𝔸𝕦𝕓𝕣𝕚𝕒𝕟𝕟𝕒

𝚊𝚞𝚋𝚛𝚒𝚊𝚗𝚗𝚊. 𝚜𝚑𝚎/𝚑𝚎𝚛. 18. 𝚏𝚎𝚖𝚒𝚗𝚒𝚜𝚝. 𝚖𝚊𝚒𝚗 𝚋𝚕𝚘𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚝 𝚙𝚘𝚜𝚝𝚜 𝚐𝚊𝚕𝚘𝚛𝚎. 𝚏𝚎𝚖𝚊𝚕𝚎. ᴛᴇʀғs, ʜᴏᴍᴏᴘʜᴏʙᴇs, ᴅᴅʟɢ, ʀᴀᴄɪsᴛs, ᴀʟᴍ, ᴛʀᴜᴍᴘ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛᴇʀs ᴅɴɪ ᴏʀ ɪ ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴜʀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ. ʷʳⁱᵗᵉʳ, ʳᵉᵃᵈᵉʳ, ᵖᵒˡⁱᵗⁱᶜᵃˡ. 𝐶𝑟𝑖𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑀𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑠, 𝐺𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑙 𝐻𝑜𝑠𝑝𝑖𝑡𝑎𝑙, 𝑂𝑢𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝐵𝑎𝑛𝑘𝑠, 𝐺𝑟𝑒𝑦'𝑠 𝐴𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑜𝑚𝑦, 𝐵𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑙𝑦𝑛 𝑁𝑖𝑛𝑒 𝑁𝑖𝑛𝑒, 𝑆𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑆𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑠

[lapt0pp]

how to grow the fuck up

[friendliness]

Home

what the hell is a mortgage?

first apartment essentials checklist

how to care for cacti and succulents

the care and keeping of plants

Getting an apartment

Money

earn $50-$100 by taking surveys

how to coupon

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

see if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

54 ways to save money

How to do Your Own Taxes

Health

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

things to bring to a doctor’s appointment

how to get free therapy

how to prevent a hangover

a list of stress relievers

how to remove a splinter

Emergency

rights when cops pull you over

a list of hotlines in a crisis

things to keep in your car

how to do the heimlich maneuver

Job

time management

create a resume

find the right career

choosing a major

job interview tips

how to stop procrastinating

How to write cover letters

Travel

ultimate packing list

traveling when you have no money 

best way to pack a suitcase

how to apply for a passport

how to make a travel budget

Better You

read the news

leave your childhood traumas behind

how to quit smoking

how to stop skipping breakfast

how to stop micromanaging

ways to get better at asking for help

how to stop being a pushover

learn another language

how to improve your self-esteem

how to sew

reasons to stay alive

small daily goals

[eatingdisorderssuck01]

Imma need this eventually cause they don’t teach you jack squat in school

[sanders-sides-uncorrect-quotes]

Ima schedule to reblog this when I’m 16.

[mxdragonturtle]

Ima need this eventually

[ace-lost-in-motherfucking-space]

same fam.

[oh-star-how-the-mighty-fall]

Pfffft i’m 32 and I still need some of this advice

[chaoticmooncollective-deactivat]

Reblogging now for future me

[squided]

What’s up with the fairly recent trend of leap years all being bad fucking years like 2008? Shit. 2012? Fucking shit. 2016? Absolute fucking shit. I’m just gonna predict 2020 is gonna be the Most Absolute Stinky Piece of Shit year to date

[squided]

Date of Origin: July 3, 2018

[svere-online]

[sprmint-bkgsoda]

Just like I said. Illegal adoption.

https://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/immigrant-mom-loses-effort-regain-son-us-parents/story?id=16803067

[stephanemiroux]

Here are the thieves btw:

[waluwadjet2-deactivated20180727]

im actually physically ill

[dontwantthenextcommanderiwantyou]

Keep this post alive so that when CARLOS is old enough he’ll know these KIDNAPPERS stole him from his MOTHER!

