion of trans liberation have so much personal overlap--as a youth yourself you MUST be exposed more than most to how this is true, do not let interpersonal beef create reactionary impressions of your fellow oppressed people.

[a-polite-melody]

It’s also wild to me to be acting like this when like…

Trans people often didn’t get to experience childhood experiences the way they wanted to. It’s extremely common for trans adults to do childish things to make up for experiences that they lost in their childhood.

Trying to make some haha funny mocking post about any trans people “appropriating” child culture when we know the phenomena of re-parenting and letting yourself experience things you didn’t when you were young among trans people are extremely common is a bad look at best.

[infectiouspiss]

trans people don't need to hear your justifications for still enjoying harry potter in 2026 stop looking for forgiveness where you're not going to get it

[infectiouspiss]

if i walk into your house and see harry potter stuff, i'm just gonna assume you're a transphobe. no amount of "i got it from a charity shop" can save you from the fact that you value those books enough to display them in your home.

you can't just put the work of someone who's currently trying to eradicate trans people on display without being questioned about it, especially if you claim to care about us.

same goes for your social media, if you're willing to keep putting jkr's work on a podium and proudly talking about it, then it's simply logical to believe that you don't care about other people. it's selfish if i'm being honest, to think that your comfort matters more than the lives of millions.

[infectiouspiss]

and to the trans people saying that they're "reclaiming harry potter for the trans community"

no you're not, you can't do that while jkr and her neo nazi friends are currently trying to kill you. you need to let go or else your own community won't be happy to help you when our collective rights are stripped further away.

[infectiouspiss]

trans children in the uk are killing themselves because of the things jkr has done.

children are dead. children who should be happy and free to be themselves are fucking dead because jkr has used her immense wealth and social power to change laws specifically to harm trans people. if you really think that your fucking "comfort characters" are more important than the lives of children then you should say that with your full chest. go on. tell the entire world that you don't give a fuck about dead kids. that you don't have an ounce of empathy in your disgusting shrivelled heart, because you still have your shitty fucking books and your garbage movies. your comfort matters more than anything, doesn't it? maybe jkr will tell you you're one of the good ones, wouldn't that be nice?

[squeakadeeks]

some nights by fun really is the most 2012 song ever because its like: "the US government didnt give a fuck about the soldiers it sent to kill and be killed all for politicking points. the whole thing was a farce, costing countless people their lives. also heres a 30 second autotune vocal solo where i just kind of make sounds into the mic for a bit with a crazy filter."

[b0tster]

lesbians making out video but with reduced music so u can hear them making out sloppy style. happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈🔊

[pinniposting]

such loud smacks

[bi-the-way-drbloom]

@oblivionsdream POV: Skye giving Tiernan his breakfast

[oblivionsdream]

Yesss! It's the happy slaps for me

[battle-for-dyke-island]

dear fellow autistic people: if you consistently come out of doctor’s appointments feeling emotionally (and sometimes physically) hurt, but you feel bad for feeling hurt because “the doctors were being nice”, the doctors were not being nice.

this is something I had to learn the hard way. doctors often dress up their words all pretty so you can’t sue them. I, for a long time, mistook this as genuine kindness. It’s not. It’s just being professional. even if they didn’t call you a slur or anything that doesn’t mean they weren’t ignoring your needs.

trust what your body and emotions tell you. if you are feeling hurt, there is a reason, and you need to listen to it. please listen to it.

[cheaphalloweencostume]

oh you actually don’t even know at all how stupid this sounds. nvm conversation over

[livingvampiregod]

"If you don't like corporations stealing from small creator, you should really side with the corporation this time for some reason."

[bumblebeebats]

Why is it that every time I google something like "Are olives poisonous to cats" the top results are always like "Fun fact: Cats are carnivores! This means that they eat meat. There is no reason to include olives in a cat's diet. You should feed your cat cat food, which is dry or wet food especially designed for cats. You can purchase this at a store." like is there a single person alive on the planet who's googled "Are blueberry muffins safe for cats" because they're planning on switching their cat to a muffin-only diet??? No, I'm asking because the little bastard somehow popped open the packet while I was putting away the groceries and dragged one under the couch before I could react and now I need to know if I should call the after-hours vet. "Cats should not eat spaghetti." NO SHIT, SHERLOCK!!!! "Try to keep human food away from cats." i live in a studio apartment with a completely silent and permanently hungry apex predator who has the intelligence of a toddler and the desperate Machiavellian cunning of a creature who spent his formative months on the streets. He can already open doors and he is this 👌 close to learning how to open the microwave. He is stronger than me and covered in knives. So im gonna do my best but for the moment i just need you to tell me whether this yoghurt is going to kill my son y/n

[spectralhauntings]

I've been using the pet poison hotline's poison list cause it has a search function. It also tells you whether something is mildly, moderately, or severely toxic which can be very handy! It doesn't contain like everything but it might be a good place to start, it also includes plants for fellow houseplant lovers <3

Explore Pet Poison Helpline®s vast knowledge on poisons by reviewing our pet poison list. Explore our top 10 poison and holiday poison lists

[littlemousling]

For plants specifically, there’s also a wildly detailed set of posts and listings about toxicity on the old, wonderful, Plants Are the Strangest People blog

[cheaphalloweencostume]

Patagonia is posting notes app social media half-added apologies over their lawsuit 😭😭😭

[cheaphalloweencostume]

i mean. i’ll always side with the human over the company anyway. but these are markedly different

[cheaphalloweencostume]

guys, she can keep performing, she just has to cow to the brand and give up her identity and redesign all her shit despite the fact that they’re both named after a geographical region! the brand simply MUST have first dibs and then the human can live her little life or whatever!! why are you guys so excited to suck corporate boot? am i going fucking crazy? again?

