#asospec

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

Do you feel like you have subconscious bigotry towards queer orientations (gay, m-spec, diamoric, aspec, non-monogamy, etc) to unpack?

Are you unsure of whether or not a view you hold is bigoted and/or based upon stereotypes?

Send in an ask titled "Is this bigotry?" or "Is this a stereotype?" and I will answer you without any harshness or mockery.

Unpack your subconscious/unintentional bigotry here, judgement free!

You can ask about any of the orientations on these three posts, and I will answer earnestly with explanations as to why it is or is not bigotry!

You can also ask general questions too (ie; "I don't understand [insert orientation] due to [insert reason], can you explain?")

Gendered attraction terms [link]

Attraction Types, Aspec Orientations, & Other Orientations [link]

Relationship Orientations [link]

[spiralllll]

asospec / asocial spectrum⠀𝜗𝜚

for when ones experience with social attraction is unique or that they are lacking in that attraction

both flags are for the same thing, just based off different formatting for each

yapfest under cut

i doubt i coined this but since there doesn't seem to be a post for it already ive marked this as a coining

first flag based off the aromantic spectrum flags and the second is based off an asensual spectrum flag

requested by none, just filling in some gaps

[isuggestaplatonicism]

any other asocials like to bask in the energy of a crowd to fulfill their social needs? Yummy yummy people vibes.

Just hovering in the corner watching people do people things.

[cy4nide-c4psule]

COMIN & EMPTIN Asospec

[ COMIN Asospec: when someone who's on the Asospec experiences their Asospec through a Compassic(attraction)-in-nature lense, or their Asospec identity is so intervened with their attraction that it affects other parts of their attraction and they experience attraction-in-nature experiences more than actual Compassic attraction due to how their Asospec identity reacts with their identity regarding attraction.

[ EMPTIN Asospec: when someone who's on the Asospec experiences their Asospec through a empathic(attraction)-in-nature lense, or their Asospec identity is so intervened with their attraction that it affects other parts of their attraction and they experience attraction-in-nature experiences more than actual empathic attraction due to how their Asospec identity reacts with their identity regarding attraction.

Notes; made with our version of the Asospec/asocial attraction spectrum flag and orientation/attraction-in-nature flags that were used were made by @coinedbank .

Coined; Delta. | 1.12.2025. | taglist: @radiomogai @obscurian @orientation-archive

[scr-ppup]

Asospec painted dog whumpee

[ Asospec painted dog whumpee: a painted dog whumpee flag for whumpee's who are asocial attraction spectrum while they might be (/ seen as) naturally social, high endurance folk, and have a easy time bonding with others to make (either literal or so called) packs of their friend groups.

// Or alternatively, they could be asocial and either painted dog themed, related to one being a painted dog kin, to the personality of a painted dog's and it being mixed with a whumpee's nature, etc, whatever this means to the user.

Notes; N/A.

27.9.2025. // Feel free to ignore/ask to be untagged from future posts + this through comments or asks! — Taglist # @radiomogai @obscurian @smilepilled @rwuffles @catonliine @discrophy @angelninetytwo @bunny-taalk @kadekeys

— By the graveyard's keeps; Stray.

[identity-of-today]

06/21/2023

Hey I know it's been a minute sorry xc. I'm gonna try and do this more!

Gender!

Starraindreamic: a gender related to starry skies, rain, comfy sweaters, pastels, dreams, and sleepiness/sleepycore

Rosboy: A feminine boy or man

Orientations!

Asexual: Has little or no sexual attraction

Bellusromantic: someone who doesn't feel romantic attraction but enjoys participating in activities that could be considered romantic by nature. Ex: cuddling, kissing, sensual affection

Pronouns: vae/vaer/vaers/vaerself

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

Will never not be baffled that even people within the acespec and arospec community will take the same "But everyone experiences [insert attraction type here]!" nonsense that they are told, and redirect it towards people on the aplatonic, afamilial, aqueerplatonic, analterous, asocial, anaesthetic, and asensual spectrums.

If that line of logic isn't true for sexual or romantic attraction, why is it suddenly true for these other forms of attraction?

Why are you still basing a person's worth on a specific form of attraction?

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

Happy pride month to folks with queer orientations!

[PT: Happy pride month to folks with queer orientations! /End PT]

Happy pride month to the gays! The lesbians and uranians!

Happy pride month to folks who are bi, ply, pan, omni, abro, or otherwise m-spec!

Happy pride month to the diamorics! The viramorics, feminamorics, symmaics, contraics, trias (lunarics, solarics, saturnics, neustellics, nullstellics, ageninics, spacialics, oustellics, apstellics, multiellics!)

Happy pride month to those on split attraction model, with complex gender identities, or with plurality that gives them complex orientations! The lesboys, turigirls, m-spec lesbians, m-spec uranians, m-spec hets, gaybians, lesbihets, turihets!

Happy pride month to the a-specs! To all the folks on the asexual spectrum, aromantic spectrum, aplatonic spectrum, afamilial spectrum, asocial spectrum, asensual spectrum, anaeasthetic spectrum, and any other part of the anattractional spectrum!

Happy pride month to the non-monogamous! The polyamorous and ambiamorous folks! The non-partnering folks!

Happy pride month to those with nonrose and other nontraditional relationships/desires! The folks who are queerplatonic, alterous, have/desire passionate friendships! The folks who have/desire senseships, intimaships, FWBs! The objectums, fictospecs, autospecs!