[safe-haven-safe-place]

[sunflorally]

i hope you buy things that bring you joy. i hope you wear clothes that make you feel good. i hope you decorate your home however you like. i hope you don’t wake up dreading going to work. i hope you meet people that make your heart sing. i hope you discover hobbies that fulfill you. i hope you go on fantastic adventures that give you unforgettable memories. i hope you do things just because you want to, and i hope you don’t feel like you have to justify your decisions to anybody. i hope you find happiness. i hope you cultivate a life you love.

[a1exachung]

yes zach villa is attractive and all but can we not stan and/or romanticise actual real life true crime serial killers

[whitepeopletwitter]

[amuseoffyre]

I’m so here for families cancelling their racists.

[micdotcom]

This white woman’s shocking account of police brutality reveals the importance of the #BlackLivesMatter movement

Molly Suzanna shared a story on Facebook that she had never told before: when she was 19, she ran a red light while crying, then was pulled over and forcefully removed and beaten by a police officer. She explains in the letter that she believes her situation would have been even worse had she been black — and she ends the letter with an important call to action.

[lanie-love09]

The public needs to hear more stories like this as well.

[lennybaby2]

Wow. This is horrifying.

[the-sarkai]

Cops are drunk on power. Add any ism to that, you have a bunch of abusive, gun wielding, trained to kill, non empathetic, killers running around.

[alexandra-erin]

This woman got hauled out of a window, beaten, stripped, tortured, and humiliated, and she still is able to understand how white privilege saved her life.

[valenschmidt]

THINGS I LOVED ABOUT SEX EDUCATION

- Showing Otis flaws and his struggle with himself to not become like his father

- Otis and Eric's friendship (I will ALWAYS support a straight and a gay friendship with a lot of intimacy and trust)

- Showing Jane and Otis progress in their relationship

- EVERYTHING ABOUT ERIC (seriously I love that boy so much)

- I really loved Adam's arc this season. That poor boy has been abused his whole life and took out that anger and sadness in others. I'm really happy that he was finally able to accept his sexuality and also be held accountable for his mistakes. Also... LET MY BOY BE HAPPY

- Lily. She is perfection

- LILY AND OLA (I totally called it)

- ADAM AND ERIC. HOLY SHIT I WAS NERVOUS THE ENTIRE TIME. I REALLY THOUGHT THEY WEREN'T GONNA MAKE THEM CANON. AND THEIR KISS WAS SO SWEET

- Adam and his big love confession in the middle of the musical (when He said "I wanna hold your hand I sobbed)

- Jackson and Viv's friendship. Literally they were adorable together and I'm really glad two completely different people managed to become very good friends with each other

- That really surprising (but also very welcomed) friendship between Ola and Adam. I really wasn't expecting it to happen, but I'm really glad it happened. Also that hug was adorable

- That epic Romeo and Juliet space musical!!

- THAT POWERFUL FEMALE FRIENDSHIP FORMED IN DETENTION

- CAN YOU BELIEVE MAUREEN DIVORCED MR. GROFF'S ASS!? Happy

- Jackson and his mom finally understanding eachother and being supportive

- Maureen and Jean's friendship

- Maeve being the protective big sister 😍😍😍

- All the LGBT representation. Y'all really deserve to be represented (specially Ace, Bi and Pan people)

- Aimee's story arc. It's very important to talk about sexual assault and non consensual situations!!!

In conclussion... SEX EDUCATION IS THE BEST SHOW PERIOD

[spaceyjules-deactivated20180305]

If you call pedophilia a kink please unfollow me and never talk to me again

[spaceyjules-deactivated20180305]

Isn’t it disgusting that 23 people just unfollowed me

[clarknokent]

Unfollow me too

[gothhabiba]

this goes double if you call paedophilia a disability. unfollow me twice

[closet-keys]

and if you call pedophilia an “orientation” or in any way compare it to being LGBP+ you can unfollow, delete your blog, and set yourself on fire. 

