hi. gonna be annoying here but I’m tired of seeing it.
Alters from DID/OSDD systems ARE the same as alters from Endogenic systems.
Traumagenic systems are more commonly disordered, like DID, OSDD, etc, because their fundamental building block is unstable, they are basing their plurality on trauma. Endogenic systems are more commonly non-disordered because their fundamental building block is stable in comparison.
That does not mean Endogenic systems are a completely different thing from DID/OSDD, it only means they’re missing the one most important criterion of DID: Being distressing to oneself or those around you (which is the one most important criterion of every single disorder in the DSM/ICD. That’s what defines a ”disorder”.)
Whether you’re traumagenic or endogenic, so long your plurality is causing you suffering, you have a CDD, and if not, then you don’t.
Sincerely, your medically recognised endogenously formed DID system (yes, the endogenic part is also recognised)
This is a side blog, but I won't be sharing my main because I want this one to be completely separate from it. It's also to hopefully limit any hate / harassment I may get for being "controversial."
You can call me The Void, The Mist, or The Forest Spirits! Please use they/xem/vae when referring to me. I'm nonhuman, mediple, mixed origin, endogenic CDD, paraphile, polytheist, AuDHD, and much more. I use we/us and i/me interchangeably because of it. Just a creature wanting a harmless outlet for my paras and to be myself! DON'T COME AT ME!!!
I'm a part of several movements, such as: NO-ACT , ACPT , NYE , Pararity , Pluralpunk , Alterpunk , Voidpunk , Incluspunk , Cripplepunk , & Winterpunk ! Basically I'm...
PRO: All Paraphilias, Consang, Kink, All Shipping & Fanfiction, Good Faith / Contradictory Identities, Harmless TransIDs, Endogenic / Willo / Tulpa / Polymind, Functional Multiplicity, Non-Disordered Plurals, Self Diagnosis, Recovery, Agere / Petre, All Alterhuman / Nonhuman Labels, Bodily Autonomy ( Pro Choice ), Religion, Being Proud of Who You Are.
ANTI: Contact / Abuse / Harm, Harassment, Cults / Fults, Conversion Therapy, Vilification of Mental Illnesses, Ableism, Saneism, All Forms of Bigotry, All Types / Forms of Racism.
CRITICAL: Radqueer, Psychology
Well, just don't be a bigot! AKA no: ableism, saneism, depressiomisia, paramisia, aphobia, pluralmisia / pluralphobia, agorablism, kinmisia, alterhumisia, speciesism, classism, nutritionism, intersexism, transmisogyny, transandrophobia, queerphobia, racism, monoracism, xenophobia, whitemisia / anti-white, misogyny, misandry, exorsexism, anti-masculinity, anti-religion, anti-endogenic, etc.
Movies / Shows: Ponyo, Howl's Moving Castle, My Little Pony ( gen 5 ), My Hero Academia, A Silent Voice, Place to Place, Hazbin Hotel, Helluva Boss, Gravity Falls, Steven Universe, Murder Drones, The Owl House, The Aristocats, K-ON!, Adventure Time, Teen Titans, Sword Art Online, Gun Gale Online, The Amazing Digital Circus, Brand New Animal, Into the Spiderverse, All Spiderman movies, Engaged to the Unidentified, Spy X Family, Back to the Future ( all movies ), Midsommar Murders, Sherlock Holmes, Beetlegeuse, Caroline, Mune: Guardian of the Moon, Thunder and the House of Magic, ID: INVADED, Invader Zim, Jurassic Park, Lilo and Stitch, Zootopia, Heartstopper, Turning Red, Coco, LoliRock, Hilda, Big Bang Theory, KIPO and The Age of Wonderbeasts, Miraculous Ladybug, The Seven Deadly Sins, Komi Can't Communicate, Locke & Key, The Hollow, Inside Job, The Lorax, Scissor Seven, TRUE and The Rainbow Kingdom, Aggretsuko, Garfield, Enola Holmes, Molang, Woody Woodpecker, Dragon Pilot, Two Sentence Horror Stories, The Emperor's New Groove, Moon Knight, The Sound of Music, Parallels, Lady and the Tramp, The Fox and the Hound, Aladdin, Bolt, Bedtime Stories, Meet the Robinsons, Wreck It Ralph, Secrets of Sulphur Springs, Onward, Ratatouille, Wall-E, Brave, Monsters INC., Soul, Moana, Inside Out, Brain Games, Girl Meets World, The Simpsons, Oliver and Company, Tangled, Alice in Wonderland, Summer Camp Island, Peep and The Big Wide World, Ms. Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, Panty & Stocking with Garter Belt, Spongebob Squarepants, The Lego Movie, Mr. Bean, Toradora, Olivia, Hotel Transylvania, Sid the Science Kid, Pingu, Bubble Guppies, Dr. Who (11th), Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Tron: Legacy, The Giver, Inception, My Favorite Martian, Duncanville, My Dress-Up Darling, Tomo-chan Is a Girl!, PUNCH LINE, NCIS: New Orleans, Ghosts, The Twilight Zone, Family Guy, Bones, The X-Files, Goosebumps, I'm Just Fucking With You, Big Mouth, Ninjago, The Nightmare before Christmas, Bluey, Bee & Puppycat, The Little Prince
Games: The Stanley Parable, Minecraft, Pokemon, Slay the Princess, Night in the Woods, Super Mario Odyssey, Legend of Zelda: Breath of The Wild, Doki Doki Literature Club, You & Me & Her, Needy Streamer Overload, Journey, A Hat in Time, Cattails, Just Dance 3, Sonic: Colors, Pony Town, Hollow Knight, Animal Crossing, Pocket Love, Among Us, One Shot, Undertale, Deltarune, Five Nights At Freddy's: Security Breach, Portal ( 1 & 2 ), Haunt the House, Primary, Sugar Sugar, Hitman 3, Happy Wheels, Duck Life, Bloodmoney, Underworld Office, 7 DAYS!, Obey Me!
