1. have you gone on any trips, when and where?
2. do you have a favorite piece of work, whether it is art or a piece of literature?
3. what are some pet peeves of yours?
4. what do you often do to calm yourself down?
5. you've talked a bit about being a projective yan, what are some methods you can think of to turn your partner into the ideal for you?
along with that, how would you deal with a partner who knew what you were doing? or in general knew when you were being intentional with manipulating them. ^^
6. how would you start to establish control in the beginnings of a relationship, and how does that differ from let's say... a 5+ year relationship with your beloved? is it more strict, more lenient with trust?
7. do you pivot between obsessions a lot, or does it take a long time to fully move on? or can it depend?
8. which of the five senses do you lead with most?
9. how do you expect to be spoiled by your darling, since you are more inclined to be worshipped? what would make you worship like a pathetic dog would?
10. how do you feel after finding secretive information about your darling through stalking? is it better if they come to you with their secrets?
similar to that, do you prefer stalking or simply asking directly about your darling?
heh.. no need to google questions to ask. my big brain is well enough !! ( • ᴗ - )
HIHI!! actively twirling my hair..
1. i have! i've gone to disneyland, france, guatemala, and ethiopia. a lot of them were from before i was 10, truthfully. i don't remember a whole lot... but i do remember i got to meet my biological family in guatemala. that was pretty cool. ^^
2. ahh not that i can think of! i do really like the starry night over the rhone.. by van gough. i am basic, gulp. i think it's just really pleasing to the eyes... hehe.
3. when people slam things around intentionally, loud chewing, ragebait, and jealousbait. guhhh. </3 loud noises irk me so bbad and make me want to explode.
4. tough one! i usually tough it out... hehe. some things that have helped in the past are being with someone, fidgeting with someone's hands or just playing with their fingers to distract myself from my body.
5. thinks... a lot of the time, i'll only be interested in people who are very, very close to my ideal! if there's something i want to tweak, i wait until later to act on it. it's usually over pet peeves or little icks i get. or if they have a way of doing something that's completely different than how i do it, i do tend to get a bit bossy and claim that only my way's the right way to do it. if they're aware, it depends on if they're willing to "go along with it" or hmm.. i'd try to change methods or hide it. i'm a bit rusty, i admit.. if they had an issue i'd probably try to make them feel bad for misplacing my judgement. i am half asleep sorry sob!!
6. in the beginning, it takes me a while to start placing myself in control! it starts with little things, disguising anything i want them to do as a suggestion or idea. it does eventually start turning from "if you'd like" to "do it" if you get what i mean. i tend to get more controlling the deeper and longer the relationship, however, i'll be willing to discuss rules based on the amount of trust gained over the years.
7. i don't! i honestly have a few strong positions on switching between obsessions quickly.. it's not something i do or enjoy. it takes me a while to move on, potentially a couple years depending on how deep the relationship was.
8. touch. ahh.. truthfully, that may partially be because i'm a little silly. touch and texture goes hand in hand, i fidget and feel things randomly, i'm not sure how to describe it. being able to feel or hold anything matters a lot to me.
9. hehe... praise does a lot for me. i've always preferred words of worship, doesn't matter if it was written or said verbally. i do also enjoy physical gifts as an offering. hm, i think i tend to worship the most if my obsession were to be upset with me. that's when i start to get a little desperate, desperation coating my tongue. along with that, i'll also just have really intense, random moments where i can't help but feel super sensitive and feel the need to express how much i adore them, would do anything for them. ahh a little hard for me to describe i think, but i do get really desperate and pathetic whenever these moments occur.
10. I GET SO EXCITED. i actually will start giggling to myself like a maniac, rolling around in bed. it sends an absolute rush through me, gets me ecstatic. i do prefer stalking if i have some information. i am a bit of a dummy dumb, so sometimes i do need it handed to me. however, i prefer to ask for only hints. i enjoy trying and struggling to find information. i'll only ever ask for the full truth if i'm desperate and tearing out my hair. ^^ the best sensation is finding out information with little to no information.
AHH SORRY IF THESE AREN'T THE BEST RESPONSES. i keep almost falling asleep but i wanted to answer before doing so. ;(
