Maxwell

Hi everyone! :) I'm Maxwell. I'm an 18 year old guy, who likes anime and uses Tumblr to cope with life. I hope, we all can get along with each other!

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Hi everyone! :) Welcome to my page!

I'm an 18 year old guy, who wants to use Tumblr to vent and cope with stuff. I haven't used Tumblr much at all and don't know, how A LOT of stuff works here, so please be gentle towards me.

I will probably often talk about triggering stuff on this page. Because I experienced multiple traumas throughout my lifetime. If you can't deal or don't want to deal with triggering stuff or both, then please don't look at my page.

I'm a male victim of CSA, perpetrated by my mom, (controversial I know.) I also experienced many other traumas, as I previously mentioned, but they probably won't be as prominently discussed.

Also i'm not a native English speaker, so please correct any mistakes I make in English. My native language is German and I learned English, by engaging with English content from a young age.

I hope, we all are gonna get along!

I hope you all have a great day and I wish you all the best! <3

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Based on a real event:

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Why does no one talk about the gender sentencing gap in the law system?

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This was the caption under her TikTok video: "Another reason why men Sa isnt real 🥺 Men wanna be oppressed so badly #mysogyny #misandry #moids #looksmatter #bp"

An overwhelming majority of men don't talk about male victims/survivors of SA/CSA, to talk over the issue of women getting SA'd/CSA'd.

The overwhelming majority just wants the issue to be acknowledged and not denied of existing. I'm a male victim/survivor of CSA perpetrated by my mom. I advocate for victims like me, because we are ignored in the conversations regarding SA/CSA.

The minority, who does talk over you by doing that is AWFUL. It's just not nearly every advocate for male SA/CSA victims/survivors is an EVIL PERSON. Because that's offensive and causes our real advocacy to not get taken seriously.

Also male victims/survivors of SA/CSA are real and are not something to be made fun, like you did in the caption. Our existence also shouldn't be denied, because that helps the system, who ALMOST ALWAYS ignores us flourish.

Please stop making male advocacy for male SA/CSA victims/survivors look like they're all evil. That's just ABHORRENT BEHAVIOUR.

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Do you think transandrophobia exists?

Yes

No

Voting ended onMay 22

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Transandrophobia exists!!! The combination of both transphobia and androphobia exists.

For example it's transandrophobic for people to tell trans men, that their existence is inherently evil, because they transitioned to the bad "side." It inherently vilifies them for transitioning so it's transphobia and it vilifies them for being men, so also androphobia. This means it's a combination of transphobia and androphobia, so it's transandrophobia. Also the statement sadly OFTEN gets told to trans.

Please stop denying the reality of MANY trans men!!!

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This is, what happens, when you open up about your experiences as a victim/survivor of CSA perpetrated by your mom on the internet:

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My first orgasm at the hands of another person was stolen by my mother.

I (18M) was just a child back then. I was lying in my own bed in my own room. For some unknown reason I was lying there with my penis exposed in front of my mother.

Before she started touching me. She essentially asked me: "Can you pull your foreskin back?" I essentially responded with: "No, because it hurts."

After that she started pulling my foreskin back, which SEVERELY HURT me. The pain was TORTUROUS. She didn't stop at just pulling it back my foreskin once though. She gave me a handjob.

I remember feeling "good." I didn't know, that what she was doing was wrong. I wanted her to stop, because of the pain alongside the "pleasure" I felt, but obviously she didn't stop. I ASHAMEDLY didn't want the "pleasure" to stop though.

During the handjob she asked me essentially this: "Do you feel good and strong?" to which I ASHAMEDLY essentially responded with: "Yes" She responded to that with essentially: "Right! It feels SO GOOD and STRONG." She also essentially talked about, how good it feels for a man to penetrate a woman's vagina and how it also feels REALLY GOOD for the woman being penetrated.

Now comes the MOST EMBARRASSING PART for me. She made me cum. I remember the feeling OVERWHELMING me. I HATE, HOW SHE MADE ME FEEL THIS WAY!!! How she stole this experience from me! I could have experienced it with someone safe, but no her EXTREMELY PERVERTED self had to ruin it for me. She had to taint this experience forever for me. I will forever have this experience ingrained in my mind, instead of one, which could have been good. I grieve, what could've been, instead of THE HELL, that I went through. Sadly I won't be able to ever change my reality. This will always be my first orgasm from someone else's hands.

Does anybody else suffer from this? Can anyone relate to me?

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I HATE, THAT MY MOM STOLE MY FIRST ORGASM AT THE HANDS OF ANOTHER PERSON FROM ME BY CSA'ING ME!!!

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Do you think victims/survivors of female perpetrated SA/CSA get oppressed by society?

Yes

No

Voting ended onMay 20

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Do you agree with the statement: "The harm of female perpetrated SA/CSA doesn't get acknowledged by society?"

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No

Voting ended onMay 20

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Cambridge dictionary definition of oppression: "A situation in which people are governed in an unfair or cruel way and prevented from having opportunities and freedom."

You don't need to look far into the world of politics to see the oppression trans people face. They are treated as sex offenders by MANY politicians, which fits the first requirement of our definition of oppression. It's this requirement: "A situation in which people are governed in an unfair or cruel way"

The 2nd requirement gets fulfilled by them getting denied their OFTEN life saving medical care for gender dysphoria in A LOT of countries. This fulfills the requirement of them getting prevented from having freedom by preventing them from essential medical care and also preventing them from opportunities by preventing them from accessing OFTEN life saving medical care.

They are getting oppressed on a global scale. In some countries more in some countries less, but you can't deny they are getting oppressed. If you deny their oppression, then you're just being plain ignorant.

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It's true, that most of the perpetrators of rape are men. What I find disturbing about your post though is you making fun of people, who try to bring the underreported issue of female perpetrated rape to light.

A meta analysis from "Sage Journals" puts the rate of female sexual offending reported to the police at 2.2%. Especially victimisation surveys show, that there's a HUGE gap between reported cases and how many cases go unreported. Because the victimisation surveys show, that the prevalence of female sex offenders is 6 times higher, than the reported prevalence. It's at 11.6%.

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Does this sound like a number to be made fun of for you? Are we survivors of female perpetrated SA/CSA, so unimportant in your worldview? Shouldn't we fight for all survivors, instead of causing division?

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If you think transandrophobia isn’t real, block me right now. I do not fuck with you.