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Do you ever feel like you could just walk for hours without a single thought disturbing you?
Sometimes, we just need to take a stroll and admire what the Earth gives us at no cost. • Millions of unique designs by independent artists.
I sold my soul for a small fee.
No surcharge chained upon my sleeve.
No levy too heavy to leave one in debt,
But enough to cry my pillow dry, wet.
I sold my soul for a quarter dime.
Or was it stolen?
Either way I don't mind.
I should not ponder, whinge or cry,
As my lost soul had done its time.
I sold my soul til I saw all red.
My vision blurred with my last breaths.
It stung and burned as I lay still.
I fell for the Devil's laughing spell.
-M.
If a woman has
STARCH MASKS
O N H E R B O D Y
does that mean
she has been pGReNant bef o r e?
DANGEROPS
Pranget sex?
Will it hurt baby top of his head????
Can uu get,,,
𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓰𝓪𝓷𝓽𝓮
38+2 weeks
PREGANANANT
can uu go down a
20 foot waterslide
while uu are
PEGNAT?
For anyone who doesn’t know what this is referencing
this video legit never fails to make me laugh and i’ve seen it god knows how many times
every time me and my partner drive pass this one bus stop ad for a clinic that says PREGNANT? on it real big we absolutely have to say pregante? pregananant? to each other until the next stop light
ive been on tumblr a long time and i remember when everyone said “oh don’t romanticize mental illness” and it was agreed that doing that was gross and a good way to kill people indirectly
but somehow we’ve come full circle and there are people who legit defend their right to be anti-recovery there are people who don’t want to get better and spread the idea that you can’t get better as if it’s gospel and it’s fucking frightening to me bc nobody seems to want to say “hey? this is toxic and untrue and is your disease speaking, and it’s not something you should accept.”
and i feel like every recovery post gets about 500 of these people saying “this isn’t something that will work” “cool karen i’m depressed” “maybe it worked for you but it won’t work for other people” and that’s… just… im so sorry if you’re 15. i’m sorry if you’re in high school and watching grown adults tell you it doesn’t get better. that nobody says that with time and help and patience the world stops being so heavy, that accepting your illness as a fact is one thing but accepting it as the only way to be is just wrong, that you can learn to live with it and still find some degree of “happy”…. if i had seen this shit back when i was … oh god starting at 12 when i was already self-harming …. i think i’d have actually honest-to-god killed myself. not a joke, not a funny tumblr punchline, i would have actually just killed myself.
i’m saying this right here and right now to the adults on this site. if you for any reason shoot down positivity that’s causing no harm - you might have indirectly worsened someone else’s condition, and you should try and do better in the future. if you find it necessary to tell people “recovery is a lie”, you need to do better. i know everyone has different circumstances, but i also know that mental illness behaves in such a way that everyone thinks they can’t recover. if you feel like you should be spreading the Word Of Relapse, you are causing toxic language to be normalized and you need to do better.
im team “cool karen ive got depression and that means i’m going to try this because i’ve got to try something” i’m team “romanticize recovery” i’m team “it isn’t working now but it might in the future and it’s worth staying to find out” im team “hey this didn’t work for me but it might help somebody else out”
fuck guys it shouldn’t be an unpopular opinion to say “i don’t want any of you to die”.
Oh thank fuck someone finally said it!
Can you guess what tree that is?
It's my birthday
I'll decide whether I want to talk to you or not
I'll decide if I have a party or not
I'll decide who gets invited or not
I'll decide what theme I want or not
I'll decide where balloons go or not
I'll decide what I want to do or not.
I'll decide what I want.
I'll decide what I need.
I'll decide.
I will decide.
-M.
I've come a long way from feeling insecure and feeling ashamed of my voice and talent, to wanting to explore the many things I'm yet to see I'm capable of.
Name seven comfort films and tag seven people :)
Tagged by @strangethedreamers! Thank you friend! :D
1. Hmm.
2. I just realized.
3. I don’t think I can think of any.
4. This… was unexpected.
5. I need to go through our DVD collection again and find some.
6. All I can think of is YouTube videos or TV shows.
7. Sorry.
Tagging: @victory-cookies @a-humble-narcissus @immabethehero @thesnowflakeemporium @aussie-roadkill @wyrmtung @tittydicktea
It’s ok! My mind does that blank but with songs!
