#empathymatters

[relatablejoe]

✨True beauty shines from within, radiating love, compassion, and empathy. It's embedded in our kind gestures, deep understanding, and the unique essence we bring to each moment. Let your character be your ultimate beauty guide.🌟

[asmatanveerali]

21st September 2025

Brampton

All my life, I have watched how society celebrates intelligence. From the time we are children, we are given grades, scores, and labels that are supposed to determine our potential. IQ - the Intelligence Quotient - has always been treated as the golden standard of success. It measures how quickly we can solve problems, how well we can remember information, how sharp our logic is. The narrative was set to believe that intelligence alone was the foundation of success. We were led to believe that intelligence alone was the foundation of success. And yes, IQ is important. It can open doors, it can help us achieve academically, and it can set us up in careers that demand intellect and skill.

But as I have walked through my own journey, I have realised something powerful, IQ alone is not enough. Being “smart” in the traditional sense doesn’t teach us how to calm our hearts when life feels heavy, or how to stay grounded when the world is shaking. It doesn’t show us how to forgive, how to inspire, or how to truly connect with others. That’s where EQ - Emotional Intelligence - steps in.

EQ is not about grades or certificates, it is about wisdom of the heart. It’s the ability to recognize your own emotions and not let them control you. It’s the courage to manage your reactions in moments of anger or stress. It’s empathy, the simple but powerful act of understanding someone else’s pain or joy. It’s the way we build relationships, nurture trust, and uplift those around us.

The older I get, the more I see how EQ often matters more than IQ. At workplace, in friendships, in family life, what people remember is not how fast you solved a problem, but how you made them feel. A leader with EQ can move hearts and bring people together, while a leader with only intellect may struggle to inspire. A parent with EQ teaches more than lessons, they teach compassion, patience, and resilience. Even in the hardest times of life, it’s EQ that helps us endure, reminding us to breathe, to rise again, and to hold on to kindness when it would be easier to let bitterness win.

Still, it’s not about choosing between one or the other. Life is not EQ versus IQ. It’s EQ and IQ. Both walk hand in hand. The most extraordinary people I know combine their intellect with empathy, their knowledge with compassion. IQ may get you opportunities, but EQ helps you keep them. IQ can win debates, but EQ wins trust. IQ might create inventions, but EQ ensures they serve humanity. Together, they create a balance that transforms not just careers, but lives.

So if you have ever felt “not smart enough” because the numbers didn’t reflect your potential, please remember this, your heart, your resilience, your ability to love, forgive, and connect, these are forms of intelligence too. And if you are blessed with a sharp mind, let your emotional wisdom guide it, so that your brilliance doesn’t only shine for yourself, but lights the way for others.

At the end of the day, success is not defined solely by the sharpness of your mind, but also by the openness of your heart. The mind equips us with ability, but the heart reminds us of our humanity. When we choose to nurture both, we don’t just achieve success, we create purpose, we leave a lasting impact, and we grow into something far greater than what numbers alone can reflect.

[liezandblabs]

what if we lived in a kinder world? hard to imagine right? op talks about how a kinder world is possible to exist using the film "Kiki's Delivery Service" as a example. a kinder world does not mean there is no sadness or conflict.

[sanewshimachal]

हमारा दर्द …

[thesovietgerman]

Rules for Life

1. Respect other people. 2. Help people and animals if you have the opportunity (nobody knows what will happen tomorrow). 3. If you are sure that a person is bad, then help at your own discretion. 4. Try to never lie. 5. Always keep your promises. 6. Be stress-resistant (emotions will not help solve the problem, you need to act). 7. Never give up (the whole world cannot be against you, there will always be someone who will support your ideas). 8. Admit that not everything depends on us, but persistence can increase the likelihood of success. 9. Make communism great again.

Success is influenced by luck, desire, etc. Someone needs more time to achieve something.

