I love my friend a lot, but every time they get really into a game or a call, rp replies almost completely stop. Sometimes I'm perfectly fine with it, but lots of times, like the most recent incident, it kinda hurts because I'm so excited for the rps we were either about to do or were in the middle of doing, and suddenly I have to curb that excitement. But at the same time, I'm happy they're having fun, and we both can lose track of time really easily, plus we'll probably get back into it just fine later, so I'm not exactly mad either… I just wish I could complain or ask for us to do more replies without feeling like I'm hounding or shaming them…
Hey there, OP. I 100% get where you're coming from. It can be hard when it feels like the excitement you feel isn't returned. So, first off, good on you for NOT complaining or asking for more replies during those times. That's the way to do it. 100%! Also, speaking as someone who bounces around between multiple hobbies (often focusing on one to the detriment of the others) I can promise you that your partner is still excited and still loves writing with you. Their brain just has an alternative focus at the moment.
In regards to having to 'curb that excitement,' have you thought about other things you can do to hold onto it instead? There's no harm in finding another outlet for what you're feeling while you're waiting for your friend. Drabbles, maybe? Or aesthetic photo posts? Or themed Pinterest boards? What about music playlists? Or even those cute meme-y character quizzes or character designers? You've got a lot of options that might do the trick for you.
I'm sorry you're feeling the way you are, but I'm also glad to hear you understand things from your friend's perspective, too. You've got this. <3 And I promise, your friend appreciates your understanding more than they might be able to say. :)














