one of the craziest asexual (and high-key autistic) experiences is finding out that calling and/or thinking that someone is "hot" or "sexy" or smth means you Actively want to fuck them,,, like have the sex with that person??
NO??!?!??!
I just thought their outfit was cool or the way they think about things is really interesting and these words felt like enough hyperbole to express my deep wonder and interest in a person or thing.
You're telling me I'd inadvertently told people I wanna fuck them because of some super miscellaneous thing? I wanna cause havoc to the local morning glory population.
are you kidding me???
but then it can also be non-sexual depending on the context? What context? Where? Says who?
I feel insane and totally normal /hj













