#borderline abuse

[th1rdt3chnician]

who up hating pop psychology

[swagdeala]

“narc/borderline abuse !!” u pushed a mentally ill person to their limit and they retaliated

[shameful-sinful-sensual-sex]

I hope you'll be hung in the streets you fucking piece of shit

I mean shit they might do it because I’m black, but some cringey mentally ill freak from tumblr is as good an excuse as any to lynch someone. Keep in mind I told you guys to stop doing stuff like this and blaming it on your disorder. Ohhh ohh ohhhh and I called you stupid, tone deaf, and ignorant for perpetuating abuse, harassing abuse victims, and spreading misinformation about mental illness and abuse just to get away with the abuse you obviously dole out.

And you are in fact a freak because no disorder is making you constantly send this shit. You’re doing it because you’re empty and insecure. Most of us are and don’t do this stuff. I don’t respect cowards either. You said this on anonymous. Say it to the parents who traumatized you. Say it to the kids who bullied you. Say it to whoever fucked you up. And say that shit with your chest.

Otherwise, keep doing this until it makes you feel better, or bored. And you’ll add to the reasons you already feel shitty. I’m not suicidal and I’d never kill myself, I’m too petty and spiteful. That means you won’t feel bad about those messages if I just “disappeared”, but you will look back and cringe that you let some objective truths about personality disorders get to you this bad. You let a stranger who doesn’t know or care about you see how desperate you are to feel something interesting.

That’s almost worse than if I were to “kill myself” or get “hung” because I’m gonna let you know right now, you guys are far more inclined to do it than I ever would’ve. And I can tell you actually have a few people who might piss on your grave. Multiple people who can easily forget you. And I don’t lose sleep over corny losers who hide and throw rocks, randomly dying or hurting themselves. People accepted that I’m an imperfect person and they still respect me. Do they respect you, or do you need to send another vulgar message to mask?

[f4y3w00d5]

the urge to tell anyone who says they went thru narcissistic abuse or borderline abuse that I went through neurotypical abuse!! Cos my parents have no disorders and they abused me and obviously this means that all neurotypicals are abusive duhhhh

[plural-void]

currently very angry because of ableists, specifically of the pd demonizing flavor

warning for rant under cut (Tw for ableism, specifically against personality disorders)

I have BPD and apparently that makes every single point I make “manipulative”

Abelists also refuse to call themselves ableists when they’re anti pd, but they are.

They have a double standard for people with “bad” personality disorders, demonizing every word we say

last time I checked, that was ableism.

They use “narc” as an insult, similar to how other ableists use “autistic” or “special ed/sped” as an internet, once again, ableist.

And I will admit, I’m not squeaky clean. I have trouble with impulsively lying and guilt tripping people without consciously trying to, I’ve been trying to fix it, but at still working on it.

I can explain every single one of my behaviors, thoughts, and anything I do

I impulsively lie and attention seek because I want the positive attention I never got. I want people to notice me, but not because they want to insult me, but because they care about me. I want people to care like nobody ever did.

I guilt trip and self harm because I want control, power, something, literally anything. I’ve never had any power over anything ever in my life, and I do my best to take it back, these are both examples of bad coping strategies that I’m trying to work past.

I self destruct because I feel like I deserve it, my most common way of self destruction is searching for things that upset me, and my internalized ableism fucks with me.

All three of these things feed into eachother, Attention/Validation Seeking -> Want for control -> Self Destruction and Guilt -> Attention/Validation Seeking, and it loops.

This is why I have a disorder. Not because I’m evil, but because my life is disordered. Get why it’s called a disorder now?

They act like we’re a different species. Like we’re subhuman, and while some of us may be therian/otherkin/ect, that doesn’t make any of us lesser than.

And people say we start up for ourselves because we want to silence those who have experienced “narc abuse” or “borderline abuse” when neither of those exist. That’s just abuse, and they deserve to be cared for a treated just like anyone else who experienced abuse, just like us, right? Right? \Wrong, apparently. Apparently we don’t get safe spaces or help because we have evil personality disorders, oh no! (annoyed tone)\

We don’t get safe spaces because ableism. We just want help. We just want to be heard. Please. Stop being assholes. Try it from our POV: we’ve been abused, but now we’re blamed for being abusers because of our disorder resulting from our abuse. Even if you’re the nicest person ever, you’re still grouped in with the small malicious people who have your disorder.

-Corvid an Will, two angry BPD symptom holders

[palefox-7]

okay so i just finished watching the 12 dancing princesses since i havent watched it since i was a little kid

and their father is borderline abusive

like wtf you would trust that ugly ass duchess over your own kids

[mischiefmanifold]

A PSA...

Narcissistic abuse doesn't exist, it's just abuse

Borderline abuse doesn't exist, it's just abuse

Stop demonizing personality disorders

[system-of-a-feather]

Hey anyways, I’ve been co-host for a while and our system kinda forgot about this blog, but if you hate people with ASPD, BPD, NPD, HPD, or really any personality disorder or think having one makes someone inherently abusive / evil fuck off

I - at least as a part - am some kind of personality disordered of a fuckface and I really don’t need your putrid shit breath stinking up and wasting the air around my blog

-XIV