1. Chicken Little
2. Mulan
3. Does that one huge ass Bugs Bunny colection I binge watch in nostalgia count as a movie?
4. The Princess Bride
5. Pirates of the Caribbean (which one you ask? Answer: yes)
6. The Little Prince
7. Cars
@unadventurousjulie @polirange @cottonsalt @judoon-on-da-moon @shadowtigress2 @yivurnkani @lildevyl
1. The Nightmare Before Christmas
2. The Emperor’s New Groove
3. Lion King
4. Hercules — the animated one from Disney
5. Elf
6. Uhhh that one Pokémon movie with Lucario and I think Mew in it?
7. ….does Hamilton count
Thanks for tagging me! I’m gonna tag:
@pixie-in-trebleland @platinumdistorsio @spiccykels @scarlet-mangata
Oooooo!! Also these aren’t in any particular order I just love watching these lmao
1. Avatar (NOT The Last Airbender lmao)
2. Into the Spiderverse
3. Wall-E
4. Zoroark: Master of Illusions (gives me Critter and Saoirse vibes now man)
5. Wolfwalkers
6. The Secret of Kells
7. How to Train your Dragon
I’ll tag @cest-mellow @florenceisfalling @thisboyisalilacsky @skyewardlight,, yes I know that’s only four but shhhh SKKDJSKDJS
@immabethehero tagged me in this too!
1. the samantha, molly, and felicity american girl movies 🥺🥺
2. nim’s island
3. earth to echo
4. coraline
5. ramona and beezus
6. jumanji (the og)
7. ALSO how to train your dragon
i have a lot more i could list so if u want some lemme know skdfjklsd
tagging @wecametobealonetogether (all barbie movies, im sure), @uwu-is-ya-boi and anyone else who wants to !
You know me so well!
1. Barbie as the Princess and the Pauper
2. Barbie in the 12 Dancing Princesses
3. Barbie in a Christmas Carol
4. Power Rangers (2017)
5. The Muppet Christmas Carol
6. The Last Unicorn
7. Barbie in the Nutcracker
@curetapwater@honeyedapples @becausenumbers @sapphic-princess-edith @canadiandutchiefangirl @someallpowerfulforce @carmens-bitch
Let’s see, uhhh in no particular order:
1. Sonic the Hedgehog (2020)
2. The Lion King 2: Simba’s Pride
3. Barbie and the Magic of Pegasus
4. Frozen
5. Aladdin
6. The Little Mermaid
7. Disney’s Descendents
No pressure to reblog or tag!
@xavianlegacy @princessquinnella @cityoftheangelllls @zeus-a-mercy @olorkiss @queer-sky @bunnycrona
1: The Last Unicorn
2: Barbie Rapunzel
3: Wizard of Oz
4: The Princess Bride
5: Rodgers & Hammerstein’s Cinderella
6: Disney’s Robin Hood (1973)
7: Anastasia
@frecklydork @asktheneverfairies @askkit5ever @primroseprime2019 @i-miss-music-247 @chipmunkchiptune @withinkandquill
Awwww thank you! Let’s see
1. Disney’s Sleeping Beauty
2. The Princess Diaries
3. The Cheetah Girls 2
4. Barbie as the Princess and the Pauper
5. Tinker Bell and the Great Fairy Rescue
6. Tangled
7. Jump In!
Do it if you wanna!
@chipmunkchiptune @stardust-time @enchantix-cascada-remix @limabeanbro @hidekomoon @starbuckscallsmemonica @lexifonseca
Ooh thanks for tagging me @i-miss-music-247. Let's see...
1. Shrek (All of them x.x)
2. Willy Wonka and The Chocolate Factory (The old, original one)
3. She's the man
4. Alice in Wonderland (Old one - if there's more)
5. Alvin and the Chipmunks (First one)
6. Malifecent (It's spelt wrong ikik)
7. Ready Player One
This was hard oof. I tag @itsthekiks @unknxwne @iaintanybody
I'm a guest at the Devil's banquet.
I'm not made for the likes of these people.
Maybe I should wither away.
When the flaming boulder rises and I have ended my slumber.
I wish to feel whole again.
I wish to fill this hole within.
-M.
I won't put my make-up on because pretty people are pretty people.
