what are your thoughts on yjh and his type? What type of person or personality would yjh be drawn to/attracted to/fall in love with? Often when I read orv and obsess over him like kdj, I wonder if I'm barely understanding yjh as a character. I feel bad. I keep thinking of him as a person. I hope this doesn't sound crazy 😭
you're not alone, yjh is very much an enigma to me too! I think there are a lot of parts to him that we can't readily see because of our limited perspective through kim dokja's pov. here are some of my observations and headcanons mixed together ☺️
⟢ someone capable of being gentle where he is not. I think yjh has a tendency to be critical (mainly of himself) and largely inflexible, so someone that can bring out that softer side of him would draw him in
⟢ also the driven types. I think yjh can relate to traits like ambition, goal-oriented, and just a general internal strength to buckle down and get things done
⟢ even though I write x reader fics like this sometimes, I don't see yjh as being immediately attracted to someone that is timid or easily down on themselves. he possesses a strong and assertive personality, so I feel like he'd be turned off by those traits unless other factors are at play (frequent proximity, shared goals, etc)
⟢ yes, I think physical attractiveness would catch his attention the quickest. case in point: lee seolhwa. case #2? his original cast of companions. beauties for days
⟢ "opposites attract"--he would admire cheerfulness. someone social, to balance out his awkward introversion and draw him out of his turtle shell. an easygoing person, probably filled with idealistic or romantic notions (but not one who abandons all logic...they have balance and are ultimately reliable)
⟢ he is drawn to people that do the most for others. by this, I mean anywhere from charitable people to self-sacrificing fools. iykyk
⟢ in terms of profession, this would mean: nurses and doctors, teachers, social workers, investigative journalists, certain types of lawyers, firefighters, non-profit and humanitarian aid work. probably not counselors/psychologists, because he doesn't like the idea of someone picking around in his brain
⟢ oh someone persistent! yjh can be hardheaded, so someone that is equally stubborn or persevering, especially in pursuing him, would help him fall in love
⟢ yjh has a patience that isn't talked about enough. not just internal willpower, but a strength that extends to loving others with incredible devotion
⟢ I think mostly, if there is someone that won't try to control/manipulate him, is approachable, and respects the man that he is, they've got a fast-track ticket to making yoo joonghyuk fall in love <3