thinking about it

They/them // Adult // Half-white Fil-am

[internationalemeteorologie]

Takato Yamamoto

Illustrations from Grass Labyrinth by Kyōka Izumik

[rookiebe]

ok let's hear a word from honda civic shall we ... 🎤 ok well that was depressing.

[lolita-wardrobe]

Knight's Star-Moon Sword Pants

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[hometoursandotherstuff]

[howtokillavampire]

but what if i read one of your fanfics and then went to your ao3 accounts and read all of your fanfics and left a comment on every single chapter of every single one and you got spam emails from all of my kudos and comments and it made you smile, what then? what if i brighten your day with my words like you did mine, what then???

[idkhowtobenormal]

marrage

[wynnyfryd]

weddning

[steviewashere]

honmoon

[himbosandhardwear]

Babby

[simplyghosting]

Fanfic update

[arcadewizard]

in that order

[neostellarjpg]

May I suggest Dave and Nepeta somehow being de-fused and having to process not being one again?

[only-cat-memes]

[spicyreyes]

I try and avoid engagementbait when I can but look at his EYES

[fozmeadows]

the only eyes it's right to describe as orbs

[jareckiworld]

Mark Bradford — "The Once and Future King" (knife with metal blade in stone, 2011)

[eyecager]

Some hand sheets I made for the animation team! I looked at how Dana drew hands a lot and coupled it with my own anatomical knowledge of hands.

[lgbtlaughs]

Non-Binary” (Not a woman) {Shocking!} (Also not a man) “is right next to you” [via]

[unalivejournal]

Ok. What you're gonna want to do is chop up a cucumber and put it in a bowl. Then you're gonna sprinkle a generous portion of salt on top. Then you're gonna drizzle them with a balsamic vinaigrette and gently shake to combine, leaving you with a cool and refreshing summer snack. In 15 seconds dangerous and burly men are going to drag me away to an unknown second location. Remember everything I've taught you. I love you

[bakedbananners]

kris gets brushies

[sajdd]

Here is gerson's whole speech for those who need it (me)

part 1 - darn image limit hold on

[sajdd]

end of fight

[sajdd]

after the fight:

[sajdd]

btw i missed one. this goes in after "chapter 5 field of pink and gold"

[sajdd]

ok so i just discovered there's actually extra dialogue for this fight. i got all of the above from shayy's playthrough

but ive been watching penny's playthrough and i realised that after the "you choose eternity" dialogue gerson says something different here.

not sure why this happens or what prompts the change - it might be because shayy played on PC and penny played on the switch? but it would seem like an odd choice to change the dialogue for such an important fight purely based on what device you're using so maybe this happens for a different reason idk.

anyway here's the dialogue that comes after "you choose eternity":

after this it immediately goes back to the normal continuation of "but there is something that can overwrite the dark"

maybe it has something to do with if you use healing or not during the fight? honestly no idea - if anyone knows then let me know bc now im curious what causes the extra dialogue

[sajdd]

the mystery has been solved for anyone wondering

[radicalgraff]

Ad blocking in Melbourne

[anarchacitizen]

For educational purposes only, obviously.

[honey-fire]

My dad was eating pistachios so I reached my hand out and he just started peeling them and giving them to me. Then suddenly went “I really hope you find someone who loves you a lot” and I went “enough to peel my pistachios for me?” And he laughed and said “yeah exactly” before carrying on giving me more

[peopleareaproblem]

The Raincoat

by Ada Limón

When the doctor suggested surgery

and a brace for all my youngest years,

my parents scrambled to take me

to massage therapy, deep tissue work,

osteopathy, and soon my crooked spine

unspooled a bit, I could breathe again,

and move more in a body unclouded

by pain. My mom would tell me to sing

songs to her the whole forty-five minute

drive to Middle Two Rock Road and forty-

five minutes back from physical therapy.

She’d say, even my voice sounded unfettered

by my spine afterward. So I sang and sang,

because I thought she liked it. I never

asked her what she gave up to drive me,

or how her day was before this chore. Today,

at her age, I was driving myself home from yet

another spine appointment, singing along

to some maudlin but solid song on the radio,

and I saw a mom take her raincoat off

and give it to her young daughter when

a storm took over the afternoon. My god,

I thought, my whole life I’ve been under her

raincoat thinking it was somehow a marvel

that I never got wet.

[prokopetz]

Not to be a technical writer on main, but I've been bumping into the idea lately that the only reason explaining yourself in more detail never seems to work is because neurotypical people are misunderstanding you on purpose, or because they have short attention spans, or because they just hate listening to you talk – and sure, occasionally that's even true, but most of the time the problem you're running into is more fundamental.

Every time you add more detail, you're running the risk of tripping over a bad assumption on your part about the listener's prior knowledge, or hitting the tipping point where they become overwhelmed with new information (and remember that you don't know which parts of what you're saying will be new information for them), or making a leap of logic that isn't as self-evident as you think it is, or any of a dozen other potential snags which, by definition, you will not see coming until it's too late to correct course.

Basically, every piece of information you add multiplies the odds of you getting blindsided by some vector of misunderstanding you didn't anticipate, even as it addresses the ones you did anticipate. The point of diminishing returns where continuing to elaborate increases the odds of unexpected miscommunication more than it decreases the odds of expected miscommunication is much nearer than you'd like.

The most effective act of communication is not the one which contains the most possible information, but the one which contains the smallest amount of information it possibly can while still getting its point across. It sucks, but it's the reality of the situation. People far more autistic than you have been trying for hundreds of years to invent a way of communicating which doesn't work this way, without success.

All of which is to say that "getting to the damn point" is legitimately a communication skill, not just an accommodation for people who aren't paying attention. If it's any consolation, it's something neurotypical people struggle with just as much as anyone else – if it was easy, technical writers wouldn't have jobs!

[calameowri-deactivated20251204]

im so tired of being unable to say "no/please stop" because if i do the other person will hurt themself

[calameowri-deactivated20251204]

if you self flagellate, self harm, self deprecate, etc when someone says "no thanks" to you or says "hey this made me uncomfortable" or generally sets a boundary, you are punishing for setting a boundary. maybe not intentionally, but it instills the mindset that if someone sets a boundary with you, something bad will happen.