In Venere Veritas ♥

[diaries-of-march]

What hurts you most is not what people did, rather than your high expectations of them. All love and dreams that you held on so tight, Your expectations of what would you do if you were in their shoes. Release the grip of phantoms in your mind, let forgiveness like a balm unwind. Then, with the scars that wisdom softly writes, You'll rise renewed to greet the future's lights. Sit with the hurt, sit with the pain, heal in your solitude, and move on.

[nightskywanderer]

Great things can happen if people stop for a second and put their ego on a side. Not only we will understand, but we also see and comprehend what others are trying to express.

[nightskywanderer]

Distance, my friend; happens when moving away, gradually and slowly from an object. The more you try to run closer, the more the collision will push you further away. When distance happens, an explosive energy of letting go comes to life. And that is gaining back your power.

- Eva Alsunna

[nightskywanderer]

Distance, my friend; happens when moving away, gradually and slowly from an object. The more you try to run closer, the more the collision will push you further away. When distance happens, an explosive energy of letting go comes to life. And that is gaining back your power.

[nightskywanderer]

At one point in life, you have to put people back to where they originally should belong.

[nightskywanderer]

I may exaggerate a little, but how you handled the card shows how much you dont give a fuck.

Full stop.

Accept it, it's the truth. Move on.

You're on your own.

[diaries-of-march]

Sit with your pain, with all the accusations and hurtful words that came out of their mouth, collect those words and sit with them, examine them, think about them, try to fit them into you, move to self doubt, hate yourself, hate them too, dig deeper, look at those words again, see the unhealed version of yourself, ask around, and look back in again, try to find peace that those words gotten out of their mouth, try to repeat it what happened, sit and think about the words, it might take you a while to realise, that those were not yours to work with, as much as you try to relate those words to you, the truth reveals itself, what people project on you, whether to hurt you or to hurt themselves are not yours to worry about. Its theirs. Releasing that in first place, if those words were true, you wouldn't want to analyse and dig deeper to see how did you do them wrong, So take those with you, frame them, write them down, and stick it on the page that is written about them, which you are about to flip.

[diaries-of-march]

Let go of what has let you go.

[diaries-of-march]

People will change, you start noticing it a little by little, one behaviour at a time, maybe all together at once, but you start seeing the cracks, they behave and sound differently, their words dont resonate with what they said before, you start feeling a little blackness creeping inside your soul, into the stream of blood, and then to your heart, it starts to feel different, not a rhythmic calming bumps, irregular, shaky and lifeless, and there comes the shock, like a deer in the headlight, where your mind cannot comprehend what it knows, to what it sees, to what your heart feels, people surprise you and you keep watching, silently, interrupted internally, and confused. Then your brain starts recognising the imaging it's receiving, what it hears, what it feels, and a little by little. Those cracks start making sense to what is behind, a distorted image of what you know, a new reality, then eventually you start to let go, little by little, you will learn to let go, piece by piece, every fragment of a memory you had, slips out of your fingers, and then you let go. I promise you, in the end you will.

-Eva Al-Sunna'

[diaries-of-march]

Goodbyes are not always tired to the physical body. Sometimes, you say goodbye to the soul you know, to the feeling you laughed non-stop at, to all your sunsets and drives, you say goodbye to the places you thought could be yours, to the furure you've wished for together, to the endless hours of fun, to moments when a hand was needed the most ,you say goodbye to all your bucketlist locations, the fun things you enjoy, you say goodbye to the twinkle lights you found on the shelf in that store, you say goodbye to the minutes and hours that passed in a glimpse of an eye, to the hot cup of coffee you've bought around the corner, you say goodbye to them, and to the pieces they've left in you. You say goodbye many times before they change completely. There are infinite goodbyes before you can't recognise the things you once knew, Goodbye doesn't come at once, but once one begins, many endings follow.

[diaries-of-march]

And eventually you will remember how to soothe yourself, in the toughest moments where no one was standing right next to you. You will know how to sing your most peaceful lullaby to your soul, to calm your mind and accept your shadow.

[spiritualseeker777]

Yep :)

[confessionsofallnights]

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, infact my dear absence shocks your system, lets you cry at night, absence makes your heart shiver in coldness, puts ice crystals in your blood stream, absence weakens you, beats you up, takes you to rock bottom, and from there you learn how to rebuild yourself without them, by then you either choose to adapt to their ghost, or just let them go and move on.

[nightskywanderer]

- Eva Alsunna

[lettersfrom-s]

“I’ve left the light on for you in my heart. I don’t know when it’ll burn out, but I hope you come back before it does.”

— S

[noorshirazie]

while it hurts to know that some people leave because they feel you aren’t worth the wait, their departure wakes you up to those who have always stood by you.

Noor Shirazie (via noorshirazie)

[zheniakirsikkalove]

#VilleValo #EsaPulliainen #Agents #Finland 15.03.2019 - Pihtipudas, Finland

credits to Ilkka Vainio  & Virtanen PRO 

[nightskywanderer]

Ville grows hotter by time <3

[destroymylife]