[dopeluminarydreamer-blog]

Guatemalan mom: “Please help me my son was taken from me”

Those two assholes: “Lol finders keepers bitch lmao”

[one-time-i-dreamt]

Carlos was taken from his mom, Encarnacion Bail Romero after she was arrested during a work raid. Her words, “Nobody could help me because I don’t speak English,” are still resonating deeply within me. This child was kidnapped from a loving mother, and she went to hell and backwards trying to get him back, and a judge literally told her she had no rights to her own child.

https://twitter.com/evanchill/status/1010399759088193536

Completely unfit parents can get their children back like it’s nothing and this poor woman who loves her child and just wants him with her again cannot? How is this not human trafficking/kidnapping? 

Also:

The judge said the biological mother had no rights to even see her child, according to the mother’s lawyer.

Asked if the Mosers would allow Bail Romero to see the child, the Mosers’ attorney, Joseph Hensley, said the couple was “not willing to comment on that at this time.” source

[rock-fish-deactivated20201231]

reminder that many children are funneled specifically to Christian families and communities for the same reasons they always have: destroy culture, stack votes, add bodies to communities that otherwise wouldn’t hold majorities. it is literal, actual trafficking.

[trashmouse]

This is a part of genocide.  Removing the children from their parents, who generally desperately love and want to raise them, and placing them with white American families is a way to erase their culture from existence without the ugliness of directly killing children.  But it’s still ugly, and it cares nothing for the actual welfare of the child.

[ameliapondthehistoryqueen]

Another way in which the US is already like the Handmaid’s Tale

[babygirlgirlgirl-deactivated202]

Im scheduling this post for 2023 , so Carlos will be old enough to know about his past when he finds this post…

[tsunflowers]

also I learned about this project called “queering the map.” the idea is that in the past gay neighborhoods and gay spaces were very clearly defined bc it just wasn’t safe to be yourself anywhere else. as lgbt+ people become more visible and accepted many feel that we are losing our connection to those spaces

so every dot on this map is basically someone’s queer experience: coming out, meeting their future wife, seeing another gay man in public for the first time, anything you can think of that truly left a mark on them

it started in Montreal and is primarily English-language with most pins dropped in the US, Canada, and Europe, but there are people all over the world who’ve shared their experiences. it’s great to look at places near you but it’s also great to see that even people in places you thought were the middle of nowhere are happy with themselves and finding community and living their lives

[sazandorable]

It’s here and it’s SO SWEET?? Just clicking around it’s very personal stories, in first person and a lot of them addressed to a specific “you”, and sooo many in extremely poetic language. It feels like an art installation and it’s so beautiful. ;W; Thanks for sharing!!!

… there’s also a lot of really silly ones (like gay sharks in the middle of the ocean)

[coolnpc]

[captainlordauditor]

I looked at Jerusalem and immediately found two favorites for entirely different reasons.

[chibigikochin]

Things I found from the queer community of japan:

It’s no secret to the Japanese that Shinjuku nichome is the gay district of Tokyo but about half the pins left there are for the same club in that area named gold finger. Definitely a place to check out if you’re looking to get involved in the Japanese queer community for whatever reason, it seems.

I have a sneaking suspicion this submission is a haiku when written in Japanese…

This guy got the scenic view I guess

Is this how people feel while reading deep romantic poetry because wow I’m moved.

Honestly the best feeling is learning we’re not as alone as we’ve been led to believe

These are all super poetic oml I appreciate every single one of them

[phuk-ewe-deactivated20221207]

There are none in my town. Guess I’ll be the first

[isabelofwraithmarsh]

I went to my old, STAUNCHLY conservative town and saw “There are a lot more of us here than most would think, past and present” and I nearly cried

[toniins]

small town australia vibes

[toniins]

oceania gays are funny bitches

[ficcyshit]

With what’s happening in Poland, it’s super important for us queer folks to be able to find each other and take strength from the community. I’ve always loved queering the map and I thank whoever created it every day.