[worldwatcher3072]

Embracing Consciousness:

The Power of Being "Woke"

In a world riddled with racism, bigotry, misogyny, and intolerance, the term "woke" has emerged as a beacon of hope, inspiring individuals to confront social injustices head-on. However, this powerful term has not been without its controversies. In this blog post, we'll explore the essence of being "woke" and the necessity of embracing consciousness to combat the negative forces that plague our society.

The Dark Side of "Wokeness"

As with any movement, the "woke" culture has faced its fair share of criticisms. Some argue that it breeds self-righteousness and performative activism. Indeed, the pursuit of virtue signaling and the desire to outdo each other in the Wokeness Olympics can divert attention from the very issues it seeks to address. However, let us not forget that the core of being "woke" lies in awareness and empathy, not in empty gestures or hollow statements.

The Real Enemy: Ignorance and Intolerance

On the other side of the coin lie the true adversaries - ignorance and intolerance. Racism, bigotry, misogyny, and other forms of discrimination thrive when people turn a blind eye to systemic inequalities and perpetuate harmful beliefs and behaviors. Being "woke" represents an awakening, an acknowledgment of these issues, and a determination to challenge the status quo.

Fostering Empathy and Understanding

At the heart of being "woke" lies the cultivation of empathy and understanding. By embracing the experiences of others and actively listening to their stories, we gain invaluable insights into the struggles they face. Only through empathy can we break down the barriers that divide us and build a more united and compassionate society.

Education as a Catalyst for Change

Being "woke" is not about flaunting buzzwords or empty rhetoric; it's about educating ourselves on the intricacies of social issues. Delving deep into the roots of racism, sexism, and discrimination allows us to develop a nuanced understanding of these complex problems. Armed with knowledge, we can challenge misconceptions and advocate for informed solutions.

Turning Awareness into Action

Awareness alone is not enough to dismantle the structures of injustice. To make a real difference, we must translate our consciousness into meaningful action. Support for marginalized communities, participation in grassroots movements, and collaboration with like-minded individuals can lead to tangible progress. Being "woke" demands proactive engagement, not passive indifference.

Uniting for a Common Cause

As the world becomes increasingly polarized, it's crucial to remember that the struggle against discrimination is a collective battle. Rather than letting the term "woke" divide us, let us unite under the banner of compassion and equity. By seeking common ground and acknowledging the humanity in each other, we can bridge the gaps that separate us and work towards a brighter future.

Being "woke" is not a one-size-fits-all label; it represents a journey towards consciousness, empathy, and positive change. While it is essential to address the negative aspects associated with the "woke" culture, we must not lose sight of its fundamental purpose - to challenge racism, bigotry, misogyny, and intolerance. Let us embrace being "woke" as a call to action, to educate ourselves, foster empathy, and unite in the fight for a more equitable and inclusive society. Together, we can build a better world for everyone.

[mompreneuse-life]

Équilibrer Passion, Parentalité et Entrepreneurship : Mon Voyage dans l'Entrepreunariat

Chers tous,

J'inaugure ce Tumblr comme un journal de bord de mes hauts et bas de ma vie d'entrepreneure, comment je gère ma vie perso de maman et d'aidante avec mes multiples projets de créatrice de business 😊

Je m'appelle Nhu Lan, et ma vie est une mosaïque colorée d'aventures, de défis et de réalisations. Permettez-moi de vous présenter la personne derrière les multiples chapeaux que je porte au quotidien.

