Hullo! I have dyscalculia, basically math dyslexia where anything beyond addition is hard to understand. Failing to figure out a tip or change correctly in front of a math enthusiast like Siebren would be devastating, and I'd be sad I couldn't understand his work bc I love space/science. Any hc how he'd comfort a female s/o with that? I can usually laugh it off but at the end of the day sometimes I dwell on it and get upset. Touch is my greatest comfort with a s/o. Thank you and be well! <3
Okay real talk I actually relate to this a lot. Growing up I had OLP (ordinal linguistic personification) occur a lot. Basically my brain was convinced that numbers had personalities/characteristics/ages so needless to say it made learning math a horrible experience and I still have a distaste for it. Ironically I work with numbers all day now lolÂ
But worry not! Heâs here to help <3Â
He noticed that you would struggle with math right away when he saw you try and pay for your share of a dinner once when calculating a tip. Instead he offered to pay for you both anyway so you wouldnât have to think about it.Â
But he definitely saw that you grew frustrated, even when you didnât say anything when trying to solve small problems here and there or scheduling payments for bills around the house. In those instances, he would squeeze your hand and offer to take over for you.
He wasnât sure how to bring up the fact that he noticed these things without embarrassing you or making your feel helpless, but he wanted to lift the burden from you so badly. He hates seeing you upset or confused!
He *never* belittles or judges you for not understanding different levels of mathematics. After all, physics is a crazy complicated field and the only people he judges are the ones who act like know-it-alls but really have nothing to show for it!
It wasnât until one day a few weeks later that the truth finally broke out when he saw that you were flustered in front of one of the whiteboards in his lab.
You had papers sprawled out everywhere trying to solve just one of the otherworldly equations that he had written out, but to no avail in the end.Â
He gently placed his arms around your shoulders and brought yo backwards into his arms so that he could rest his head on top of yours, âWould you like me to walk you through it?â
You slowly began to cry and hide your face in your hands, âI canât do it, Iâve never been able to do this! I just donât understand and I know you probably would think Iâm dumb if I tried learning something like this!â
He softly shushed you and explained to you that he loves you for being yourself, not for being a pioneer in the field of physics or mathematics! In fact, he admired you for trying to break free of your comfort zone by learning something new!
âJust because an old man like myself spent decades learning this material doesnât mean you need to compare yourself, schatje!â
He offered to show you how some of the basic forms of the equations were broken down once you felt calmer. Even though it sounded like a foreign language, you felt better knowing that he accepts who you are without question so you gladly listened (and he even threw in a few kisses at the end for sticking it out!)
From then on he encouraged you to reach out if you ever wanted to learn some basic tricks to understanding some problems more quickly. While he never pushed it, you were always glad to take him up on the offer since he always motivated you with floating hugs/kisses whenever you tried and succeeded ;)
If you want him doing the tipping or the tax calculations, ask away! He loves the change of pace from complex equations! Heâll never judge and he loves that you can rely on him for small things like that.
At the end of the day, he wants you to feel proud of who you are, and that person is the woman he fell in love with!Â