[peachypastel]

I just lost 50 followers.. bye

[katiemcgrxth]

clearing out the trash

[bway-grimes]

GO ON AND S M A S H THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON

[moonedknights]

BUHBYE U McNASTIES

[bogleech]

I’ve seen this circulating forever and genuinely thought “no way do I have any of them following me” until this week when it turned out I had all these fuckin “MAP” (pedophile) followers sad to find out I’m an “anti” (normal person) Please leave and also please get guinea worm.

[flerpdederp]

GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY BLOG

[bunchofdoodlesinspace]

I reblogged something similar to this a while ago but again:

if you support pedophilia,

kindly get the fuck off of my blog.

Thanks.

[princet-ofthe-rivers]

I reblog these regularly.

STAY OFF MY BLOOOOOOG

[littlebabiebear]

Shoo fly, don’t bother me👋🏾

[fragilelikeabomb0106]

Pedophilia is not welcome in the LGBTQ+ community nor are MAPs or pedophilia apologizers welcome on any of my blogs. If you support pedophilia, unfollow me. My blog is a safe space but I will not tolerate the sexualization of children.

[moonthymes]

anyway jeff bezos could eradicate homelessness. he could literally give each homeless person 100k and it would only take less than .5% of his entire wealth. what the actual god giving fuck

[the-prolefeed]

Why do you think they deserve it

[killin-the-machine]

Well shelter is a basic need, and would at the very least allow them a place where they can get back on their feet. Food water and shelter are necessary for a healthy body and psychology. There’s also the fact that they’re people too, and a little help goes a long way in making a decent community. There’s plenty of reasons

[the-prolefeed]

Yeah they need stuff, but why does every homeless person deserve 0.5% of someone’s income

[teaboot]

You have five hundred apples, and just one day to eat them all. 

You pass by a small crowd of hungry children, and decide you’d rather 455 apples go rotten than give them to some snotty brat who isn’t your problem.

It doesn’t matter how hard you’ve worked for your 500 apples, or that you aren’t the parent of any of those kids. in the moment you decide to walk away, it doesn’t matter why they’re hungry, or who owes who what.

You had the opportunity to help people, you had the ability to help people, you had the resources to help people. You had everything you needed to make a small, tiny little difference in someone’s life, and you decided not to.

What are you going to buy in your lifetime that’s worth more to you than your own humanity?

[just-queer-things]

What are you going to buy in your lifetime that’s worth more to you than your own humanity

[i-sold-my-soul-to-thefandom]

Reblogging for the very, very important lesson

[coffing-deactivated20220824]

would you woohoo me on sims yes or no

[oi0u98ygth-deactivated20260120]

me every month: has my period AGAIN 

me every month: 

[epicghostdragon]

Welllllllllllllll periods suck(trust me, I was emotionally close with a woman, in fact close enough to feel her goddamn periods. Fuck I fucking hated it, men, don’t get that attached. Be supportive, feed her ice cream and whatever else she asks for, but don’t get attached enough to feel them. It’s not worth it.

Anyway, I hate to be callous but that’s just your body telling you to hurry up and get pregnant. Of course birth control also makes them not as bad, depending on what kind. Of course you find out that there’s more kinds of birth control than there are types of oil, which is a pain. There are more period blood containment things(yes, tht includes tampons, pads, cups, etc.) than there are types of oil according to my dad who actually knows his shit about the oil,saying there’s like 4 types.(Yes, talking about motor oil here)

So ladies, find what’s right for you. Ask a doctor. Test some different period things out. It’s for your own good

[oi0u98ygth-deactivated20260120]

What the FUCK are you talking about

[eclecticblkgirl]

I thought I couldn’t fucking read for a minute

[magicalgirlpropaganda]

What

[crayyola-deactivated20220827]

Did. This guy just. Assume women didnt. Know that. Did he just mansplain periods

[frenchynilla]

Did he imply that he could actually feel someone else’s period??¿¿?

[omgimsuchadork]

MOTOR OIL??????

