Hello Everyone I’m here to talk about my coming out which is a BLA story, but of course has a happy ending. I’m not trying to gain sympathy I’m just trying to tell you how wrong these people were and how they went about it in the worst way. So, back in high school (2019) I had (obvi) come out to everyone. So I had a great idea. I wanted to make a cake with Skittles on it in the shape of a rainbow. Now keep in mind I was very VERY!!! Emotional. Having all these emotions just come out yes it was a huge relief to finally come out as me, but it’s still very emotional. I can tell you no one cared. So, we start making the cake and it’s a disaster. The cake spills all over the oven and I’m already so emotional I walk away. Then come back and clean it up (which is ignored that I did that)
So let’s get to the part of this Idiot girl who I can’t believe I was ever friends with. Gets her panties in a bunch. Decides that just because this situation went bad she wants to bring up every single thing that I did to bother her… again while I’m hyper emotional… What a friend. So this “social worker” comes to me and gives me a wrinkly smile and gives me no choice. I had to sit and listen to this idiot sit and listen to this idiot say everything she hated about me while they defended her and put me down. She had time to write her feelings and I just want to be left alone. I want to figure me out. This wasn’t about saving our friendship, this wasn’t about giving us closure. This was about her and her feelings. I was crushed all day crying, but this pig social worker told me she’s disappointed in me for “giving up on the friendship.” And how I deserve a second chance like I had stabbed her mother and not make teenage mistakes.
So, anyway I ended up making the cake and it went over very well. But then this Toad of a girl decides to sass my bestie at the time all because she doesn’t “want any of my cake.” That was the final straw. How dare you lash out at my friend like that. I picked up the phone and texted her, “I’m mad at you, end of story.”… I know, intense right? Then I blocked her. Then her mom texts me thinking I’m “harassing” her daughter which is fair (even though I wasn’t) I get it that’s parent instinct and that actually became a whole nother thing, but back on track. So, back at school I was so terrified (long story with mom freaking) so I wanted to find the other social worker… I don't know why. But my math teacher actually was there. He told me to calm down and her mom should not be getting involved.
So, all of a sudden NOW I’M THE VICTIM!?! Now I’m told I'm right? So, I continue my day and then on the staff walkie talkies “Dumb bimbo’s mom is here.” And I was ready. And once again NOW I’M THE VICTIM!?! Now I’m told I'm right? I was still very upset with… well everyone, but especially her. So, I went to the other social worker and told her I wanted round two. I wanted to say what I wanted to say to her and to them. She then proceeded to gaslight me into thinking Is that really what I wanted. “You made it clear you didn’t want to be friends with her.” “I think the best thing is to give her her space.”… So when I needed space I didn’t get it, but when she wants space she got it. I get it her mom made a big stink, but tell me that I’m a senior I can understand at this point. “Look Chase, her mom is down our throats and doesn’t want you around her so sorry we can’t.” Though even if she did say this she’d probably blame me.
So there’s of course a happy ending. I graduated, started dating and found all the love in this community. Now I know there’s so many more people who have literal war stories and abuse stories for being themselves. Mine is completely tamed. I just wanted to tell this to any teens out there to have some self awareness and to any social workers to PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!! Don’t be stupid understand what LGBT kids are going through and don’t do what these people did. Love you all have a good rest of your pride ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
