maybe she’s born with it maybe it’s duloxetine

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[zooophagous]

I love people who say "don't even PIRATE the AI generated shows!" I won't lol I have no desire to watch it at all. Why would I pirate that. It's like pirating an ad.

[jeniferprince]

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[dailymanners]

If someone just went through or is currently going through a major tragedy, trauma, crisis, or just an overwhelming event and you don't know what to do to be supportive, offer to make them or buy them a meal. Or if you're fairly close to them and you're fairly certain it will be well received, you can just show up at their place with an already prepared meal such as a pot of soup or a casserole (bonus if it's big enough that it could feed them multiple times) or alternatively gift them a gift certificate for a restaurant or food service that delivers.

Often times, especially if someone doesn't have very advanced social skills, and someone is going through some sort of major tragedy, trauma, crisis, or otherwise overwhelming event it can be really hard to know what to do for them to support them.

But when, say, a loved one just died, or you just went through a major traumatic event, or even something generally positive but still overwhelming such as you just had a baby, it can be much harder than usual to meet your basic needs such as feeding yourself.

So if you actually want to help someone who's really going through something, help them meet their basic needs such as making sure they're fed.

Other suggestions if cooking isn't your forte and you don't have enough extra funds to afford buying someone else a meal is doing dishes for them, doing their laundry, and/or cleaning up around their home. Anything to help them get their basic needs met when it's harder for them to meet their own basic needs.

[beanstroni]

The best gift for the grieving: paper towels, paper plates, plastic cutlery, garbage bags.

Take the tasks off their shoulders.

Bring in their mail. See a bill? Pin it to the fridge if you arent close enough to sit down and help pay it yourself (finances are touchy). Don't let them lose their utilities when they've already lost so much.

Take out their trash. Clean their toilet if you can find the tools.

Functioning is hard. It doesn't have to be their priority in grief if you can keep them safe and fed.

[in-the-drowning-deep]

This applies to major life shifts in general tbh! Someone's got a new baby? Bring food and nappies. Load the dishwasher. Tidy stuff up. Someone just moved house? Bring food. Someone just got divorced/is going through a messy breakup? Bring food and tissues and a shoulder to cry on.

[fairytracks]

Yep. Media seems to have latched onto this running "joke" of mocking characters who bring casseroles to the grieving, or trying to imply that EVERYONE does that and it's therefore somehow actually UNhelpful or even detrimental to flood grieving or struggling people with too much food. But like...

I've never received a casserole in my life despite plenty of grieving and struggle. Not everyone has a support network like that, and not everyone just brings a casserole when they don't know what else to do. Most people, from what I've seen, when they don't know what to do, do nothing. Also. Casseroles can be frozen. Also also if they ARE for some reason just completely overwhelmed with food contributions? You could do some dishes for them! Or maybe help separate out the servings into freezer bags for them. Or both.

Procuring and preparing food is hard. Especially when you're not even feeling hungry due to nausea or grief or anxiety. And spoons are out the window. It's hard to think of body's needs. So having any help, and the wonderful gesture that someone else is there for you and IS thinking of your needs... it means a lot.

[starlit-meadow]

Look it’s me

[teabree-shark]

[m0thmancore]

[triplesixmafia]

[yellow-cat]

actually hate that the bodys response to anything is nausea. ate too much? nauseous. ate too little? nauseous. an imaginary threat got you scared? be nauseous. on your period? you guessed it. sawed into your hand and need to go to the emergency room? perhaps throwing up into your open wound will be of help

[glimmerchune]

no no, i get it. i can see why you're confused- I want the CANON to be completely platonic, fucked-up exploration of intimacy that transcends human sexuality but never includes human sexuality.

I want to be the pervert that makes them fuck.

[alwaystiredshark]

More of my art @alwaystiredshark

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[tearsofrefugees]

‘Everything is gone’: Israel destroys entire villages in Lebanon

Rights groups fear tactic of ‘domicide’ trialled in Gaza, where entire areas are made uninhabitable, is being used again

[hagiomoto]

I wanted to point out that both Google and Apple have already erased the names of those villages from Lebanon’s maps, and they should be held in contempt for it.

[only-cat-memes]

[3000s]

we are in truble

[dailycatsblog]

[joycomplexx]

by the way it's fine to like sexual content just for the sake of it. "we can't ban porn because other stuff will get banned" "sometimes nude art has value" "the government will classify queer people as sexual" this is all true but it's okay to just like porn. its okay to not want porn to be banned because you like it.

[machinot]

As a kid you see seahorses in cartoons as actual underwater horses for the fish people to ride on and it makes u never really realize how fucking weird seahorses actually are. Forget the horse part and just look at this fish. It’s a serpentine type fish like an eel, with a tube shaped body, but it’s stuck in a stiff C shape and can mostly only articulate its head and tail. So it swims standing upright. With its weird tiny hummingbird fins. Is this weird to anyone else

[rainyydoves]

it's also kind of hard to get until you see it but they are literally just barely wrapped around their skeletons. there is no extra meat there.

a tiny bony as hell animal with a prehensile tail that is incapable of swimming like other fish (so they cling to seaweed and coral). they can do mpreg. some of them are ambush predators. nobody does this like them

[tiktoksijustthinkareneat]

[catboybiologist]

Love conversations where every single participant has certified Issues

[virtualgirladvance]

One guys issue is not knowing vampires are real. I feel him

[raevenlywrites]

Love burying the lead "he's 33 I'm 22-" bitch he is 433 give or take

[scrabbleknight]

He doesn't know how to divide by 2.

[thedeadtravelfast]

@nightcrawler-fan @iceandbone

[nightcrawler-fan]

...why does this have better writing than most actual comedy series about fantasy characters?

[kittydesade]

.... is one of those guys Blade?

[your-dads-filing-cabinet]

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

If I had a Death Note I'd use the death control rules to try to make entertaining scenarios. I'd list seven different world-destroying billionaires under "burns to death on a livestream on a mega yacht" and set it for the maximum allowed time of death after writing and see if the Death Note can create a livestreamed billionaire yacht party that goes horribly wrong in one month.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

I would also cause so much collateral damage. The rules specify that you can't peripherally kill others with the Note, but they say nothing about listing deaths as "AI server farm explosion" or "military drone factory collapse"