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18+ | content warning | i follow from taibobo if you sexualize underage characters, zoo, or incest do not follow me.

[militarydiscount]

bobo | 25+ | he/him | black gay-ish man

this is my blog where i talk about and reblog posts about fucking.

yes: (legal) age gaps, S/M, somnophilia, (some) consentplay, piss, musk, degradation, intox, painplay

hard no: sexual agere, fauxcest*, detrans, raceplay, scat, weight gain/feederism/slob

sometimes i will fetishize my own mental illness as a means to cope with the fact i will likely never recover from it and die before 40. i will tag posts accordingly, but don’t act like i didn’t warn you!

i mostly post about men because i am (in practice) a gay man. however i do think butches are hot and will be making that everyone else’s problem. that’s just how my beautiful mind works ok? :)

*daddy/mommy kink exists in a weird gray area outside of this since i don’t really participate in any kind of dd/lg or md/lb roleplay outside of just using the term in the same way someone would use something like “sir”. i just like old men and butches.

[akashicrecord]

Sucking on his pathetic dick until he dies of malnutrition #fuckstar

[militarydiscount]

i don't really want to talk about it

[militarydiscount]

My header on this account was an omen

[dog-motif-priest]

you can only spend so long identifying with large predatory animals before you start to develop strange sexual fantasies about tranq darts and being fitted for a radio collar and kept as an exotic pet

[bowserwife]

Sorry I cried wordlessly and motionless in your arms for like 30 minutes, that was probably scary. Can I still suck your dick?

[untitled8013]

self shippers you guys should think of desperate kisses btw. ☝🏾 your f/o hesitating for only a moment before pulling you close, maybe pulling you by the collar or by the hip, how they can only wait long enough to suck in a breath before they're on you. how they kiss you like it is urgent, like they will actually cease to be if they don't kiss you. there's no teasing, there's no longer any of their meekness to be found, there's nothing in their mind but the constant pounding of their heart in their chest and you, you, you ringing in their brain. desperate kisses that turn into sloppy, messy things as they trail down your neck when you need to part for air– but even that doesn't last long before they're turning you to kiss you on the lips once more. btw.

pro-shippers do not interact

[infectiouspiss]

i need him cold trembling and delirious from blood loss but still kinda bouncing on it

[womanful]

shame is such an erotic feeling if there are enough things wrong with you

[deep-state-partisan]

[apolladay]

To preface the poll: I hate terfs. Terfs suck, and transphobes of all kinds suck. Trans women are women, trans men are men, nonbinary people are valid, and intersex people are valid. Transphobes fuck off, this poll isn't for you.

I'm curious if the "genital preference" argument holds any truth or weight among Tumblr users, and if so, how much.

What is your preference for your sexual partner's genitalia?

I have no genital preference.

I prefer penises, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer vaginas, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer intersex genitalia, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer penises, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer vaginas, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer intersex genitalia, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer sexual contact not involving genitalia.

Some other sexual preference.

I don't want any sexual contact.

Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with preferring one type of genitalia to another (personally, I'm going to vote option 3), just so long as you aren't a bigot about it, you don't invalidate someone else's gender identity, and you don't make it someone else's problem. That said, there's also nothing wrong with having no genital preference or not wanting any sexual contact whatsoever.

To preface the poll: I hate terfs. Terfs suck, and transphobes of all kinds suck. Trans women are women, trans men are men, nonbinary people are valid, and intersex people are valid. Transphobes fuck off, this poll isn't for you. I'm curious if the "genital preference" argument holds any truth or weight among Tumblr users, and if so, how much. What is your preference for your sexual partner's genitalia?

I have no genital preference.

I prefer penises, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer vaginas, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer intersex genitalia, but I'd be okay with other genitalia.

I prefer penises, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer vaginas, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer intersex genitalia, I wouldn't have sex with other genitalia.

I prefer sexual contact not involving genitalia.

Some other sexual preference.

I don't want any sexual contact.

Voting ended onJan 13

Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with preferring one type of genitalia to another (personally, I'm going to vote option 3), just so long as you aren't a bigot about it, you don't invalidate someone else's gender identity, and you don't make it someone else's problem. That said, there's also nothing wrong with having no genital preference or not wanting any sexual contact whatsoever.

[nerdy-mlm]

hairy chests. you agree. reblog

[painsthegame]

whump is such a strange thing for me. ‘oh im having trouble shouldering the burdens of daily life, let me play scenes in my head of someone getting the shit kicked out of them (fictionally), that’ll make me feel better’ and it DOES

[darlingpoppet]

[e-102]

they hire me as the gray disembodied hands that be groping gay men in comics on pixiv and it don’t pay well but it’s honest work

[yesornopolls]

Have you ever had sex with a tumblr mutual?

Have you ever had sex with a tumblr mutual?

Yes

No

Voting ended onDec 20, 2025

[gatheringbones]

Hi there, I’ve been interested about learning more about bd/sm and kink as a whole, and I really dig what you have to say regarding them both, would you happen to have any book recs regarding them?

really recommend mark thompson’s body of work, he came of age on Folsom Street, he contributed to Leatherfolk with thom magister, he’s from a house of incest which pretty much always means I like you, and he’s a gorgeous and sensitive writer with a good editorial eye.

also a great primary source for why gay people clung to Native American anthropology and culture, why they saw it as an extractable resource, why they felt so comfortable plucking elements from Native American culture to use for their own devices, and how the early homophile movements shaped themselves around the idea of gay people as a “culture” embedded in all communities worldwide because they were modeling gay liberation after the Black civil rights struggle.

[gatheringbones]

he starts to open up answers to the question of how people with kinks (and white people especially) see the people around them as full of resources that can be extracted. there’s so many pieces of you and your experience that can be used to get off.

looking back at the last couple of days it’s become clearer to me that one of the reasons those with “edgy” kinks like to bring it up with people it’s not appropriate to do that with is because they enjoy mining the feeling of being a poor, beleaguered, hounded and despised kinskter surrounded by angry puritans, whether or not that’s actually the case.

the world is their buffet of pleasure and you’re there to be picked over with salad tongs.

[diosapate]

media literacy is when fan creators cater to my specific kinks and fetishes. media illiteracy is when people make character playlists and put hayloft on them