[radioactive-tempest]

[the-alethiometer]

[llamacrabz]

Men be like that sometimes

[rogerina-yee-haw]

what THE FUCK is that shit

[that-bookworm-guy]

Please read.

I’m really sorry to do this and I know I’ve asked for help before but I don’t know what else to do.

My dad has walked out on my mum, me and my sister, as well as our dog. Our dog has medical needs and relies on a mixture of daily tablets. We have no idea if he is coming back, he hasn’t spoken to any of us.

We also are not sure if we can afford the house as the bulk of the bills were paid by dad who had a good job, I’m going to use what I have saved to move out to help with whatever I can and I am also willing to use whatever of my savings I have. HOWEVER this is not going to be enough. 

I’m working on selling my things and also finding a new job that will pay better than my current one. But in the mean time all commission and virtual coffee money I get will be going towards sorting out my living arrangements and not my transition. 

These are my commission prices. I am shit at drawing people, I mean a 5 year old can do people so much better than me,  but if you want a portrait I will attempt them. I’m pretty much open to everything and anything. Animal portraits are pretty much the same as my people, I’ve had a few lucky shots with them, but I will only do them in black and white like the cat above.

Please check out my art blog @kyle-william-urban for what I do, I mainly do space art and illustrative tattoo designs.

For virtual coffees, comment something you would like if you buy me one. I will do small portraits via that if you want. I will try pretty much anything. 

Of course, please don’t feel like you have to buy a commission or a virtual coffee, you don’t even have to reblog, but it will help a lot. 

Thank you so much for reading.

You can buy me a virtual coffee here You can use my book depository link here I get 5% f what you spend and it costs you nothing extra I also have a redbubble where I upload my artwork that gets printed on tons of items you can buy

[that-bookworm-guy]

People have been asking me if they can send to me directly to Paypal instead of getting a virtual coffee and paypal taking 10%. 

I’ve been getting this a lot more with what has been happening recently and I have decided to do it. 

I have set up a new paypal account (My main one deadnames me) that I will use for emergencies and my transition. 

Commission and virtual coffees will continue to be in my main paypal and I’ll send the money to my new one (it’s just easier than changing everything). 

If you want to donate directly instead of through a virtual coffee, then the link is below. 

If you still want a sketch let me know and I’ll add it to my virtual coffee thank you sketches :) 

Here is my Paypal.me link. 

Thank you to everyone who has helped me so far, I really appreciate it so much.

[that-bookworm-guy]

I tried to delete all these posts because I was starting to feel really bad asking for help, all my reblogged comments are still in the comments but something else has happened.

We’re struggling as it is, we are barely scraping by but we are scraping by.

But I’ve just come home from a meeting from work to find out that my work is closing on the 18th September. I’ve been looking for a new job for months anyways but I haven’t found anything but this was the first anyone knew that it was actually shutting.

I’m going to lose my job.

I need to sort my ID out to apply for more jobs. I might just about have enough spare to do this. So I can hopefully get a new job, but there are not a lot around me currently. But I will find one.

They are looking for a new buying for my work so maybe I’ll get taken back on but at the very least I’ll be jobless for a month.

I will work on sorting my ID tomorrow, I need to sort through letters and write a letter to the gender clinic to get documents to send to get my gender marker changed. But this take time. I was hoping to wait until I’m in a better situation with money but apparently that won’t happen for a while.

I really need your help again. I’ll do commissions, virtual coffee sketches, headers for posts, anything.

As always portraits of any kind I’m really not good at but if you want one I’ll do a quick sketch (otherwise I’ll spend hours and hours on it to just throw it away) for a virtual coffee.

[nowimhaunted]

Ariana grande is suing forever 21 for stealing her look when she literally stole her look from a smaller queer artist I have no words

[sewersidesquad]

here’s the full body pic

and a lil more context..

Don’t try to perform at pride if you’re gonna take advantage of the community you’re performing for.

[feministism]

[drankinwatahmelin]

4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.

5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger

6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights

7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)

[bando--grand-scamyon]

That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving

[ghostspaceships-deactivated2019]

8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.

