inactive side blog

personal and art blog @p4rtlycloudy

[stuckinapril]

[emnesoi0]

this is the future liberals want

[kosmogrl]

ever since I was a little girl I knew I never wanted to tell anyone anything

[st-pam]

[sour-echinacea]

where do people get energy from

[fladurblegon]

love BDSM ( buying dumb sht for myself )

[kosmogrl]

[storybookprincess]

if i can impart any one piece of wisdom to y’all, it’s to, whenever possible, assume good intentions

assume people are trying their best, want to be good and treat others well, and that when their behavior doesn’t align with those goals, it’s because of outside factors that are pushing them to their limit

it’s hard to do, it doesn’t always come naturally, but it’s worth it

[storybookprincess]

before anyone jumps in with an “op has clearly never worked in the service industry,” i work in a public facing library job

i have a patron who is mean as a snake. won’t respond when you greet her, barks orders at you, and is generally nasty

i couldn’t stand her & dreaded the moment she walked in the door, until i stopped one day & went “wow, to walk around feeling unhappy enough to treat people so horribly every day. what a difficult way to live.”

and so my tactics changed. i made a point to be extra kind & friendly to her. she changed her hair color one day & when i complimented her on it, she was very caught off guard & said “oh, thank you. my whole life i’ve thought i was ugly.”

now we’re at the point where she shows me pictures of watercolor paintings she made & says hi when she walks in the door. she’s not my favorite patron, but she’s perfectly okay. most unpleasant people aren’t inherently rotten, they’re just unhappy & coping with it poorly

assume people are always doing their best, even if their best happens to fall a bit short. assume good intentions

[moveslikekeithrichards]

there is no greater joy on this earth than Making Lists, Categorizing, & Sorting

[flying-lemons]

oh do I have the game for you

[dancing-crow]

I could . not. put. this down for 48 hours - stayed up too late, had weird dreams about it, woke up early, and played it while I was supposed to be doing other things. the last several dozen items took a lot of googling, which I do not even begrudge it.

and then. My partner started it. And the SAME THING happened to him.

surprisingly compelling. start when you have free time. like, yanno, a snow day.

[foone]

oh my god, if you are the kind of person who gets sucked into logic puzzles, do not click that link if you have to do anything/go to sleep in the next couple hours

[dambiex]

the problem with parents is that they are undiagnosed

[setulose]

Feels like everyone just kind of agreed on all of the constellations already. What if I have a new one

[p4rtlycloudyx]

idk what to do with this information, but i cannot stop thinking about hollanov x billie bossa nova. editors.. PLEASE !!

[queer-as-city-folk]

𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟𓆝 𓆟 𓆞

Fishies to make it all hurt less

[wilderbutch-deactivated20250413]

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ𓍊𓋼𖡼𖤣𖥧𓆏𖡼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ𓍊𓋼𖡼𖤣𖥧𓆏𖡼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ𓍊𓋼𖡼𖤣𖥧𓆏𖡼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊

Froggies to make it all hurt less

[r3negade-x]

"Try our ai-powered-" and I've stopped reading. You've instantly lost me. I don't trust anything that labels itself ai-powered. I'd rather deal with something that's squirrel-powered. Like Norm. I trust Norm. He won't try to sell my data.

[reg1ment]

do any of you guys have tumblr

[strange-aeons]

no

[fishparasite]

you will live and you will say the wrong things and make mistakes and people will love you anyways.

[fishparasite]

i made this post because i've got so many friends that think saying something wrong in a conversation is the end of the world. it isn't. you'll be okay. you don't have to be embarrassed about every little thing. you are alive and doing things and speaking to people. you will make mistakes and you will live.

[juniper-petunia]

they should make a version of socializing that doesn’t make you feel like you’re still the weird 12 year old kid that doesn’t know why she’s not normal like the other kids