👩‍👧‍👦 Une Maman de Cœur et d'Âme 🌼

Être maman de deux enfants (12 ans et 7 ans) est une aventure inestimable qui façonne chacune de mes journées. Etre maman signifie patience, compassion et l'art de jongler entre les rires et les larmes. Chaque moment partagé avec mes petits garçons est une source de joie et d'inspiration inépuisable et me rappelle que j'ai commencé cette nouvelle vie d'entrepreneure principalement pour eux. Leur prouver que malgré les épreuves de la vie, nous pouvons rebondir et réaliser nos rêves ✨

🤲 Une Aidante Familiale Dévouée 💚

Ma responsabilité en tant qu'aidante familiale auprès de mes parents et de mon conjoint est un rôle que j'ai accepté dans la douleur mais que j'assume désormais avec tout mon cœur. Être présente pour mes proches dans leurs moments de besoin est d'une logique implacable. Je ne me voyais pas leur tourner le dos face à l'adversité. Cela m'a enseigné l'empathie, la résilience et l'importance de la solidarité au sein de la famille. Et également une de mes raisons de m'être aventurée sur le chemin de l'entreprenariat. Je souhaite donner plus de visibilité aux personnes de situation de handicaps, aux dépendants, et surtout aux aidants familiaux. Que oui, derrière le drame, nous sommes forts et savons rebondir.

🏡 Entrepreneure Passionnée 🚀

Le monde de l'entrepreneuriat m'a toujours appelée avec une énergie exaltante. Depuis mes plus jeunes années, je me souviens avoir toujours eu des idées de création d'entreprises. Cette créativité, j'ai dû la laisser de côté pendant plusieurs années, le temps de retrouver un équilibre dans ma vie personnelle. Depuis, j'ai décidé de reprendre ma vie en main et de réaliser mes projets entrepreneuriaux. En tant que courtière immobilière et spécialiste des prêts professionnels, je m'efforce de concrétiser les rêves et projets de mes clients. Chaque transaction est une opportunité de créer des ponts et de réaliser des aspirations.

🎵 Présidente d'une École de Musique Traditionnelle Vietnamienne Phuong Ca 🎶

Mon amour pour la musique traditionnelle vietnamienne m'a été transmis par ma mère, artiste reconnue au Vietnam, fondatrice de l'école Phuong Ca. J'ai, depuis, hérité le poste de présidente. Depuis que je suis devenue maman, je connais l'importance de transmettre son héritage culturel. Je m'efforce de préserver et de partager cette riche culture musicale avec la nouvelle génération. La musique est un langage universel qui transcende les frontières.

📚 Créatrice de Boutique(s) en Ligne 🌐

Mon nouvel objectif entrepreneurial est de conquérir le web !

La soif d'apprendre et de grandir m'a poussée à la création de boutiques en ligne. Je souhaite qu'ils deviennent le refuge des créations de mon fils aîné, que je suis en train d'initier à la vie d'entrepreneur, étant lui passionné par tout ce qui touche au graphisme (son rêve plus tard est de devenir graphiste ou créateur de jeux vidéos). Je souhaite lui offrir un safe place où son art et sa créativité seront accueillis positivement.

Ma vie est une symphonie en constante évolution, où la mélodie de chaque rôle que j'endosse s'entremêle harmonieusement. Mon voyage a été marqué par des hauts et des bas, mais chaque défi a renforcé ma détermination à poursuivre mes passions et à offrir le meilleur de moi-même à ceux qui m'entourent.

Si vous partagez l'une de mes passions ou si vous êtes également un amateur de jonglage entre plusieurs casquettes, je serais ravie d'entendre votre histoire. N'hésitez pas à me rejoindre dans cette aventure passionnante qu'est la vie !

Avec amour et enthousiasme,

Nhu Lan 💖

[guayilandia]

Another reality that many do not want to see. Many prefer to live in the suburbs and not see the dirty, the ugly, or the reality. If we are aware that we don't all have the same possibilities, we will be able to have empathy, to help the other. Seeing so many homeless people on the streets in these temperatures is very hard. #streetphotographer #empathy #igdc #streetphotographer #empathymatters #dc_spc #streetmeetdc #streetphoto #wearestreet #life_is_streets #womanphotographer #igstreet #igstreetphotography #life #fotocallejera #womanstreetphotographers (at Washington D.C.) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZNAaTpun7V/?utm_medium=tumblr