I don’t get the man one ?
the entire series is focused on stopping all abuse
the man here has his mouth covered up by a woman wearing a wedding ring. meaning he is being abused by his wife. of the men i’ve known and spoken to about being abused by their wives, one of the common ways wives will try to “make up” for the abuse is literally with money. fucking crazy sad shit but women who abuse their men (bf or husband) also believe us to be super materialistic and so they can just buy us. i could go on but i don’t want to. it’s too fucking gross.
this is clearly pedophila in the catholic church. a profoundly evil act that is is primarily aimed at little boys.
this is child molestation in the black community that tarted little black girls overwhelmingly. usually by a family member and usually a male family member with candy being used to buy their silence.
and this is an abused wife. the hand is male wearing a wedding ring. similar to the wife abusing the husband, an attempt to buy silence happens with flowers, candy and jewelry being the common gifts.
i respect that this artist (a woman i believe) covered such a wild range of abuse even the ones we don’t talk about.
I think that’s a dripping anatomical heart in the flower, too. :(
Still don’t get the man one tbh. Is there an epidemic of rich women beating their husbands?
I honestly don’t know. I am not familiar with the phenomenon, but knowing that male-on-female domestic violence vastly outweighs the reverse, I had to assume that it was included because otherwise she would have caught hell for it. I mean, apparently it does happen, so…
Male violence against women and children is at actual epidemic levels. I know a few men who have suffered violence at the hands of female partners and it’s awful and unacceptable. But they were also all in a position to 1) leave and easily survive and/or 2) if they hit back would very much be able to stop the attack. As in if they hit back the woman would be ko’d. I’m not saying female on male violence is ok I’m saying it isn’t a ‘thing’ in the way the others are.
Agreed. Men have the means to leave abusive relationships much quicker than most abused women do (if ever).
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you
Okay bitches listen up
Male abuse victims are just as fucking important as female abuse victims
If a man hits back, he is the one accused of violence, even if it was in self defense. Because “men can’t be abused” fuck that
Men feel that if they’re honest about their abuse that they’ll be ridiculed and seen as less than a man
Men are afraid to come forward about their abuse because no one will believe them.
If a woman hits a man, it’s because “he did something to upset her,” “he probably deserved it,” “hes over reacting,” y'know, the same shit women are told.
Not all men have the means to leave an abusive relationship. If they could, do you think they’d stay? Being a man doesn’t automatically mean they have financial stability.
So fuck you if you think male abuse victims don’t matter. Fuck you if you think men can’t be victims of abuse. Fuck you if you try and diminish male abuse victims. Fuck you if you ridicule men for talking about their abuse and seeking help. Fuck you if you patronize men who can’t escape their abusive partners. Fuck you if you act like male abuse victims aren’t a real thing.
Fuck you if you try and act like men can’t be just as vulnerable as women, and that their struggles don’t matter. Fuck. You.
a former male friend of suffered years of psychological, emotional, and physical abuse at the hands of his girlfriend. Note: He was a large guy (a good 6'1, pretty muscular, and knew about fighting from past years of his dad teaching him some moves he had learned from martial arts training from when he was young)
Now, his girlfriend was a measly little bitch (I know it’s bad to throw around that term “Its so harmful to women blah blah” she was barely human, and I dont even think she’s worthy of being considered a “woman” so I’ll call her what I like for this story) barely scraping 5'3, not a muscle on her, the bone and body structure of a 12 year old. You may be thinking “I get how she could abuse him mentally, but how on earth could she physically abuse someone who could easily put her through some drywall” the answer: People like y'all.
This worm of a human would slap and punch him in the face as hard as she could, hit him in his groin, kick him in his bad knee (he broke when he was younger and it never quite healed right); stab him with things like crochet needles, forks, her nails, small eyebrow scissors, etc. If she was mad at him she would put allergens in his food (He was lactose intolerant to a pretty bad degree and would get horrible stomach aches, cramps, digestive problems, and nausea if he consumed dairy) so she would put regular milk in his coffee instead of the lactose free milk he drank, as well as regular dairy products in things like desserts she would bake, soup, smoothies she would make him; Anything she could hide milk, cream, or cheese in without him noticing.
Again, some of you might be thinking “Why didn’t he catch on, fight back, leave, etc” Well, I’ll tell you why: It’s because he was not only a victim of abuse who was regularly told he was loved by his abuser, despite all the abuse, but he was also a victim of a society which regularly told him that he was not a victim of anything. He was larger than her, smart, financially stable, and everything you think would be needed to magically “Get out and survive” as you say.
She made sure he didn’t fight back, she would tell him things that no person should be told, like how “she wish she was the man in the relationship so she could rape him”, or how she could kill him and he wouldn’t be able to fight back without her telling her father he was beating her, to which her dad would promptly “Stab him in the neck”; she told him he was useless, pathetic, weak, and “nothing but a dick for her to ride”. After all these things he would still not leave, ya wanna know why?
