[This post will be updated periodically; last update 01/15/2025]
call me Rowan or Lark!
i'm 21, a pan & polyamorous transfem genderfluid stoner punk alterhuman girlthing, pre-E; she/they/ae > he. if you're on my blog, you're not straight, sorry :3c
i've got BPD and auDHD and use tonetags to clarify my tone for personal reasons.
i'm also an aceflux [borderline hypersexual?] verse switch with a slight sub lean! trying to explore my more dominant side as well tho
I'm taken & in a closed relationship but open to fwb's or exploring :3 anything more than casual requires an interview w/ my hubby, tho [/hj]
this blog is primarily NSFW/NSFT, as such, minors and ageless accounts please DNI. i am indiscriminate in what I reblog, so it might be wacky and wholesome fandom content one minute and a hard kink the next, so scroll with caution! i don't tag things efficiently, so don't expect that.
If you really wanna know more about me, take a peek below the cut :3 DMs are reserved for moots but asks are encouraged for all!
taken tags: 🦴, 🐶🕳, 🐾
My hobbies include but are not limited to:
reading, media consumption of all kinds [tv series, movies, anime, youtube, you name it], hiking and meandering, art / doodling & graphic design, music production, songwriting and poetry, thrifting and style, random crafts, video games [depending on my mood - Inscryption, Sonic, Celeste, Minecraft, COTL, FNAF, Fortnite or Roller Champions, racers, & more! just ask lmao], listening to music [i have an eclectic music taste! Music recs are welcome!], learning guitar
I'm plural and some posts might allude to that. I'm open to discussing it but most of my pluralblr related posts go elsewhere [if you want our handle, ask.]
I prefer feminine or gender neutral petnames [especially kitty!] but love being called a pretty boy :3 other than that just try stuff out on me.
I'm about 6' and naturally a ginger [i will fight the recolor war and dye on that hill tho]
I don't have any tattoos or piercings yet, but want to change that soon!
My likes and Special Likes, ranking out of 3 ☆'s: [hard kinks tw]
[I'm technically a virgin, still exploring, but i do a lot of reading lol]
more people need to lick necks. and cheeks. and ears. and thighs. just FUCK. lick tummies and happy trails and fingers. screw just licking the nipple, lick all over chests. FUCK. lick between shoulder blades when you fuck someone from behind!
cute little abandoned fursuit that seems like it’s in really good condition for having just been left outside. you take it and get it all cleaned up and put it on and take some pictures, and it’s really nice.
the problem is when you go to take it off you can’t. the zipper is just gone and there isn’t a split between the head and the body anymore, and then the eyes flick closed, leaving you in darkness.
something wet squelches against your ear. wet, and warm.
it leaves a little trail of slime as it curls over the top of your ear and up your earlobe before pressing in. you try to yank the head off but the suit won’t even let you move your arms.
there’s another one on your other ear, wriggling and squirming into your ear canal before they both idly start to thrust in and out, each deep plunge coating your ear in whatever hot liquid they’re secreting.
there’s a firm pressure between your legs. another one, but wide, so wide it spreads your thighs as it grinds up into you before changing tactics and curling upward before dipping through your waistband. it teases your surprisingly needy hole for all too long before plunging in all at once, and when you whimper involuntarily, another one shoots down your mouth and into your throat so fast you can’t stop it.
there’s a different moan, and it takes you a minute to realize it’s the suit itself. you’re moving now, forced to walk as she crosses the house, going to your bedroom.
when she lays down on the bed, a seam splits open between her legs, and when she starts rubbing it you feel it like it’s your own, whining in tandem as your hips buck upwards together
you have no idea how long she keeps you there inside herself, trapped in the pitch black with her tendrils ravaging your ears, throat, and ass, but you both cum so many times you lose count, and she fills you every time until you eventually pass out
you wake up tucked into your bed with a lipstick mark on one cheek and a pawprint on your hand. the fursuit is nowhere to be seen
btw. i keep getting told my begging is rlly hot, so. this is the basic formula i learned as a teenager:
1. request--the thing you're begging for. let me cum, don't spank me, get me pregnant, etc. be descriptive--usually, the more explicit, the better. make it sound appealing to your partner. refer to them by title (if applicable) in this step or the third step. not both.
