#aseuxal

[faerrothinks]

I find women who are into asexual or ace-spec guys odd when I dated them. They always say "You feel safe" because I don't sexualize them, or try to hit on them, or make a pass on them. Then, when I do actually date them. They get mad that I'm still asexual, and I don't want them that way. It doesn't make sense. Why were you attracted to the asexuality in the first place if you wanted allosexuality eventually?

[moonprismpower456]

Happy international asexuality day to Jughead Jones and Jughead Jones only

[thejadecount]

Pride month y’all know what that means

Time to bring back this beauty

[wanderingmind867]

I find that romance is hard to define, while sex is just sex. Sexual stuff is way easier to understand. It's easier to understand, which made it easier for me to come terms with my own sexuality. But with the romantic attraction scale... it's way harder to figure stuff out, because I don't even know what romance really is. I don't know how to define it, I don't know what it really is. That lack of knowledge is partially why I think I'm aromantic, since I never, ever feel romantic attraction in real life. But because I know so little about romance, it's not something I feel confident discussing. So it's all just confusing to me. I wish it was as simple as the sex revelation was. I hate complicated things like this. sigh...

[batsqu3aks]

Happy last day of pride month. Gay bagel

[ace1diots]

me when my mutual tells me that every character they like is asexual because they said so

[bookcub]

I will always advocate for every queer person's right to be a fully autonomous sexual being-and that always must and always will include asexuals. Recognizing the significance of queer sex should not mean that every queer person should be mandated to meet an arbitrary sexual prerequisite in order for their queerness to be affirmed. Centering queerness around sex leaves very little room for queer folks for whom sex is insignificant, or for whom sex is never or rarely possible, or for queer folks who have never had sex before, or for queer folks whose only sexual experiences have been violent. It also leaves a lot of queer people, especially young ones, feeling pressured to have a certain amount or certain type of sex in order to legitimate or prove their queerness to themselves or to someone else.

-Sherronda J. Brown, Refusing compulsory sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture

[shadow-feather]

I'm a 28 year old Demi-Sexual Nonbinary Lesbian.

It's pride.

My father who is 63 just gave me a rainbow tamogatchi with all the excitement in the world.

There is hope left in this world, and I pray other people's parents love them as much as my dad loves me.

Happy pride!