I cannot believe that in 2026 there are still people even within the trans community saying that nonbinary people are misogynistic for not being women/feminine and not wanting to be considered women/feminine. (There are plenty of nonbinary people who ARE women or femininely-gendered, whose identities are also never respected by the way because society wants everyone to be totally 100% always only one binary gender, and there are also plenty of us who are NOT, because being nonbinary is not one thing.) Someone saying “I’m nonbinary and was AMAB but that doesn’t mean I’m transfem, please stop assuming I am, I want my nonbinary identity to be recognized” is not transmisogynistically distancing themself from trans women and does not need you to correct them on their own identity. Someone saying “I was AFAB but that doesn’t mean I’m a woman; I’m nonbinary and I want that to be recognized” is not expressing internalized misogyny and does not need you to correct them on their own identity.
*Nonbinary people do not need binary people to correct us on our own identities.*
You are just exorsexist.