2. promise--why they should do it. this can include descriptions of how whatever you're asking for will feel for them, how you'll react, or a promise for good behavior or quid pro quos. (in noncon scenes, this is also where you'd put a promise not to tell anyone/get the aggressor in trouble). this should be your longest section, and you CAN give more than one reason.
3. request--rephrase what you asked for in step 1. if step 1 was short, make this longer. if step 1 was long, make it shorter. this is the step where eye contact is most important.
in general, use a deferential, beseeching tone--you can choose how composed to keep it, but keep an undercurrent of "i'll die if you say no." (alternatively, you can lean into the humiliation of verbalizing your desires and speak soft and stuttery. but be warned, you'll run the risk of your dom making you repeat yourself louder.)
If you need some aftercare, love, after an intense session with yourself, hm?
You're such a good darling, angel. You did so well, didn't you, hm? You made me so proud. Such a good girl, such a good boy. Such a good pet. Let's take all those things off of you, hm?
Slow, soft kisses all over your sweaty face, your tear-stained cheeks. You did such a good job, sweetheart. Oh, look at you. You're twitching and shaking so beautifully, darling. You deserve to feel this good, hm? Because you're so good, angel.
Are you a little sore, darling? Remember to be kind to yourself, hm? Your body is incredible, and you did such a good job. Do you need a nice, long bath, hm? Are you a little sleepy?
That's all good, angel. Being sleepy is a perfectly normal response. Just hide your face in my neck and take some deep breaths, alright? I'll trail my fingers oh-so-softly down your sides, your back, darling. You did so well for me, I'm so proud of you.
What is it that you like, hm? Do you want me to play with your hair? Gently scratch your scalp? Whatever you want, just say the word, darling. I've got you.
Softly caressing your cheeks. You did so well for me, love, thank you. You are so precious.
Is your mouth a little dry, angel? Drink some water. Go on. Oh, that's a good baby. Have a little more, hm? For me? Good, good, I'm so proud of you. You did so well, angel.
Take a few deep breaths, hm? Slow... deep... good girl, darling. Good boy, angel. Well done, hm? You make me so proud.
I know you don't want to get up, darling. But you've gotta clean up, hm? Wait until you stop shaking, whimpering, twitching. You're a cutie, aren't you? Mm. When you clean up after? You make me proud, darling, you're so good, aren't you?
Grab a snack, okay? Your body's used a lot of energy, you need to be kind to it and replenish it, hm? A little snack bar. Some fruit? An apple? You're so good, darling, I promise you are.
Put some lotion or ointment if you did any heavy impact play, hm? You deserve to take care of your body.
You did so well. You make me so proud. You are absolutely more than enough, darling. You are worthy of pleasure; of kisses, cuddles, and so much more.
the one and only tip for sex with a trans guy is to treat his dick like a dick. be fucking vocal about it. no matter its size, bottom growth or not, post op or not, flesh or silicone or anything. fuck it, fingers can be a dick too.
take it in your mouth and suck it properly. gag around it. clench around it. if you're bottoming, describe precisely how well it's filling you, how wet or tight you feel around it, how you feel it throbbing. say shit like I want you to come inside me. if you're topping or siding, jerk it off like you fucking mean it. make your lover watch and praise how big and hard it is for you. *actually call it a cock out loud and fucking worship it*.
sometimes i be saying im gonna go to bed and then i dont go to bed. frequently in fact. this is because i have the heart of an optimist and the soul of a liar
My number one rule as a dom-leaning switch is, "Ask nicely or take it."
Want to touch me? Ask nicely or take it.
Want to kiss? Ask nicely or pin me to the wall and take it.
Want to eat me out? Ask nicely or pin my legs over and fucking take it.