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

hi, this is broadly a very real issue, but not at play here! Pattie Gonia is a drag queen, not a trans woman. out of drag, educator Wyn Wiley is a gay man who uses he/him pronouns, and Pattie's pronouns are she/they.

[sodomit]

Tired of being witness to this conversation.

[livingvampiregod]

Story about my mom (she's completely supportive and well educated now but this was b4 I started HRT)

Anyway warning for alluding to TERF shit

When I first approached my mom about being on HRT she immediately came back with tons of TERF rhetoric. Basically that it was a dangerous choice. Then she said, basically, I should get mental health help before I started any medical transitioning.

Not only was I upset and appalled at how transphobia reached my socialist mother, but genuinely hurt she thought it was okay to insinuate I wasn't trans, just mentally ill.

Since then she has been incredibly understanding and one of my biggest allies/supporters.

Now she'll just adopt my lil trans friends.

[phosphorusab]

I hate this saccharine, cloying, infantilizing way trans men are talked down to by their own community when speaking about the words they choose to describe their experiences and oppression

‘Oh yes, you do experience a valid intersectional form of oppression - but you’re just so fucking stupid, that you’ve chosen a terrible word to articulate your experiences. So we aren’t going to listen to anything you say! You’re just so silly and stupid, you can’t possibly be trusted to articulate your own thoughts and experiences, let alone be trusted to do your own research. In fact, don’t even think or talk at all! Leave all the thinking and talking to the smart people whose suffering actually matters.

Also, no your experiences aren’t unique at all, negating the previous statement of you experiencing a valid intersectional form of oppression’

The tone of voice is no different than when people try to manipulate trans men into detransitioning - overly sweet, infantilizing and concerned while also being incredibly backhanded and demeaning

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now

[techiekittie]

God forbid women do anything omfg. When transfems try to explain delicately and nicely they’re being “infantilising”, when they’re direct and serious they’re “rude” and “aggressive”.

Nothing will ever be good enough. I just roll my eyes at this shit now.

[livingvampiregod]

Honestly the fact this is exactly what the post was talking about is crazy.

You made up that he was talking about transfem's AND equated them to just women.

Not only do nonbinary trans fem people exist, but you're a piece of shit for making it seem like OP was ever talking about anything other than the transandrophobia trans mascs and trans men face from asshats like you.

[tanookitalez]

for every banger post the terminally online girl makes, there are 20 more equally as obtuse, deranged, and unpalatable to the average person. this is the natural order of things

[tanookitalez]

no matter the post, the terminally online girl will ALWAYS be plapable

[niggazinmoscow]

THIS RIGHT HERE

[afronerdism]

You guys are dangerously close to realizing specifically what kinds of people they keep from voting and why.

[molothoo]

I want to drill this into everybody’s head:

The United States of America has the highest prison population in the world

Black Americans and Latin people make up the majority of this population (many of whom are non-violent offenders)

Federal Prisons in America require that their state keeps their prisons at a maximum occupancy at all times.

The 13th amendment did not entirely abolish slavery…just one form of it. It remains legal through industrial prison system

[scretladyspider]

Oh and we have privatized prisons which allow companies to actually make money off of keeping people incarcerated 

[dantalaois]

[odinsblog]

Here’s what’s really perverse: prisoners, who cannot vote, still get counted in the U.S. Census. The more prisoners a county has, the more representation it gets, even though the prisoners cannot vote. See how that works? The more black and brown people they lock up, the more government resources and political representation they get. Even though those prisoners have no say and cannot vote.

If county-A has a population of 50 voters but no prisons, and county-B has a population of 50 voters and 50 prisoners, the county with the prisoners gets more government funding and more political represention. This is sometimes called “prison gerrymandering” and it is used in redistrictring.

Not so fun Fact: Southern states that reliably vote for Republicans also have the highest prison population in the United States. (source). So mass incarceration is a double whammy. It’s both a form of voter suppression and a tool to strengthen white people’s political power.

[isuggesteatingtherich]

i have a suggestion

[i-suggest-landback]

me too

[i-suggest-prison-abolition]

Me three

[isuggestanarchism]

me four

[ndnbutch]

personally I am of the opinion that vegans who are like “the way our food system currently works under capitalism on a large scale is exceptionally cruel to all animals including humans and is not sustainable, so I’m doing what I can to make the most ethical choices available to me about what I eat and encourage others to do the same” are generally very reasonable people who I agree with in spades. but vegans who seem to think human beings are not themselves animals who are ultimately also part of the food chain but instead some kind of other paternalistic higher entity that can never engage in ethical and sustainable hunting practices (and especially the fringe I’ve seen who think other carnivorous animal predators are also evil and need to be eliminated) are people I regard as foolish at best if not actively anti-indigenous and racist

[dynamaxed]

hi! carey means needs help still - he's the voice actor for frylock in aqua teen hunger force! adult swim screwed him badly and pays no residuals and barely paid him during the show's run. he has heart failure and survives on con earnings, plushie sales, and donations while waiting for disability to get back to him. posts used to make the rounds for him, but haven't in a while, so i wanted to make a new post!

if you'd rather buy a plushie - here's the shop he and his wife run!

[firecrystals]

update: CAREY MEANS AND HIS WIFE ARE HOMELESS AS OF A FEW DAYS AGO

his wife also been in an accident and has been down and out due to illness and injury

ppal + gfm + site shop

[laterkiss]

happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