Youtubers / Streamers: Daniel Thrasher, Jordan Sweeto, Alpharad, OneTopic, CafeFoxTale, Jaiden Animations, Markiplier, The Click, Gab Smolders, Fir, Marikyuun, Dellamie, Sunflower Smith, Giwi, Wolfychu, TheOdd1sOut, SomethingElseYT, Haminations, The aMAAZing, Let Me Explain Studios, Illymations, DanTDM, Bijuu Mike, Emkay, Jammidoger, KallmeKris, Chipflake, Moriah Elizabeth, Vulpixie, LaurenZside, Jazza, 8-bit Ryan, SMIT7Y, Kwite
Music: Hatsune Miku, AJR, Green Day, Gorillaz, Jazz, Lofi, Breakcore, Twenty One Pilots, Weezer, Ace of Hearts, Scott Joplin, Park Bird, Katy Perry, BTS, FIFTY FIFTY, Penelope Scott, Bo Burnham, Snail's House, Crash Adams, Weird Al Yankovic, Heiakim, Zalinki, Nightcore, Deftones, The Weekend, Ashe, TWICE, Slipknot, Billie Eillish, Madame Macabre, Sugar Ray, Hootie & The Blowfish, Blues Traveler, Dave Matthews Band, Semisonic, Lit, Counting Crows, Toad The Wet Sprocket, Smash Mouth, The Presidents Of The United States Of America, The Wallflowers, Everclear, Eve 6, Third Eye Blind, Matchbox Twenty, Train, Maroon 5, My Chemical Romance, Cage The Elephant, Artic Monkeys, The Beatles, The Oh Hellos, Cody Simpson, The Vamps, 5 Seconds of Summer, Mumford & Sons, Vance Joy, Travis, Oasis, Coldplay, AViVA, MISSO, Sub Urban, Marshmello, Nirvana, The Stupendium, Electric Light Orchestra, Shawn Mendes, Queen, OR3O, Beach Bunny, Foster The People, Tally Hall, Lovejoy, Bruno Mars, girl in red, Conan Gray, New Found Glory, Sugarcult, I DON'T KNOW HOW BUT THEY FOUND ME, Fall Out Boy, All Time Low, Plain White T's, Bowling For Soup, Simple Plan, The All-American Rejects, Panic! At The Disco, Alec Benjamin, Da Vinci's Notebook, You Favorite Martian, Starbomb, JT Music, OneRepublic, Neon Trees, American Authors, Imagine Dragons, The Living Tombstone, Addison Grace, Egg, Melanie Martinez, mxmtoon, Cavetown, The Arcadian Wilds
Dislikes: Haters ( of any form ), being called a "thing" or an "it" ( unless friends ), people who can't seem to get a grip, complete idiots, canned spinach, regular mustard, asparagus, mayo, mosquitos, roaches, wasps, people who call me a faker for [ insert stupid reason ], hitting me / on me non-playfully or without my permission, creeps ( obviously ), people who think being rude / disrespectful is "cool", people who refer to women as "females" in a non-educational conversation, people who refuse to learn new things or be open to others beliefs, fake claimers, people who bully others, people who don't believe that men can be discriminated against or abused, people who don't understand what racism actually is and how it works, double standards
Fears: Nyctophobia (the dark) , Monophobia (being alone) , Athazagoraphobia (forgetting someone or something, as well as a fear of being forgotten) , Phobophobia (being afraid) , Scopophobia (being stared at) , Ligyrophobia (loud noises) , Agoraphobia (entering open or crowded places, leaving one's own home, or being in places from which escape is difficult) , Coulrophobia (clowns) , Pediophobia (dolls or inanimate objects that look real) , Nosocomephobia (hospitals) , Gephyrophobia (bridges, especially crossing bridges) , Trypanophobia (needles) , Sciophobia (shadows) , Mazeophobia (being lost) , Dystychiphobia (accidents) , Sedatephobia (complete silence) , Basiphobia (falling) , Traumatophobia (battle/war, or being physically injured during activities like sports) , Claustrophobia (small or crowded spaces)
#~ howling at the moon -> yapping
#~ showing my claws & teeth -> venting
#~ lurking in the underbrush -> paras
#~ running through the forest -> asks
#~ echoing in the treetops -> reblogs
#~ burying some of my bones -> archiving
Unsure if this'll become a "series" of posts, but if any newer discovered systems want them, I'll brew up ideas.
