So hey, I’ve had a bunch of new people start following me in the last two weeks or so, which is a bit, uh, crazy. And cool. But yeah. Hi! Welcome! I figured I should maybe like... Say a couple things about myself and this blog.
This is primarily a fandom blog. I have... quite a few fandoms. You can see a bit of that from my AO3 profile. There are many others that I have never written for, as well. I also love when people translate/podfic/remix/art my stuff. Just link me to it so I can squee.
I am Old by tumblr/fandom standards. I’m an actualfax Grown Up who works a Grown Up Job and Pays Bills and sometimes I have a potty mouth. Sometimes, there will be Grown Up type things being discussed here. But I am also ace, and so I will pretty much never post or share anything that’s explicit or NSFW because it’s just not my jam. But I also know that some people feel uncomfortable interacting with an adult, regardless of contact, so I want to make sure that expectations are clear up front.
I hope this is a safe space for people. I try my very best not to judge people based on race/religion/gender/sexual identity/age/mental health issues/etc. I try to keep politics off of my blog. There’s enough of that in other places, this is supposed to be a fun place. Treat everyone like a human being, regardless of how they identify on whatever spectrum they choose, and we should get along just fine.
If I do or say something that offends/upsets you, let me know, and I’ll do my best to not repeat the mistake. But if it’s my personal preferences about content that offends you, I suggest unfollowing me and moving on. Life’s too short to get worked up over stupid internet shit.
I love chatting with people. Anonymous asks are turned on, and so are messages. If you want to talk about fandom stuff, if you just want to say hi, or if you want some Actualfax Grown Up Advice, feel free to drop me a line. Just know that I’m also kind of a Disaster Human who struggles with depression, anxiety, and ADHD, which let me tell you, is an awesome combination and means my advice might occasionally be suspect. But I am also more than happy to openly discuss these issues, because I firmly believe that until we allow ourselves to discuss them openly and normalize how much everyone struggles, we’ll never get past the stigma.
So yeah. Welcome, kick up your feet, pour yourself a beverage of your choice, and try to have some fun!
