#healingwounds

[manpleblog]

its just me and you

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[tomssexdoll]

alright so this idea came up to me in my dream so say where Tom is spider-man and he gets into fight and ends up completely destroyed with bruises and stuff and reader takes care of him and can end however you want

YESSSSS OFC

"Tom..?" I called out, he was stuck in a pile of rubble, a fight gone wrong. The bad guy had of course lost, lying dead on the floor. Toms weak body got up, covered in cuts and bruises.

I winced slightly and ran to him, helping him up and rushing over to a safe place. I reached into my bag, pulling out an aid kid. I grabbed some wipes, wiping all the dirty and blood off his face, he hissed at the pain, the antiseptic wipes stinging his wounds.

"Fuck..ow.." he groaned. He was sat on a destroyed fence, I was in between his legs, grabbing some bandaids and placing them over the nasty wounds.

"How did it get that bad Tom..jeez" I sighed, cleaning out the deep gash on his hand, wrapping some gauze around it. "How do you always come out clean but this time you're left with bruises and cuts" I rolled my eyes, turning him around and checking his back, his suit ripped in certain areas, exposing his bloody back.

"Fucking hell Tom, you need to be more careful, I told you this 50 times" he grunted "whatever..you don't understand" I kept cleaning his wounds, covering them in bandaids.

When he turned back around I felt his arms wrap around my waist, pulling me closer, "thanks..for this" he smiled softly, leaning in and kissing me gently, his fluffy lips like clouds on mine.

Blush filled my cheeks, stunned by his sudden display of affection. "U...uh...it's fine.." I looked away, embarassed by how hard I was blushing, not wanting him to know.

He chuckled and grabbed my chin, smashing his lips into mine again, rubbing at my back, I melted into the kiss, accepting defeat and caressing his cheek, deepening the kiss.

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[ag-autumn]

Without You

I still remember your tender smile— I hadn't yet learned to breathe without you. Our love remained a half-spoken verse, Yet the sorrow arrived in full. Since you've gone, this heart grieves even in joy, Wounds run deep— But where is the balm to soothe them? The letters you once sent, I still hold close, Laced with your love, And promises that faded into empty words. A single moment of your laughter Gifted me grief for a lifetime. You slipped away like sand between fingers, While loneliness rose like a wave—and stayed. No complaint remains for you, No blame lingers within me— Only an aching, hollow heart, And your words… still unfinished.

~Autumn

(English ver. of Tere Bina)

[growwithmeastrology]

Friday, March 10th 2023 Sun in Pisces ♓️🌊 Moon in Libra ♎️💨 and Scorpio ♏️🌊 It’s a good day to go for it and shoot your shot. The Libra moon opposes Venus in Aries and trine Mars in Gemini. At the same time Venus and Mars form a sextile. This is a really cute and fun energy with lots of confidence and is highly social. The moon is also trine Saturn in Pisces which supports how you intuitively feel about whatever is ahead of you. There may also be a slight poetic feel about everything with the Sun, Mercury and Neptune all conjunct in Pisces. The only not so fun transits today involve Pluto in Capricorn squaring the Moon and Venus. Be sure to use the tightened intuition from Saturn today as this energy can present some underhanded manipulation. When in doubt in a situation, be blunt and call out any BS that looks too good to be true. While the conjunction above looks poetic, it can also be highly delusional so discernment will be completely necessary. So who’s being true and who’s trying to get away with something? You be the judge. Later tonight the Moon enters its fallen position as it moves into Scorpio kinda dampening the mood but with its continued trine to Saturn, it’s more of a mature feel than anything else. It’s interesting energies today. I would love to hear if anything new was presented for anyone and how you felt about it. ☮️💚✨ Learn more about your energies and how the daily forecast affects you! Comment below⬇️ or DM me for a free consultation. Grow With Me Astrology provides astrological roadmaps that empowers people to take full control of their lives. Let me reveal to you what you already possess. If you’d like to support or donate: 🅿️ PayPal or Venmo @Kamey Batiz 💲CashApp $NaliniFlor #growwithme #astrology #empowerment #loveyourself #bethechange #healing #dailyhoroscope #dailyguidance #selfcare #healingwounds #love #zodiac #sun #moon #plutoreturn #revolution #pisces #aries #venusjupiterconjunction #cancer #mercuryinpisces #saturninpisces #libra #scorpio https://www.instagram.com/p/CpmqeJVuIhW/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[gloriousbell]