Please keep in mind what might help me, might not help you! Also, we're a C-DID system, some stuff we mention might not align with entirely non-trauma systems. :] We hope all origins get help out of this regardless.
Acronyms...
We love acronyms, blame SpongeBob for that! Here's a few, hopefully easy to remember, acronyms for your use!
Two meanings for this one! Name, appearance, purpose OR name, age, pronouns.
R.O.L.E
Role, orientation, location, experience
Speaking of documentation...
Getting caught up in documenting things will stress you out, at least in our experience. We highly suggest letting headmates make themselves known first before documenting them, however this obviously won't work for everyone.
When documenting write down what you consider important (or let whoever wants to make themselves known write down what they consider important about themselves). I gave you acronyms for funsies, but in reality you don't need to write down anything I gave if it's not beneficial to you.
Omit age if it doesn't matter, omit gender if it doesn't matter, omit roles if it doesn't matter. You don't need to document things. (Although, we are biased and personally thing it's helpful, so do with that what you will. You're free to ask questions about it.)
Aesthetics is a trap (in our experience).
Don't get caught up in making things look nice. This is for you first and foremost (and a potential therapist second if you have one) so please don't stress yourself trying to find the perfect symbol to put next to a custom field title. I promise you you'll be okay. You aren't faking or ugly as a system for not following along with the crowed of aesthetics (and those that do make theirs aesthetic aren't faking either!!! people are allowed to like pretty things!!!)
Going back to roles...they're to be helpful.
Roles are for you. If you have headmates that want to identify as a role, let them. Even if you don't think it'd suit them. Let them try on the label.
Even though roles are, somewhat, social constructs you might notice a few headmates align with common system "tropes" (unsure how to phrase this) such as a protector, persecutor*, little*, and even gatekeeper.
*persecutor is something I have qualms with as a label headmates put on other headmates. Do so with caution and I suggest, if applicable, asking said "persecutor" if they want to be titled that.
This is why I suggest letting them try on their own labels. Getting assigned persecutor when you're, for example, a protector doing your job can cause internal conflict. Sometimes helpers do things you don't like, maybe keep this in mind.
Also, not all persecutors, if they actually are one, are "misunderstood/misguided". I suggest reading this post about "evil" headmates I made.
*littles aren't just 5 year olds and can be complex in age; age varying, age flux, adult headmates that identify as little due to being permaregressed, etc. not deminishing the systems that do have below 10 year old littles, however your littles don't need to be innocent beans (in lack of better wording) to be littles.
Self expression's important
I made a small post about this here. The end of that post reads:
But just because you're not showing it off to the internet or a family member doesn't mean it's not seen, is it?
Was about headmates. You, whoever you are, can draw and express yourself and it'll eventually get seen by another headmate eventually.
Expressing yourself, in our opinion, is vital to being a system. You need to get your system...well...out of your system lol.
"How can I do that?" Good question!
How to express yourself as a system!
All of these have examples! These are all from us; no AI used!
Make a showcase of voice claims
Userboxes (feel free to send an ask about templates or making one of your own)
Draw yourself/others (look below!)
Site used, everything else is by Blade! Heart Burst is his ponysona. That cutie mark took ages to draw, by the way.
You can use bases to express yourself! We promise it's okay!!! Art is fun!!!! Deviant Art's entire culture was around being yourself and bases are EVERYWHERE. Feel free to shoot us an ask for our favorites!!!! (PLEASE!!!!!!!!)
I find it vital to find a way to express your convoluted nature. Not just for whatever or whoever "you" are, but to those around you. If you post it online or show it off, that is.
Posting it is optional, and I highly suggest keeping it to yourself if you've never artistically expressed your plurality before.
But just because you're not showing it off to the internet or a family member doesn't mean it's not seen, is it?
say you're a system/plural out loud. ik it sounds strange but sometimes it just feels good to say verbally. esp if irl you have no one to tell/you can't tell anyone.
