Cis ppl will be like "transitioning is far less effective than my solution of dismantling gender norms" and then not dismantle gender norms
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Cis ppl will be like "transitioning is far less effective than my solution of dismantling gender norms" and then not dismantle gender norms
fool me once shame on you. fool me twice shame on me. fool me three times this has gotta be a sex thing for at least one of us
more than anything i want a world where a trans girl realizing she is a trans girl faces zero fear from that realization and subsequent coming out. Where she can say "Oh sweet, I can just be a girl? Sign me up!", no worrying if shes girl enough, no worrying if society will accept her, no worrying if she'll be an attractive girl as she transitions, no worrying at all in any way shape or form.
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bc this one guy wanted to make us more like europeans ig
I went to a market recently that was absolutely swimming in appropriation of First Nations religious and cultural items.
I'm talkin white people selling rattles and dream catchers, white people banging First Nations style drums, white people teaching talking stick workshops, that kinda shit
So what do you do when you see this crap? How do you show your disapproval in a way that makes them give a shit?
I'll tell you what I do. The point is to show them that appropriating Indigenous cultures will lose them customers.
When I see fakey Native art I say something like "Oh wow, you make dreamcatchers! What nation are you from?" (Use tribe in the states)
I used to ask point blank if they were Native, but I'd nearly always get some Cherokee great grandmother bullshit, or even "I'm not sure, I could have some Native in me!"
Most of the time they don't know what I'm talking about, because they're not Native and don't know that this is a very normal thing to ask when meeting another Native.
When they ask me what I mean I say "I mean your tribe, which First Nation are you from?"
This is the point where they sheepishly mumble that they are not First Nations.
I let my face fall and say something like "Oh. That's disappointing" or "Wow. Unfortunate."
I let it get awkward. And then I leave, shaking my head in disapproval.
You may feel like you need to educate them on cultural appropriation but here's the thing: it's 2025. They know. Brenda the middle class reiki shaman is FULLY aware that her smudge fans are stolen culture. She doesn't care. The only way to make them care is to hit them where it hurts: the wallet.
Make them think that you would have purchased what they are selling if it was AUTHENTIC.
If you wanna go the extra mile send an email to the organizers, in your best white people voice, and tell them that you are disappointed that they are facilitating culture theft.
Go out and make Brenda uncomfortable!
not to be a snitch, but if this is happening in the US you can also straight up report Brenda for a fine up to $250k under the Indian Arts and Crafts Act.
this is the restrained version of me. i could be much worse.
growing up I was always afraid of being Found Out. not sure what I was hiding. just my whole self I guess
I love emoji reactions so much. Don't know what to say but don't want to ignore whoever texted you? Boom. Lizard reaction 🦎
when a woman puts her everything into an outfit and her face is shiny like a disco ball and she layered her fav perfume with oil and then her bf puts on some shorts and a shirt like u better put on a fucking pink wig and lace panties im so mad at you rn
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ok followers, im feeling generous. line up in a straight line & i will start petting you one by one .
i think everyone in the whole world forgot that mystery doesn’t have to equal crime
I think the "pre" and "post" parts in "preposterous" should cancel each other out but everyone else seems to find my idea completely erous
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Can I fucking help you?
my senior english teacher told me that any scene with a woman in a cornfield in every piece of literature ever is about her journey to womanhood/pleasuring herself in the field and i just.... believed her
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If the woman that JK rowling posted an upskirt photo of had been a cis woman snopes wouldn't have said this was "mixed" and you know it.
However, whether the photo met all definitions of "upskirting" was debatable. Merriam-Webster defines "upskirting" as follows:
[...] the act or action of surreptitiously taking a photograph or shooting a video of a person's genital area by aiming a recording device (such as a camera or cellphone) up the person's skirt, dress, etc.
The in-question photo wasn't taken surreptitiously, but rather in a public setting. Also, no genitalia were visible and the camera wasn't "aimed ... up the person's skirt, dress, etc."
This is so bull. First, public setting/surreptitiously: If a man on an escalator takes a photo of a woman a in front of him, that's in public setting no? Regarding "surreptitiously", they were literally intending to take a photo of her in that way; you wouldn't do that openly, you would be taking it surreptitiously. Both surreptitiously and public setting can be true at the same time and are true in this case.
Second: "No genitalia were visible". Certainly, but if we're going to go by Merriam-Webster, they say "genital area", not "genital"
Third: "up". By their own admission, "viewers can see up her skirt".
Fourth, the precise definitions of these types of words vary by source. For example, Wikipedia defines it as:
Upskirting or upskirt photography is the practice of taking photographs or videos under a person's skirt or kilt,[2] capturing an image or video of the crotch area, showing underwear such as panties, and sometimes genitalia. An "upskirt" is a photograph, video, or illustration which incorporates such an image, although the term may also be used to refer to the area of the body inside a skirt, usually from below and while being worn.
Surely, by this definition, even if you think it is debatable whether what JKR did fits the M-W definition of upskirt, surely this definition covers it? In fact, they even include a photo in which someone is in a similar position to Wallace as an example.
If we're getting pedantic,
Cambridge defines as: "(of a photograph or video) taken from a position that allows someone to look up inside a woman's dress or skirt"
Oxford English Dictionary (requires subscription) defines as: "Designating or relating to a photograph or video that has been taken from an angle so as to look up a woman's skirt or dress, typically surreptitiously in a public place for the purpose of sexual gratification."
Collins defines as: "indicating a photograph taken, usually without consent, underneath a woman's skirt or dress"
The Northumbria Police Dept in the UK writes: (source)
’Upskirting’ is an informal term for a type of voyeurism when someone uses equipment like a camera or mobile phone to take photos or videos underneath a person’s clothes, without their permission. ... Upskirting is an offence whether it's done for sexual pleasure or to humiliate or upset someone.
If we're going to get so pedantic on the exact wordings of definitions (which, fine, go ahead, I have done the same), then it is absolutely biased to only use one definition from one dictionary, especially if that dictionary's definition is the outlier -- M-W's is the only one that requires "surreptitiously" and (by Snope's misinterpretation) "genitalia" (though OED does say 'typically' for 'surreptitiously').
i have for a while been using stepping on somebody's toes as a metaphor for misgendering. and i genuinely think that it's kind of a good one.
if you keep stepping on somebody's toes for a long time at minimum they're probably going to start really hating you and at maximum you might cause them lasting damage.
if you do it on purpose you're a dick. if it's on accident but you keep doing it that person is still going to be mad at you because you don't care enough to try not to step on their toes
if you give a grovelling begging apology after accidentally stepping on somebody's toes one time you're going to make the whole thing awkward, but not giving a quick "sorry" before moving on is still kind of rude.