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i love queerplatonic relationships where one of them is aroace and the other isn't. i love when the allo character has a crush that fades over time. i love when they don't care what they are to each other as long as they're together. i love when romance is an option that they don't choose. i love when both aros and allos feel fulfilled without romance or sex.
i just think it's funny how allos and some (read: pick-me) aces try to defend aces as a whole with the same bullshit talking point that throws an entire aspect of the spectrum under the bus.
"aces are the HORNIEST, KINKIEST people you will EVER meet and they make the BEST porn."
that's cool. anyways, totally unrelated question: do you support aces only when they do something for you and reduce them to allos or do you support with repulsed aces without calling them puritans?
ARCTIC MONKEYS ►“Do I Wanna Know?” ♫
Have you got colour in your cheeks?
Do you ever get that fear that you can’t shift
The type that sticks around like summat in your teeth?
Are there some aces up your sleeve?
Have you no idea that you’re in deep?
I dreamt about you nearly every night this week
How many secrets can you keep?
‘Cause there’s this tune I found that makes me think of you somehow and I play it on repeat
Until I fall asleep
Spilling drinks on my settee
(Do I wanna know?)
If this feeling flows both ways?
(Sad to see you go)
Was sort of hoping that you’d stay
(Baby, we both know)
That the nights were mainly made for saying things that you can’t say tomorrow day
Crawling back to you
i always need radqueers to stay out of my face but i especially need them to stay out of the intersex and blackblr tags. it's just,,, fucking insulting (to say the least) to see parts of my identity that keep me disadvantaged in society being turning into white people uwu tumblr shit. genuinely fuck off.
