honestly I am having a proper full-on gay crisis

Bek || they/them || 31 || Pisces || gay shit and whatever else I want🌈 [About]

[starry-eyedmoony]

Our hearts, traced in like  by the moonlight that rules us, both get stuck in our throats and come out in age-old metaphors --  being reinvented in pages and whispers  waiting for us in every corner of time.

“Wrapped Up In Books” by Belle and Sebastian |  Trans Liberation by Leslie Feinberg | “Poem of Friendship” by Nikki Giovanni | Fleabag | If Not Winter: Fragments of Sappho | “Your Heart is a Muscle the Size of Your Fist” by Ramshackle Glory | Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky | “I Know a Place” by MUNA | Portrait of a Lady on Fire | me

[revoltingchild]

[mxlabradorite]

I will reblog this every Christmas season I’m on tumblr.

[drunkygoesonadventures]

It’s beginning to look a lot like shit scram

[keitrinkomfloukru]

[mint-chip-superiority]

Reblog if you're a leftist and annoyed by leftists every single day.

[sweatermuppet]

"irreversible side effects of HRT" all of life is irreversible. i cannot go back a single second in time

[samplerbot]

DMC Color Key: ■ 310 Black ■ 3776 Mahogany Light ■ 3825 Pumpkin Pale ■ 611 Drab Brown ■ 760 Salmon

Dimensions: 193 by 145 stitches. Font: '04B_03__.TTF' by Yuji Oshimoto. Border: Adapted from 'The Priscilla Counted Cross Stitch Book no. 2', 1912, edited by Ethelyn Jones. Courtesy of the Antique Pattern Library.

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[sunkissedbutch]

hooters but it’s butch arms, butch waiters with muscle tees on

[c86]

“THERE ARE NO QUEER FRIENDLY COPS,” Heritage of Pride, New York City, June 2017

Photography by William Volcov

[medusadyke]

did you remember to live in a dyke-honoring way today

[homoidiotic]

Photos of Leslie Feinberg & Minnie Bruce Pratt (2007-2009) from Leslie's Flickr

[noahnomore]

[clauonacloud-deactivated2022071]

[latinajedi]

[gay-jesus-probably]

YOU GET THE FUCK BACK HERE AND EXPLAIN THAT RIGHT NOW

[riluri]

well damn

[ospreyonthemoon]

[letslipthehounds]

Every time, I know what's coming, but every time, I just lose it at "Uh. That"

[tgirl-thucydides]

[oysters-aint-for-me]

[thecottageinthedark]

[purlturtle]

You win the internet today, my friend 🏆

[profeminist]

Matthew Hodson: “ 20 years ago, 2 years after the arrival of combination therapy that effectively treated #HIV, the Bay Area Reporter, San Francisco’s LGBT newspaper ran ‘No Obits’ as its headline. It was the first edition not to report an AIDS death in almost 15 years.”

[naamahdarling]

Y'all need to appreciate that this was practically fucking *yesterday*.

[thyfleshc0nsumed]

You own the home you live in. The last owners painted the walls of your bedroom a horrible off white.

You fucking hate it. Every day you wake up to off-white walls and off-white ceilings and pass through your off-white door to get to the rest of the house. You feel like you've been locked up in a padded room. It makes you want to die.

So what is there to do? Well, you own the home. Go out and get some paint, a roller or two, and a drop cloth. If the color makes you want to kill yourself, you should obviously change it.

But what if you didn't hate it. What if it just mildly perturbed you? Or maybe what if you didn't, like, reeeeeally mind it all that much, but you knew that another color would make you a lot happier? Does the decision that you come to change?

Sure, it's work moving the furniture out, setting up, painting, making sure you get the edges, cleaning up, letting it all dry, etc, but isn't adding joy to your life worth the effort? Don't you owe it to yourself to subtract mediocrity and add happiness? Do you need to be miserable to envision a better life?

