a few reminders because iām tired and angry
fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism
adult women arenāt inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes
the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships arenāt incest supporters or pedophiles, actually
liking a m/f ship doesnāt make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space
preferring gay ships doesnāt make you āāwokeāā and good
no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villainās actions are evil and that they donāt condone those actions irl
liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and youāre a fucking idiot if you believe that
just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesnāt mean sheās promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women canāt tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogynyĀ
some randoās a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have
no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems
abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships
yāall need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that donāt actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people
fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism
feel free to add more
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