#cluster-b

[swagdeala]

“narc/borderline abuse !!” u pushed a mentally ill person to their limit and they retaliated

[atlasinthewest]

Hey, y'all. Newsflash for all you people clogging up the various Cluster-B tags with bullshit “Narcissistic Abuse” type shit.

People with Cluster-B disorders aren't your fucking scapegoats. We aren't here for you to point at and say “those people are monsters, we’re better than them because we aren't like them”. You don’t get to call yourself a better person than me because you can feel empathy and I can’t, you don’t get to say that people like me are nothing but abusers and monsters without giving us even the ghost of a chance, and you don’t get to use our disorders as the reasons for everything wrong with the world.

That politician isn't a “Narcissist” he’s a bad person who is too privileged to care about other people. That celebrity isn’t a “Sociopath” she just is more focused on wealth and showing off than actually helping people. All you do when you give bad people an armchair diagnosis is stigmatize and harm a vulnerable group of people and give shitty people an excuse as to why they're bad people.

Trying to pretend that all bad people have to have some kind of disorder only hurts us. Yes, you can be a bad person without a personality disorder. Yes, you can hurt people without a personality disorder.

People like you hurt people, and people like me take the blame.

Take some fucking responsibility and stop acting like you are some kind of a good person because you weren't traumatized so horribly you lost your ability to feel empathy. I’m not here to be a scapegoat so that you feel better about yourself.

You don’t need empathy to be a good person, and having empathy doesn't automatically make you not a bad one.

[porcelain-rob0t]

there is so much hatred in my heart <3

[lilliryth]

Not exactly a callout post, but a warning:

There is an account on this site with the username *W*A*R*Z*O*N*E*U*R*C*H*I*N* (sorry if it’s hard to read, I just don’t want them/ their followers finding this and throwing a pissbaby fit at me if I can help it) who posts overtly hostile content aimed at marginalized people, as well as some seemingly innocuous posts that, at a closer look, contain ableist dogwhistles. They particularly have a habit of randomly throwing bile at cluster-B communities here on Tumblr (mostly BPD).

I advise you to go ahead and block them for your own sake so their bullshit is kept away from any vulnerable people. You could also give this a reblog so it reaches your followers.

[lessbienreyna]

me: emotion instability???? don't kno her!!! i'm in total control of my body 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 moodswings??? never heard of the term 😤😤😤 i'm always happy and i can control my emotions 100% 😜😜😜

also me: *has a 30 minutes long crying session because someone used my favorite mug so now i can't use it to drink coffee*

[lessbienreyna]

someone: omg why are you always listening to music its like youre obsessed youre so weird, stop being so anti social and talk to me instead!!  

me, internally: music helps me stay grounded, reduces my anxiety levels immensely, helps me control my mood swings, gives me a sense of security and helps against my intrusive thoughts which is more than youve ever done for me debra

me, externally through gritted teeth and a forced smile: haha idk i guess its just a habit im gonna try to be more social :)))))

[lessbienreyna]

fp: hi!! im so sorry i didnt text you goodnight last night, i fell asleep while reading!! im sorry if i worried u!

me, lying: haha dont worry i figured it was something like that!! im fine dont worry about it :)

what actually happened: *had 3 panic attacks, almost relapsed, had reoccurring suicidal thoughts, kept thinking fp would leave me, still has an overwhelming amount of anxiety*