Beautiful Chaos

Natalie, 28, Coventry- England. Forever obsessed with books and boy bands. 11.11.19❤️ 06.11.2024 💍L&N. All I want is my man to kiss me when I get home, a golden retriever and a place go forget the world 💞

[drulalovescas]

the more things change, the more they stay the same

[victusinveritas]

[coginthemachine]

kindred spirits with our fave trade school alum

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Fuck your dream job what’s your dream hobby that you don’t have the means to take up yet. Mine are falconry and aerial acrobatics

[wrdlbrmpfd]

The puppy dog eyes didn't lose any power

[bombsights]

we have omegaverse destiel at home | THE BOYS 5.05

bonus (likely thing for the world’s first omega to say):

[ifelloffthebed]

fixed it

[maidthings]

i really like how the milkman exists as an entirely fossilized character who now serves no purpose other than to fuck people's wives for the punchline

[sabertoothwalrus]

pros of eating your lunch outside on a nice spring day: feeling the sun, getting vitamin d, hearing birds chirping, watching the bees and the lizards and the squirrels

cons of eating your lunch outside on a nice spring day:

MY NAPKINS

[handsomeboymodelingschool]

[handsomeboymodelingschool]

I didn't include maybe my favourite part

[oliviawhen]

Job hunting in a hostile environment. ✨

[beardedmrbean]

We got you buddy

[aniki-price]

When people say "crab bucket mentality" I always think "buckets don't occur in nature" and then things like this.

[snazzy-hats-and-adhd]

"Buckets don't occur in nature"

actually goes hard as fuck.

[nondelphic]

“you should write every day” bestie i’m trying to live every day. write?? i barely eat enough fruit.

[ashberrrry]

I be like "omg, i have so much to do" and then go lay down

[luckynein]

If you aren’t already aware, Health & Wellbeing - Findings from the 2022 U.S. Trans Survey was released recently. I wanted to make a post focusing on when it talks about trans men but I fully recommend yall look at the thing fully as well.

When it comes to healthcare, trans men are among the most likely to avoid care because of mistreatment and were among the highest to have negative experiences with healthcare providers.

When it comes to hormone and transition related surgery denials, trans men are among the highest.

Presented without comment. (And acknowledging this is not separated by gender and those other than trans men are included in this bit)

Lastly I wanted to illustrate the huge disparity between trans people of any gender at all and cis people wrt serious psychological distress.

[nixisverytired]

Not to derail but I think it would be useful if people also took note of the nonbinary stats here, since exorsexism is running rampant in this discourse as well.

Trans men, transmascs, and nonbinary people in general are suffering right now, and sometimes it feels like the rest of the community is either ignoring our oppression or actively perpetuating it.

[randomramblesofaraven]

Another bump because as someone who works in healthcare, I have seen this multiple times.

Transmascs and nonbinary people are the ones who come in latest, with the most severe health conditions.

Transmascs and nonbinary people are the ones who neglect their healthcare because they have faced so much heinous transphobic medical abuse.

All trans folks suffer in healthcare, but it's transmascs and nonbinary people I have seen in particular, over and over again, dealing with serious and life-altering/life-threatening complications specifically because they have been abused so consistently and awfully by the medical system, in a way targeted DIRECTLY at their transmasculinity or transneutrality, that they have let otherwise treatable conditions progress to a point where they are actually dangerous.*

We need to talk about that. Transmascs and nonbinary folks need to be able to talk about that, without being shouted down by people who are not transmasc and nonbinary, who consistently downplay and dismiss their very real and dangerous suffering.

If you cannot accept that a different minority group may, in fact, suffer comparably - or even more than you - in specific ways, you are, in fact, the problem. This is your wake-up call - it's time to do some soul searching. It is NOT GOOD PRAXIS to argue endlessly with transmascs and nonbinary people about what language they are 'allowed' to use. Start campaigning to support your trans brothers and siblings, rather than trying to shut them down when they discuss the very real oppression they face.

*Intersex people also fall into this category. They weren't even included in this study - which, really, tells you everything you need to know about the atrocious state of intersexism in our society.

[origami-dragons]

I go to youtube. Cute animal videos are AI now. I go to instagram. There are AI influencers. I go to spotify. It's flooded with AI bands and music. I go to ebay. Every product is AI. I open netflix. Every movie has AI. I watch TV. All commercials are AI. I cancel all my suscriptions. The customer support is AI. I buy a book. It is written by AI. I talk to my friends. They tell me that AI is their new therapist. I take the subway. Some dude is talking to his AI girlfriend next to me. I go to the beach. The sunset is real. I take a pic and upload it. The photo is enhanced with AI. You can't opt out.

[digitalisnarcissus]

[houndmother]

automated text reply that just says YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY PERSON I AM LETTING DOWN

[occasionallysubtle]

UGH