[rebellum]

We are everywhere! 💖

[curiouslyhigh]

I personally added a few of my favorite personal stories.

[juniper-abaddon]

one of my personal favorites, and one of the most ohioan things i’ve ever read

[the-ladyguinevere]

I’m looking at my city and

Oh

I’m gonna cry

These are near the college.

What a mood

LOL

[ethanhunt-deactivated20230911]

Swan, you look… I know.

[whatsupbeanie]

Does anyone relate to attaching smells to memories? They’re not always good of course (there’s a dusty smell that I associate with the hallways in my old high school which immediately brings back some unpleasant memories) but I’ve had some surprise moments of unlocking a nostalgic memory from smelling something familiar. I have an old book that I like to smell sometimes which reminds me of the bookshelf in my childhood home. 

[randomslasher]

Oh yes. I have deliberately tried to attach smells to events before. Like I was traveling with my marching band to Hawaii one year (holy shit I was privileged, the older and poorer I get the more I realize it, damn) and I bought a new kind of smell from bath and body works to use exclusively on the trip so I could remember it. (Japanese Cherry Blossom, in fact!). And there’s a specific Softsoap purple shower gel that I can only find by scent because the name keeps changing but it absolutely transports me back to one summer vacation with my cousins. 

Of course it happens by mistake a lot too. I’ve unfortunately attached the scent of my favorite coconut scented body wash to early days of Covid, because I found a stash of hand sanitizer in that scent I’d bought previously, and that was about the only hand sanitizer I could find in those early days so I used it constantly. Now when I smell that scent, instead of pleasant memories of summer, it’s a vague sort of panicky uncertain feeling. So there’s that. 

[st4lker-deactivated20200823]

[aphextwinselectedambientworks]

[the-quasar-hero]

Me: what could be so bad that it warrants the use of that image?

The end: *happens *

Me:

[sleepy-sphinx-deactivated202012]

im begging you watch the whole thing

[sokka-with-his-hair-down]

[pallass-cat]

This makes me viscerally angry

[seraphravenflight]

Wilbur being jealous of Ranboo is exactly what I thought would happen and also hilarious

Imagine coming back after spending 13 dead years in your purgatory, and seeing some lanky teenager, marrying the person you didn’t help when you could have, being the mental support for your little brother figure, becoming the apprentice of the blade who you also didn’t help and let him cave to peer pressure, living next to your dad, who is good friends with all of your friends but in a mentally better kind of way, and was also there for your son when you weren’t

And then you see Ranboo my beloved posters everywhere

[thesmpisonfire]

I just want someone to beat up c! Ranboo and I place my bets on Revivedbur

[metaorigin]

On the history of kissing on the lips being a recent human behavior that weve uhh normalized?romanticized?popularized?

Is it really a recent behaviour in human history? Or is it just recently been ok to record as an allowable behaviour in human history?

Just kinda hard to imagine in all of human history its only within the last few hundred years that kissing on the lips was a thing humans do.

[gay-herobrine]

boob window

[gay-herobrine]

boys,

[baphonnicula]

i refused to do my homework until i finished this

[icanfeelmyleg]

…himbo

[baphonnicula]

[thesmpisonfire]

Let the Fates decide ur future

[setforstars]

[dare-i-say-asexual]

False

[sevenspires]

funniest part about this is i dont know which category youre trying to add him to

[guerrillatech]

[amateur-menace]

“My Bisexual Wife”

Acrylics on Canvas

[lesbx]

i like how in like almost every ace attorney fan art everyone draws the characters in their fruity little outfits they wear in the games. they could be in the drive thru at DQ and the gay one is still wearing his cravat

[sleep-y-bones]

[xueyangapologist]

this post will float in front of my eyes as i die

[sheglows]

[visionofmyself]

Our lives mean nothing next to a storm that’s coming. Dying for the right cause. It’s the most human thing we can do. BLADE RUNNER 2049 DIR. DENIS VILLENEUVE