Because after she was done, she’d tell him she loved him, that he didn’t have to worry about talking about his interests with her because she loved hearing about them, how he didn’t have to worry about crying in front of her because she wouldn’t think any less of him. She would speak of their future and her amazing laughs and smiles she would share with him, she would comfort him when he was sad and tell him everything he wanted to hear.
And that’s how he didn’t “escape and survive” for 2 years, and tolerated endless abuse. He finally left when his brother-in-law invited him and his “girlfriend” to his house to play games and hangout for 4th of July. Unbeknownst to the maggot, his BiL had security cameras around his house from a former break in, and those same cameras caught her punching, kicking, and swinging at him with a metal knife-sharpening rod (I don’t know what they’re called but they’re the heavy ass metal ones the chefs use) because he said that he wasnt comfortable with her driving after she drank the whole night.
His BiL promptly kicked her across the room as she was hitting him and got him locked in a room and her out the house with threats of the police. It took a solid 3 weeks of slowly opening up to his family, telling stories, ignoring berating texts and calls and threats from her, and having to move all of his stuff out of their shared apartment in the 6 hour window she was at work because he was genuinely terrified she would show up.
Endless nights were spent having panic attacks, nightmares, being coaxed into getting therapy and counseling, and finally admitting to himself that he had been abused. And after that, was a flurry of him trying to get acceptance.
Almost every domestic abuse counselor was marketed to women, as well as meetings where he was the only man in the room; people assuming he was gay and had to have been abused by a man, or that his girlfriend was a martial arts master or other countless ridiculous things instead of just accepting that he was a victim of domestic abuse by a woman, as a man.
Does the domestic violence against women outweigh the violence against men? From the studies, most likely. Does that make either violence easier, more acceptable, less traumatic or less debilitating? Fuck. No.
So, in conclusion, men can be, and are being abused. Is it different than female abuse? Yes. But poisoning someone’s drink is different than poisoning someone’s food, but it is still poison. So get y'alls heads out of y'alls asses and help men instead of spouting a bunch of shit at them to make yourself looks like the bigger victim. Say “Our cases are different, but are both traumatic and painful, and I will do all I can to help”
To ALL domestic abuse victims. You are strong, you are truly loved, and there is help out there, no matter where in life you are. Never hesitate to message me if you need to talk.
Great addition.
And I forgot to add to mine, please don’t be afraid to message me if you need or want to talk about your abuse. Male, female, doesn’t matter. Everyone needs someone to talk to, and I’m willing to listen. ❤️
this video is an appropriate addition here
https://youtu.be/Ue7U2hdNz2I
so if i’m not being clear enough fuck every single one of you that think men can’t suffer from abuse, can get away much easier, FUCK YOU!
abuse can happen in ANY relationship. straight, mlm, wlw, ANY! so FUCK ANYONE that thinks that any type of abuse is dismissable.
Excellent addition, thank you
You people claim to be feminists but you really out here thinking EVERY women is weaker than EVERY male. Lol and that women have no power ever? That women can’t black mail? Or hold children hostage in abusive marriage?
I love how their “conversation” consisted of, “Male abuse? Huh. I don’t think that’s a thing. It’s real? Well probably not enough to be important anyway.”
For anyone wanting to know what the video was it was a guy saying how his girlfriend used to beat him and he had to jump out of a second story balcony to get away with her, to which the audience laughs and Jeremy Kyle is having none of it.
Knew a friend who thought he should laugh every time he brought up an abusive female ex. Honestly, couldn’t shut that shit down fast enough; Told him he was brave to get away from her and smart to never even touch her cuz that’s when things get twisted.
If you think that men cannot be abused, get the fuck away from me and my blog.
A golden gaze, a typical change with age.
A plunder of emotions filled to the brim.
Overflown with memories that get pushed by the current as they are forgotten.
Blitzing through a rose garden full of thorns with mild grazes on their flesh.
A sudden break in the news.
What will the people choose?
-M.
When life has you down, give this a listen. :)
A lot has happened this year. You’re allowed to feel upset. You’re allowed to feel tired.
The Past is The Past, Matt Bors
Let’s reblog this until everybody sees it
It's growing on me.
Like a flower blooming through it's stem.
But it pricked me where I least expected it and it's formed into a hill.
A little red shadow, accentuated into an ombre.
