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(Image description: pink and blue stripes on a white background and black text. The words say: “Transgender Day Of Visibility. We see you. We affirm who you are. We value your place in this world.”)
guess what i’m drinking tonight!!!!!
hey i was scrolling through your blog looking for advice about how to pick a new name and i couldn't find anything. do you have a specific tag or a post which suggests methods of picking a new name? like i don't really feel a strong attachment to my current one and i don't know if that's normal. i think it would be cool to have a different name, even if its only for online but i've had issues in the past with feeling like the name "fit" me. Thanks :)
Hey there! so first off, I just want to mention that its not uncommon or weird to want a different name or feel like your current one doesnt really fit! All kinds of people (cis, trans, or otherwise) decide to choose new names or take on multiple names for different contexts all the time!
I do have a “names” tag that contains mostly positivity or advice regarding new names, I believe there are some posts in there on how to go about it or what to avoid (like picking culturally significant names etc)
But other than that my advice to you would be to try baby name websites or blogs like this one to compile a list of names that you like, and then try them out! You should try introducing yourself as one of the options irl to see how it sounds and feels, and you can do this at food places that ask for a name cus it doesnt matter if you use a different name each time and then you can hear them call you over for your order and get a good feel for it. Hope this helps!
Charities/organisations to avoid:
PETA: They’d rather spend their money on publicity campaigns than on the animals in their care. PETA killed 73.8% of the animals in their care in 2015 (x)
FCKH8: Is a for-profit company that exploits oppressed groups for money. They’re also wildly uninformed, and spread misogyny, cissexism and bi/panphobia, as well as stealing their posts/designs (x)
Autism Speaks: They spend most of their money on researching a way to eliminate autism, heighten the stigma against autism and don’t have a single autistic person on their board (x)
Please support other, better charities, and feel free to add any others you can think of to this.
Susan G. Komen for the Cure: CEO makes insane amounts of money, they deny a lot of requests for wigs/help with treatment/etc., and have attempted to sue other charities that use the color pink as part of their anti-breast cancer campaign. ( x x x )
The Salvation Army: They promote the hatred of LGBT+ people, work with fundamentalist Christian groups to support conservative politics and rip off and exploit workers. ( x x x )
Wounded Warrior: They take money that should be spent on veterans and blow it on huge opulent parties for the company bigwigs. 26 million in 2014 alone wasted! ( x x x )
^ Important reminder to NOT waste any money donating to these groups
Reblogging because of the added info about Wounded Warrior.
A good way to know if a nonprofit you’re donating to is allocating their money in the right way is to check out their Charity Navigator rating: http://www.charitynavigator.org
Signal boosting, the bell ringers are out in force, and this info is too important.
So i just came out to my dad abt being nb, and he said something really wise about names, i think.
He said “Gifts are not obligations. You give things to people, and you hope they like them. And your name was a gift from us to you. If it doesn’t work for you anymore, you’re not obligated to keep it.”
and i just thought maybe other people could use hearing something like that.
that’s so beautiful
Reblogging for people since it sounds very, very wise.
Wonderful.
I really want to see more cis boys who like boys being actively supportive of trans boys who like boys bc I’m tired of being afraid to flirt or form friendships with other queer guys bc I don’t know if they really see me as a guy
reblog so more cis boys who like boys can see and support trans boys who love boys
hey cis girls
if you don’t wanna be with a trans guy, don’t say it’s because you’re straight. it’s either because you just don’t like him specifically or because you’re not into dudes or because you’re a transphobe. being straight has nothing to do with it. thanks.
Epsom Girls Grammar School (EGGS) in Auckland is working with at least seven students as they transition to their true gender.
The school set up ‘Trans Tea Time’, a support group for trans students. The group has seven members aged between 13-18, all who have socially transitioned. Jeannie Grant, EGGS’ head of counselling runs the group and said seven trans students was not a high number.
‘There are transgender students at most schools in New Zealand, but they are not going to come out unless the school offers support,’ she told stuff.co.nz. ‘There have always been transgender teenagers, but the ability to use the internet to form connections with other transgender teenagers makes you feel less alone and more supported. So coming out as transgender is that much easier.’
The school also has gender-neutral uniforms and restrooms. Teachers, students and staff are required to use the correct pronouns of people they’re interacting with.
CLICK THE HEADER LINK TO READ THE FULL ARTICLE.
It’s Trans Awareness Week. Here are 5️⃣ ways you can look #BeyondTheBinary and be gender inclusive with your language.
Take the pledge to be more gender inclusive with your language and work to create spaces where all genders feel welcome and included.
Happy Pride Month to everyone, including identities which aren’t included in the flags above!
No one’s a wholly pink butterfly or a blue car. We are all, to varying degrees, purple spaceship onesies
Rather, the store is encouraging girls to think of sweaters with spaceships on them as being suitable for them, and letting boys know that they won’t be arrested if they pick out a pink sweatshirt. This, the expansion of choice, is what gender neutrality should be about.
So it’s frustrating that too often the effect is the opposite.
Gender neutrality isn’t everyone wearing “masculine” or “unisex” drab plain clothes. It is embracing that everything is for everyone.
(note: headline & article has some less than awesome phrases, but makes a good point)
Always worth reblogging
The Testosterone FAQ
Jay says:
We get so many questions about testosterone, but some of them repeat. A lot. And that’s okay, cos we want to give you all the info, but I’m gonna answer some frequent questions about T here. (Fun fact, these asks are going right back to the start of our testosterone tag, so some of these Qs are really really old!!)
I’m a singer. How will T affect my voice?
This was a huge question for me too, as a singer. I’m a solid soprano, and the idea of losing my (freaking huge) range. To echo Fox and Phoenix’s sentiments from a long time ago, you have options. First, you can take a lower dose, which will adjust your voice slower and allow you to have more control. Second, you can practise every single day, and if possible get a singing teacher who has experience with trans people or pubescent boys. Lastly, you can take T in pill form or gel form, which generally give slower changes, as in the first point.
Obviously, in regards to dose and to what kind of T you take, your doctor IS the final say in this.
I’m scared of needles. How can I take T?
T comes in needle form, pill form, and gel form! Not all forms are availible everywhere, so be sure to ask your doctor.
What are the effects of T?
To quote Fox from a year ago:
facial hair
enlarged clitoris
voice deepens
possible growth spurt
skin roughens
features become more defined/squared
possible changes in energy/appetite/mood/etc.
growth in the hands and feet
fat redistribution
monthly cycle stops
There’s more, less prominent changes too.
Do I have to take T forever?
Yes and no. Some changes will stay, such as voice, facial hair, and clit growth, but others will just disappear - your monthly cycle will return, and metabolism will change.
Will I get taller?
Yes and no. If you’re still young and in puberty, then yes, maybe you will. But if you’re over the age of 20, more than likely, no.
Will T make me bald?
Check your maternal grandad, uncles, etc, cos that’s the side that male pattern balding runs in. If you want to counteract male pattern balding, there are treatments for it, both over the counter and more “intense”.
T Price?
It really varies based on location, type of T, insurance, etc. Most people pay less than $60 a month.
What about changes….down there?
There’s a few changes in the genital area that everyone should be aware of. First, clit growth. This is one of the first things most people notice on T, and it’s been dubbed the T-dick. Second, dryness. The bazinga (codeword for the genitals) is less naturally lubricated (as that’s the job of estrogen) so you might get really dry, so extra lube for sex situations. And monthly cycles stop!
How old do I need to be for T?
Most places will put you on at 16 with parental consent, and 18 without parental consent.
I will update this with more Qs!
Nice quick little FAQ for people looking into going on Testosterone