melonkis

I'm too old to be here, yet here I am // shitposting. if you're getting likes from @dadlezal, you're really getting them from me

[dadlezal]

the entire Poland rn: "CANCEL IT!!! CANCEL THIS SHIEEEEET"

[melon-kiss]

ok now I'm joining them CANCEL IT

[dadlezal]

the entire Poland rn: "CANCEL IT!!! CANCEL THIS SHIEEEEET"

[kestrel-of-herran]

[katestewartt]

"Try our new AI tool", "Use ChatGPT", "Our AI assistant can help"

[melon-kiss]

I'm afraid that unless they bring Theo back (unlikely) or let her be a "spinster" (equally as unlikely), I'm not going to be happy with Eloise's story. It looks like for now everything's going towards "softening" her ways and opening a path for Phillip Crane to come back to the story. I know her storyline from the books and I hate it. I'm sure they're going to introduce many tweaks to both the plot and the character of the LI but NOTHING will beat Eloise's and Theo's chemistry. I mean... they were a side plot in season 2 and they still managed to generate more electricity between themselves than the "main couple".

I said what I said.

[xemylixa]

YT regional restrictions be like

[gravitren]

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[pokemonprofessor]

For the uninformed, vaginismus is when the vagina painfully tightens and spasms when faced with pressure, usually from anything trying to insert into the vagina. It’s the reason I can’t wear tampons, and why many people can’t have vaginal sex without severe pain.

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

[certifiedsexed]

Certified Sex Ed Post!

[mystery-ink]

Hi hello! This post is almost 10 years old and there ARE treatments for this. Vaginismus is otherwise known as pelvic hypertonia and it is a MUSCULAR condition that can be caused by many different factors including endometriosis, trauma, chronic UTIs, and connective tissue disorders.

It’s incredibly common! And it can be treated by physiotherapy.

I know this because I’m currently undergoing physio and although it can take months to recover, I’m already seeing improvement. A lot of the pelvic floor exercises are available online, but if you have these symptoms please TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR and see if you can get a physio referral (or investigation for underlying causes like endometriosis).

Also, my additions to posts never get reblogged so a note to my followers: this is SUPER IMPORTANT ISSUE that affects many people and is rarely talked about. Please reblog, and please share this info with as many people as possible.

Pelvic hypertonia/vaginismus is incredibly debilitating and psychologically damaging but it CAN BE TREATED. Spread the word, and you never know who you’ll be throwing a lifeline to.

[sobeautifullyobsessed]

raising funds to stay housed during winter Storm Fern ~

As most of my followers are aware, I've been homeless for more than 4 1/2 years, and this Community has been my greatest ally in staying safe and sheltered. I've had several false starts when I believed a resolution was close at hand, only to have those hopes dashed. Life has become even more complicated since I've been diagnosed with Artirial Fibrillation in mid-December and am recovering from congestive heart failure. Thankfully, I'm receiving treatment, but my homelessness remains a huge issue. For those not familiar with my journey, I have chronicled it with the tag #coping with homelessness

matching donations challenge ~

Today an extremely kind and generous anonymous donor has offered to match any funds that I raise going forward up to $400--which is my goal to keep me sheltered another full week, and through Storm Fern which is now forecast to drop as much as twelve inches of snow on Connecticut from Sunday through Monday. I thank them not only for their generosity, but also for the brilliance of this idea. I've mentioned previously I'm waiting on my Department of Social Services interview to find out what state benefits I may be eligible for in addition to the Medicade perscriptions that are basically keeping me from a deadly stroke. Any donations I receive should see me through the resolution of my interview.

I've already received a donation today, so my fundraising stands at

$25 / $400

Please keep in mind that any amount you contribute will be doubled by the Anonymous Donor's pledge.

Contributions can be made to either my ko-fi (link below), or if originating in the US, via Pay Pal (please DM me for my email address). Bless you all for help of any amount you can manage, and for reblogs of this post.

Buy sobeautifullyobsessed a Coffee

Become a supporter of sobeautifullyobsessed today!

[sobeautifullyobsessed]

$105 / $400

[melon-kiss]

(I missed the first second in which one of the directors yells "TAKE!")

"Yes, we are all calm now, yes?"

(laughter)

"Everybody's calm!"

(even more laughter)

"Is this your private little bathrobe?"

(horn tooting)

"Bravo, bravo!" (applause)

"It's a darker season than season 2. It's a western"

(screams)

"And suddenly... we have 200 people on the set, not 100"

"Nice"

(cheering)

"This is our scene plan... Take by take..."

"That one's done... That one we did yesterday..."

(applause)

"The crew's waiting and we need to laugh it out... Nothing to be proud of..."

"It's already season three, so..."

"It's just..."

"ACTION!"

"Phenomenal!"

"Many amazing people work for it"

"And we feel like this is going to be the best 1670 season yet"

(chicken clucking)

(various odd crew sounds)

"CUT!"

[heavydirtyscul]

Kirył Pietruczuk taking part in football tournament in December for Saint Nicholas’ Day 🎅 (for charity event ✨)

📷: mikolajkowytourniej

The Man of many talents! ⚽️🎭

[melon-kiss]

He said in an interview once that he used to play football a lot and intented to become a professional football player.

[heavydirtyscul]

1670 season 3 preview ✨

[someonesaidcake]

Jisbon: Seasons 1 to 6.

[halfagony-halfhope]

Elizabeth rendering Darcy speechless

[holysmoaksoliver]

OKAY BUT CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE FACT THAT YOU CAN SEE THE EMOTION WRITTEN ALL OVER HIS FACE. NOT ONCE. NOT TWICE. NOT THREE TIMES.

ALL FOUR TIMES.

BECAUSE NOT ONLY IS HE SPEECHLESS BUT HE’S ALSO SECOND GUESSING HIMSELF, SECOND GUESSING HIS PREJUDICE AGAINST HER, SECOND GUESSING WHY HE REGARDS HER THE WAY HE DOES. AND IN THE 4TH GIF, HE’S JUST AMAZED, AWESTRUCK.

IN THE 4TH GIF IT’S THE REALIZATION OF THE FEELINGS.

OH. I’M A DUMBASS.  THIS.  THIS IS WHY I LOVE HER.

FRACK THIS MOVIE FOR GIVING ME ALL THESE FEELINGS.

[wholesome-animal-images]

[saltywinteradult]

just look at these fluffy motherfuckers. i want ten of them

[nick-nellson]

The Social Network (2010) dir. David Fincher

[willgrahamscock]

KILL AI AND REBLOG AND CREATE ART IN 2026

[frostingpeetaswounds]

I wrap my arms around his neck, feel his arms hesitate before they embrace me. Not as steady as they once were, but still warm and strong. A thousand moments surge through me. All the times these arms were my only refuge from the world. Perhaps not fully appreciated then, but so sweet in my memory, and now gone forever.