As it reached a pointy tip, I couldn't help myself.
A pool of red gushed out of this mountain and left a dark shade upon my skin.
Another pimple. How obnoxious.
-M.
so none of yall know what a friend group is apparently
the notes on this are depressing as hell u got all these people saying that this isnt friendship because friends are just people u go out to drink with on weekends and living with people and planning ur life with them in it is more than friendship. damn im really sorry none of u have ever experienced friendship in ur lives and need to make up new terms to describe genuinely caring about people
All terms are made up, but that is beside the point.
The terms “platonic” and “polyamorous” have been used to describe complex relationships between people before any of us were alive. They’re not new terms at all. The individual here is simply taking existing concepts to describe their ideal relationship. I don’t know why that’s so disturbing or depressing to you.
For many people, friendship is defined as two individuals spending quality time with one another. That could involve going out for drinks on the weekend, but rarely involves a long term commitment as described above. Friendships often become secondary to romantic commitments and/or marriages.
The majority of my friends are in committed romantic relationships and/or they are married. They feel obligated to their partners first and foremost, as is their right to be. In addition, our society puts an incredible value on heterosexual partnerships between two individuals above any kind of friendship.
The individual above is describing a commitment between multiple individuals to a platonic relationship. By commitment, they are referring to taking on some of the same responsibilities as one would in a marriage or long term partnership. That is not the same thing as being in a “friend group.”
I continue to have “friend groups” in and outside of work and school. We may be there for each other when we need to be. We may have a lot of fun together. We care about each other. However, we don’t live our lives like a marriage. We are not always together, either – and that’s okay.
That’s not what the individual above is describing, though. They are using existing terminology which encapsulate very specific experiences in order to express a desire for a specific type of relationship that cannot otherwise be explained using your preferred terminology… (i.e. “friend group”)
…because what you are describing has little to do with their conceptualization of a platonic polyamorous relationship. You are describing expectations you have in a friendship. They are describing a committed relationship wherein resources are shared between multiple individuals.
You might own or rent housing with a friend, but you might not be committed to doing so forever. You might make decisions and share resources with a friend. You might be there for a friend in desperate times. That doesn’t mean you are committing to them as a partner.
…and if it comes to a point where you and a friend or friends are involved long term in each other’s lives to the point where you desire to commit yourselves to one another, then that’s perfectly fine – you may choose to still call it a friendship, but you may also want to call it something more fitting.
Given the societal perception on what a friendship should entail, people might need a term that goes beyond “friendship” to describe their relationship(s) but that does not fall under sexual or romantic labels. Otherwise, “friendship” can be interpreted as “a person I go out and get drinks with on the weekend”
And that’s it.
For those in committed platonic relationships, polyamorous or not, they might not be content with people thinking that about them. They may also want to differentiate between friendships and committed relationships. It’s their personal business, and it’s not sad that they’d want to do this.
I care about my friends, but I do not have a platonic polyamorous relationship with any of my friend groups. That’s not what we have and it’s not sad that our friendship doesn’t look like that, because a platonic polyamorous relationship doesn’t hold the same exact meaning as “friendship.”
Stop freaking out over it and let people live.
tl;dr – words are meaningful; you can cry about it without making judgments about other people’s desires and life choices
reblog for the comment directly above because its a great breakdown
THANK YOU.
I have friends. And I am in a committed platonic relationship.
They are not the same thing.
My friends and I see each other when we can. Sometimes it’s virtual. Sometimes it’s in person (more so before this whole quarantine thing but even then it wasn’t always frequent–sometimes we’d go weeks or even months between visits because that’s how adult life works).
On the other hand, my partner and I own a house, a car, and six cats together. We’ve lived together for over 11 years. At one point we were engaged, more because it felt expected of us than because it felt right (largely because of pedantic people like the ones in this thread who insist that you’re either romantically involved or you’re “just friends” but that there’s no in-between).
But there is an in between. We live there. We exist in a perfectly lovely, perfectly valid in-between that is no more or less than friendship or romance, but that does not fit neatly into either one, and you know what? I’m tired of people deciding that just because it doesn’t make sense to them that it must not be “real” or we must be just “special snowflakes” because we can’t just call what we have “just friendship.”
We don’t call it that because that’s not what it is, at least not the way you want it to be. It’s not romantic either, though, and that’s also fine.
But it exists, and I’m tired of people saying it doesn’t just because they don’t understand it.
Qpr rights
QPR RIGHTS
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