[gaylittlepieceofsh1t]

Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time

[uncleromeo]

girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.

[grungegoths]

How After , the movie based on the harry styles fanfic romanticizes abuse/toxic relationships and why you shouldn't support it

This is just a collection of various tweets/posts/articles ive seen discussing the instances of how after the movie based on the book and fanfiction about harry styles is romanticizing abuse. Even if you dont have time,interest etc to read it i’d appreciate it if you guys spread this bc the movie is releasing this month on april 11 and i dont want ANYONE to profit off shit like THIS .Anyways here yall go :

Source

Some quotes from the book/fic itself :

Ok this is getting longer so im going to put a keep reading here 

Keep reading

[belovedbane]

Concept: I finish school. The job I work isn’t my dream job but I enjoy doing it greatly still. It pays enough to cover everything I might need. My bills are never overdue. Money is not a thought in my head. I have a place to live. So do my dogs. It is nice and warm, I have some plants, my bookshelves are full, my sheets are always clean. There is time to read at the end of a day. I read a lot. Thinking is a good thing. I meet up with friends regularly, old and new. They love me. We make memories. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I travel a few times a year, always different places. The places I see steal my breath away. The people I meet teach me of life. They are good. There is no war. The sea calls to me and pay visit. I am independent. I am content.

[lxzyfangirl]

we are such a sad generation. the dream is a modest and decent life.

[belovedbane]

Concept: I finish school. The job I work isn’t my dream job but I enjoy doing it greatly still. It pays enough to cover everything I might need. My bills are never overdue. Money is not a thought in my head. I have a place to live. So do my dogs. It is nice and warm, I have some plants, my bookshelves are full, my sheets are always clean. There is time to read at the end of a day. I read a lot. Thinking is a good thing. I meet up with friends regularly, old and new. They love me. We make memories. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I travel a few times a year, always different places. The places I see steal my breath away. The people I meet teach me of life. They are good. There is no war. The sea calls to me and pay visit. I am independent. I am content.

[lxzyfangirl]

we are such a sad generation. the dream is a modest and decent life.

[hottestaceinthisplace]

If you don’t believe being asexual has any negative affect on people I was told by a psychiatrist that none of my relationships count because we didn’t have sex, and I can’t say I’m gay since I don’t want to have sex with girls.

and I was taken off my antidepressants because they may be lowering the libido I never had in the first place (plus various other reasons, but still immediately, cold turkey, which should NEVER happen unless they’re switching you to something else)

But aphobia doesn’t exist and asexuals are privileged, right?

[bitterqueerandtired]

Sorry to add to this but I wanted to say since I’ve had bad experiences with mental health professionals and biphobia, I usually get asked “but are you sure you are sexually attracted to both sexes, are you sure it’s not just an emotional attraction?!” Like my dude don’t you think I can tell the difference between wanting to date someone and wanting to be friends? Also, due to be gray ace 90% of the time I am not even attracted to anyone but like sure, make me feel guilty that I can’t “prove” my bisexuality.

[lesbianpeachs]

Sorry too but to add on, being aro isn’t much different. I told my therapist and she was immediately concerned that my meds were repressing “all my emotions” and wanted to take me off them. My insurance ran out and I went off them bc of no money before that happened. She also suggested dating someone anyway to “fix” the “issue” and expressed concern that my emotions (romantic feelings) weren’t present because “I’m suspicious and untrusting of everyone and don’t want to try hard enough.”

Having your orientation medicalized and invalidated is bad enough, but its fucking dangerous to have your meds taken away because you’re not performing relationships the way some doctor thinks you’re required to.

[star-anise]

Aaaand this is why we need the bi/pan/ace/aro alliance.

[grandmaestheticc-deactivated201]

this is why we need to recognize more queer experiences and identities than gay and lesbian, through increased awareness, information and representation.

[asexualspectrumspector]

My hand slipped…  (P.S. It’s transparent!)

[asexualcheetah]

Join the alliance!!

[hoardofhyperfixations]

Yes!!