[bravely] women in tv and movies should also have hairy armpits more often because it would be hot if they did
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[bravely] women in tv and movies should also have hairy armpits more often because it would be hot if they did
at this point i'm just blocking people on sight for using tme/tma because they can't seem to be able to post anything without shitting on trans men or enbies and i'm sick of seeing people i thought were cool make posts about how much they think people like me suck and like they know my life
ok I think y’all are ready to see transgender Frankenstein’s monster I did for class
The trouble with chasing after recs for fucked up media is that a lot of allegedly fucked up media is enamoured with the idea of being fucked up, but it's not actually fucked up about anything. The form is there, but not the substance. However, there's no way to communicate this to anyone who doesn't already Get It without sounding like a maniac.
fellas I’m knee-deep in a wikipedia hole (not unlike these horses), and I just
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things I keep seeing that annoy me: the ahistorical idea that women suffer men’s sexuality and don’t ever want it. That any kind of contraception is a sacrifice cis women make because cis men won’t wear condoms - when there’s definitely women who enjoy it without just because or for kink reasons. That no woman would endure the side effects of the pill or other things if it wasn’t due to a noble sacrifice
That “poor grandma had 10 children because grandpa can’t control himself!”. So what about women who really liked sex? Yes of course it happened to some couples, I’m not gonna pretend it’s all sunshine and rainbows. But through all of humanity people wanted sex and tried their best to have it without resulting in children. Do you think no woman was ever horny? Queen Victoria herself wrote about how much she was attracted to Prince Albert despite not liking pregnancy. Do you think no man ever despaired over his dear wife’s health from a hard pregnancy? Or the horror of going through all that just to lose most of your children in infancy?
it’s just this weird crap of ALL men are sexual aggressors and ALL women are sexless victims. There’s always going to be people who are mutually horny and want sex despite a risk of pregnancy or STIs or social stigma. It’s just that the first two have only become reliably preventable in the last century or so. It’s a step down the slope of rad fem crap to pretend otherwise
I was thinking about something else recently that feels sort of tangentially related to this (although I'm not sure how much so apologies if I just end up using this post as a sounding board for a different topic)
I tend to get annoyed when certain people insist on framing women's sexuality specifically in weirdly new-agey and poetical terms all the time. Like, men can just get horny and have a wank and want to fuck people and it's all very prosaic and straitforward, but with women it all has to be about Learning To Love Ourselves or Building A Deeper Spiritual Connection With Our Bodies or something.
So there's an acknowledgement that women's sexuality and desire exists as an independent force that isn't just centred around men (and sometimes doesn't include men as part of the equation at all) but it always needs to be framed in these weird airy-fairy terms and attributed to anything but boring old common-or-garden horniness. Making a cult of women's knowledge libido, one might say.
And you see this same kind of rhetoric applied to sex between women or our sexual desire for other women specifically too. There's a corollary to the idea that women only suffer men's sexuality where it follows that sexually desiring women must be inherently gross, inconsiderate and objectifying (as opposed to desire itself being morally neutral and certain attitudes and behaviours being gross, etc) so when women desire other women sexually it has to be justified as something more profound and revolutionary than that. It's poetic. It's political praxis. It's just an extension of sisterly bonding and Good Feminist Ideals. There's no way it could be centred around anything as gauche and tawdry as simply wanting to fuck people.
And of course, sex and sexual desire certainly can be profound and beautiful and based in deep feelings and emotional connection and all that. And it can also be fairly base and ordinary and having an orgasm when you're horny sometimes is no more profound or spiritual than eating a nice toastie when you're hungry. It's just that none of it is actually divided on gender lines and it's really weird to act like it is.
you're right, I wasn't thinking about that specific situation when I made the post, but I do see a lot of lesbians and bisexual women stress out over their plain old horny thoughts towards other women. "I'm no better than a man" when feeling aroused at seeing a sexually appealing woman. "I don't want to treat her like a gross man". Feeling like sex between two women is this weird softcore vanilla thing and physical attraction to a woman is equated with some sort of violation.
