just some fandom affirmations I needed:
it's okay to like that character
it's okay to dislike that character
it's okay to have complicated feelings on that character
it's okay to have different views of that character
it's okay to talk about that character
it's okay to talk about what you like about that character
it's okay to talk about why you don't like that character
it's okay to avoid that character
it’s okay for fandom to dislike a character
it's okay to see that character as agender
it's okay to see that character leaning to a gender
it's okay to ship those characters
it's okay to ship those characters differently
it's okay to not ship those characters at all
it's okay to ship multiple of those ships
it's okay to headcanon as platonic or queerplatonic
it's okay to headcanon as romantic or sexual
it's okay to try and "be the change" you want to see
it's okay to take a break and look after yourself
it's okay to block people who post stuff you don't like
it's okay to be blocked by people who don't like
its okay to be upset when you are blocked
it's okay to talk about something you haven't created lots for
it's okay to talk about something you're not "in the fandom" for
it's okay to be excited about common fanons
it's okay to be excited about uncommon fanons
its okay to not be excited by fanons
it's okay to not create fanworks
it's okay to create bad fanworks
it's okay to go nuts and create loads and loads of fanworks
it's okay to kudo, to comment, to bookmark
it's okay to view quietly
it's okay to write gen fic
it's okay to write shipping fic
it's okay to write ambiguously both fic
it's okay to be excited about femslash
it's okay to talk about being excited about femslash
it's okay to write fluffy femslash
it's okay to write toxic femslash
it's okay to write short femslash and long femslash
it's okay to write no femslash at all
it's okay to write that gender
it's okay to write that race
it's okay to write that sexuality
it's okay to write that medical issue
it’s okay to notice bias in fandom
it’s okay to talk about patterns of bias
it’s okay to be disappointed by bias
it's okay to write meaningless fics
it's okay to write your feelings into words
it's okay to follow the canon
it's okay to play with fanon
it's okay to share your headcanon
it’s okay to have multiple headcanons
it's okay to give warnings
it's okay to choose not to warn
it's okay to be in all the fandom
it's okay to stick to one part of fandom
it's okay to talk lots in fandom and be visible
it's okay to talk to only a couple and be invisible
it's okay to want community and engagement
it's okay to want to do your own thing
it's okay to know the fandom history
it's okay to not know the fandom history
it's okay to prefer the book
it's okay to prefer the tv show
it's okay to prefer the audiobook
it's okay to prefer the fanaudio
it's okay to prefer all of them or some of them or none of them
it's okay to engage with fandom in your own way in your own style about your own things you like and dislike
everyone is having a different experience with the canon
everyone is having a different experience with the fandom