#guys perspective

[relationshipwoes]

At night I find my mind running a mile a minute on everything I want to do for you and how I want it to be but it seems as if it’s pointless because you only think of what i need to do and not what I have already done for you already

[twinklelikestars]

Do you agree with the theory that if you have to question wether or not a guy likes you then he probably doesn’t?

[take-the-pain-ignite-it-96]

Basic principles and respect for ur partner 💯💯 some need to learn this shit

[relationshipwoes]

We argued

We argued today again and I honestly don’t want to I’d rather be enjoying time with you but it’s always something lately. I make sure even though I’m upset at you I don’t say anything to hurt you because even though I’m mad I don’t want to hurt you, but you don’t seem to think that way for me you just want to win the argument so you say whatever you have to do you can win. You go to far but you won you happy?

[firstdatedaisy]

A Different Perspective

I would like to welcome my first official guest writer! Please enjoy a first date story from Dateable Dan: —– Kids, no one talks about how difficult dating can be for men, especially online, but that’s a story for a different time. This is about a woman that agreed to go on a date with me.

After being single for several years I was pretty nervous about a first date. She ended up running late (she later apologized several times) so I found myself sitting in a brewery basking in my anxiety, accompanied by the anxiety of a first date.

When she arrived I had two thoughts. 1. “Whoa, she is out of my league.” 2. “What have I gotten myself into?” Fortunately I remembered how to use my brain and I got us a table. We talked over some food and beer and then talked some more. We were supposed to do a brewery tour at 6 but missed it due to our conversation. We could have done the 7 tour but we missed that as well.

We decided to walk around for a bit and then I suggested that we walk her home since it was getting late and she didn’t live in the best neighborhood. We got to her place and she agreed to a second date.

She travels for work so I don’t know when that will be, but she seemed genuinely interested in seeing me again, so I guess I have that going for me. She also appreciated that I paid for the date, drove a considerable distance to see her, and walked her home. I guess chivalry isn’t dead yet.

Moral of the story: Sometimes you take a risk and it works out.

[wably-blog]

What guys think: Why he ghosted

The latest: What guys think: Why he ghosted by Wyatt Redd on Wably.

[fashionfiends]

I just really want to get a guy’s perspective on this... except I know no guys well enough to ask something like this...

[kingnysos]

Don't read this.

Why is it that in a single instant the person you love can leave you like you were nothing? How can you feel so broken right after you had everything you wanted from life? How could she walk out on me like that? Then suddenly I had two friends and myself. No one came to help. After something like that? Everyone knows. But none of them care enough to actually talk to you about it? To even say wow that was shitty of them? All they could say was I hate them for that. And you. You felt so little emotion that all you could say was "thanks for understanding" when they asked for the details and you responded with "I don't want to talk about it" . What if you wanted someone to push? What if you wanted someone to pry? What if, you actually wanted someone to care? And now you stumble through your regular life thinking of them more then once a day hoping. Hoping. That someone would come along and help you get over them. Just like they did so easily for you.