[neenarchive]

me when we start eating billionaires and i have to kill gomez addams

[neenarchive]

[nudityandnerdery]

Gomez and Morticia, telling us where they store the spare guillotines so we can go after Jeff Bezos after we finish with them.

[nudityandnerdery]

Look, I know we don't want to admit that our heroes can be flawed, but this isn't just people baselessly picking a rich person and saying they're a billionaire.

Don't hold back. Gomez will respect the revolutionary fire burning in your heart!

[bravelion96]

The Addams would bring the guillotines for the other billionaires, give away literally all their money and then still ASK for executions because it’s been so long since they had a good beheading in the family

[anderjak]

honestly, you'd break his heart if you said you WEREN'T planning on sticking his head in a guillotine. morticia, too. they'd be upset at the special treatment, too, but mostly they really want to be executed gruesomely as they stare lovingly into each other's eyes as their heads are separated from their bodies, and we need to respect that.

[krudman]

[crtter]

Sometimes I hyperfocus so hard on something, I forget I’m a person until someone interacts with me. I feel like some wild animal seeing a human being for the first time. I’m like “oh yeah I’m supposed to speak and stuff”

[crtter]

Me: *doing something for hours on end without stopping*

Someone: Hey, are you there? I was just wondering if you’d like to-

Me:

[ellevandersneed]

i forget who made the post but "if you would transition in a heartbeat in a more accepting society then you are in fact trans" really helps me when i need it

[runthepockets]

Saw a post on Twitter that was like "I think it's entirely possible to be trans without dysphoria, but a lot of you are severely underestimating how much dysphoria you actually feel and how much you’ve let fade into background noise" and honestly? Yeah lol.

[catishcat]

When I still participated in online trans stuff, this was like a gigantic debate for some reason. Dysphoria is a really bad way to tell if you're trans or not, so I just find the whole "is dysphoria required to be trans" concept to be exceptionally useless. Maybe try being trans first and then find out if you were dysphoric all along, it certainly felt this way when I started HRT. If you fixate on "evidence", you may never find "enough" of it to overcome the overwhelming cisnormativity.

At the same time, so many trans people I talk to (including me tbh) seem to be convinced that their suffering doesn't count and it breaks my heart. So many of us are forced to hate ourselves, to never believe ourselves, to minimize ourselves for someone else's sake. I try to help those in my community IRL as much as I can, but there are so many. It hurts.

[thefloralmenace]

I recently had surgery, and at the time I came home, I had both my cat and one of my grandma's cats staying with me.

- Within hours of surgery, I wake up from a nap to my cat gently sniffing at my incisions with great alarm.

- I was not allowed to shower the first day after surgery, and the cats, seeing that The Large Cat is not observing its cleaning ritual, decided I must be gravely disabled and compensated by licking all the exposed skin on my arms, face, and legs.

- I currently have to sleep with a pillow over my abdomen because my cat insists on climbing on top of me and covering my incisions with her body while I sleep (which is very sweet but not exactly comfortable without the pillow). She also lays across me facing my bedroom door, presumably on guard for attackers who may try to harm me while I'm sleeping and injured.

That's love. 🐈‍⬛🐈❤️

[the-real-seebs]

cats are so very unclear on what is wrong with us but they want to help

[electricpentacle]

Last time I had a really bad migraine my cat curled herself round my head and purred sympathetically, and actually stayed there through two of her normal mealtimes. It wasn't until I was able to stagger to the kitchen and grab a protein bar for myself that she gave a very small, polite miaow to the effect of "while you're up... could you get something for me too?"

[drtanner]

She does look exceptionally polite and caring, it has to be said. 💜

[brightlotusmoon]

This is an everyday occurrence, because my cerebral palsy is affected by age, and both my legs are spastic while the left side ataxic spastic hemiplegia causes numbness. Callisto will position herself like a guardian and purr so hard my whole body feels it.