Acting as if no woman could ever desire sex with a man bleeds into "no woman could desire sex ever, and if you as a woman want to have sex with a woman you are both weird and are doing something wrong to her too". It's not healthy for anyone
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possibly one of the craziest vases i've ever seen is this one by the amykos painter of king amykos being punished by the argonauts. dude really went "im going to paint a punishment scene on this hydria. but i'm going to make it kind of sexy." it's like the martyrdom of st. sebastian of greek pots to me
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Diva Hemerophila Moth (Hemerophila diva), family Choreutidae, found in Florida and Cuba
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[“In 1951, Talcott Parsons published The Social System, a text which can best be described as a para-philosophical work attempting to ascribe logic, reason, and moral justification to existing patriarchal and white supremacist social norms within the US. The Social System was unfortunately an immensely influential text, enduringly cited for decades in social science research. One of Parsons’ most famous contributions in The Social System comes in his definition of “the sick role,” an analysis of the burdensome nature of the ill. Parsons classified illness—any state of illness, from permanent disability to a light cold—as, socially, sanctioning “deviant” behavior. The ill or disabled, according to Parsons, practiced “deviancy” in that illness allowed for the reprieve of social responsibilities including labor, work, duties owed to the traditional family structure, and other normative behaviors.
It was for this reason, Parsons concluded, that “society” had established the “physician role” to manage the sick. While the modestly ill could be attended to by family—but must be goaded into returning to wellness as quickly as possible, to minimize their period of deviant behavior—the gravely ill, the disabled, and indeed the “incurable” would be managed by those in the “physician role.” Only in doing so could the sick be kept siloed from society, their burdens managed, encouraged toward rehabilitation from their deviancy, pressured to return to their status as productive members of society as quickly as possible: to be, therefore, worthy of life.
The sick role was, for Parsons, “a mechanism which in the first instance channels deviance so that the two most dangerous potentialities, namely, group formation and successful establishment of the claim to legitimacy,” by which Parsons means confirmation of diagnoses, confirmation of illness, “are avoided.” According to him, “The sick are tied up, not with other deviants to form a ‘sub-culture’ of the sick, but each with a group of non-sick, his personal circle and, above all, physicians. The sick thus become a statistical class and are deprived of the possibility of forming a solidary collectivity.”
Parsons was, in his way, correct. Much as we do with the century-long litany of revanchists who have decried “socialized medicine” as the onroads to communism, we embrace Parsons’ paranoiac insistence that deviants, the surplus, and the sick form the central class that can bring about the fall of capital. As we have seen throughout Health Communism, Parsons’ observation that the sick are retained as “a statistical class” and are therefore “deprived of the possibility of forming a solidary collectivity” is an accurate description of why and how capital manages its relationships to its surplus classes and wields with impunity the divisions between them.
We do not believe in the simplicity of dialectics. But it is easy to understand projects like SPK’s, and ours, as in part a reaction to the outright declaration and confirmation of norms on display in works like that of Parsons, as well as a manifestation of his worst nightmare. SPK’s assertion that we are all ill—the psychiatrist, who is wage dependent, is a sick person like each of us—is echoed not only in SPK’s constitution of a radical anti-capitalist collective of the surplus, but in the very idea of universal illness being constituent to Parsons’ worries over “the sick role.” According to Parsons, “To be sick is by definition an undesirable state, so that it simply does not ‘make sense’ to assert a claim that the way to deal with the frustrating aspects of the social system is ‘for everybody to get sick.’”
It is not necessarily the case that we are all sick. But none of us is well. The truth of the distinction that capitalist states draw in their demarcations of worker/surplus is that in the eyes of capital, we are all surplus.That we must center the surplus in our political projects and demands is therefore not simply to say, “celebrate the surplus.” It is to show that the capacities of immiseration, the processes of extractive abandonment, that play out insistently and invariably on the surplus populations is not merely the fuel for capital, but is the fate of us all. We are each of us ripped and maimed, strangled and buried by capital, in one way or another. That entire industries exist in plain sight to see us along this vast process of endlessly iterative life chances, to then subject us to extraction when we are surplus and no longer of use, and to eke out slivers of profit from our eventual deaths, is capital’s greatest sleight of hand. We are all surplus.”]
health communism, by beatrice adler-bolton and artie vierkant, 2022