Good Things Take Some Time

To love someone it will be the most painful/beautiful experience you will encounter. Your love will help you two grow so you can live happily together. It should be noted that not every relationship is perfect. There are going to be arguments, heartache, and crying. I like to think that all of those obstacles you encounter will make the love grow stronger. Each individual will open up their deep emotions towards each other. When one becomes aware of their deep emotion and if they do not know how to react to it. They will think how to give their partner the love that they deserve. Mostly because they feel unworthy of their love. A partner who struggles with their feelings does not know how to process their emotions. There could be attachment issues such as; anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful avoidant. There could also be a lack of emotional regulation. This is where self-sabotage comes in. Self-sabotage ruins it! That person runs away from their partner. They will distance themself. Self-sabotage tends to happen in most relationships without intending to. Nobody has the intention to self-sabotage. That comes out of fear within our own self. You allow fear to control you. You become so fearful of the worst case scenario we get fixated by the idea of assumptions. You react out of fear. Reacting out of emotional fear does not get you anywhere but hurt. You know the saying ‘hurt people hurt people’. You hurt your partner so they can feel the same pain as you but your partner is hurting the same or worse than you are. Comprehension should be the new communication. You can communicate all you want to your partner but if they are not allowing themself to understand you, it is useless. Everyone wants a fairytale love story that are mostly seen in the movies. That is not realistic unfortunately... Learn to be okay with the obstacles that will come in a relationship. MOST IMPORTANTLY, learn to heal your wounds first! For this reason, you won’t be hurting your partner. Stop the self-sabotage by healing yourself! You are not only hurting yourself but someone you deeply love also. Do not push your person away. If it is toxic, then of course leave. If there is necessary healing of the inner child in you both and reparenting yourself then work it out together. Try to comprehend and communicate. Cherish moments forever especially the good. Learn from the hardships. Learn to let go of the past together! Hold each other close. Give each other love. Give each other appreciation you both deserve. Learn patience. Learn to let it flow. Stop letting fear get in the way of your happiness. If it is meant for you, it will always be for you. Create a healthy relationship for yourself. You deserve it. 

[alyssazander]

Let’s Meet the Shadow

I hope you are all doing well over there, experiencing joy and likely the opposite of that from time to time as well. Remember, it's perfectly ok and VITAL to experience all the things- they all play a role in the healing that is necessary at this time. So, be gentle with yourself and know that I am hugging you all hard Here are some little conversation starters for you, you and your higher self, you and your partner.. Whatever you are called to.  

Here are some take aways for me in the first couple of chapters, I hope you enjoy!

To Connect with Your Children, First Connect with Yourself  (Chapter 1, pg.6)

"If you want to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority. By not hiding behind an egoic image, you will be able to engage your child as a real person like yourself."

-Where in our relationships with our children are we projecting a superior demeanor? 

-Where can we establish more of a partnership with our children and equalize the playing field in our families? 

-Where can we allow ourselves to step off our pedestals of dominance? 

How Can a Child Awaken an Adult? (Chapter 2, pg.15)

"A certain child enters our life with its individual troubles, difficulties, stubbornness, and temperamental challenges in order to help us become aware of how much we have yet to grow." Dr. Shefali shares the story of Jessica and her mother Anya on page 16: "The only way we could unlock the unconsciousness that Anya's daughter triggered in her was by revisiting her past, in particular her family of origin...How can we guide, protect, and provide for our children in the physical world, yet rigorously relinquish all sense of domination of their spirit, unless we have nurtured a free spirit within ourselves?"

This is our work as the adults in your children's lives. This can be a difficult and painful experience for us to reflect on. Please know that you are held and it is safe to explore and be curious about your past. 

-What are some of your own wounds from your childhood?

-When was the first time you felt that wound or shadow side of yourself? 

-Sit with each one (list below) for a moment and observe what emotions arise when you say them to yourself. Where do you feel it in your body? 

Remember that no emotions are bad, our bodies reaction to these are our invitation and portal into determining our wounds and fears, ultimately opening the door to our healing.... 

Abandonment, Rejection, Shame, Guilt, Jealousy, Envy, Rage, Worthiness, I am not good enough, I am unlovable, My feelings are not valid, I must take care of everyone around me

-Go back to a time in our life when we felt most vulnerable. Who was there? What did you feel? Sit with this for a moment and take in any messages that come through...

-Where can we nurture ourselves more, cultivating more of a free spirit within us?

"Unless we consciously integrate the unintegrated aspects of our childhood, they never leave us but repeatedly reincarnate themselves in our present, then show up all over again in our children." 

I am with you all, you are not alone. I am grateful and truly honored to do this work with you at this time!  

With so much love,

Alyssa

[overcomeandgrow]

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[growwithmeastrology]

Monday, March 13, 2023 Sun in Pisces ♓️🌊 Moon in Sagittarius ♐️🔥 It’s going to be an interesting week. I will do my best to put a positive spin on things but fair warning, it’s a bumpy ride. If you don’t have any mindful practices to start your day, this is a good week to start. Whatever helps you center and bring your mind peace should be the focus at the beginning of each day. It’s also a good idea to see where you have the placements I speak of in your chart to see which areas of your life will be most affected this week. Today we begin with the Moon in Sagittarius which is fun energy. Sag loves to explore, is high energy, and all around great to be around. Well, here’s the kicker. Remember when I talked about Saturn’s shift being especially hard on the mutable signs these next few years? That kicked off with Virgo and today, it’s Sagi’s turn. The Sagittarius Moon will square Saturn in Pisces. This turns fun loving Sag energy into a tense mess and is an absolute vibe killer. We then add Mars in Gemini squaring Neptune in Pisces. This will bring on gossip and even paranoia and create some scandalous situations if you’re not mindful of your words. The moon is still sextile Pluto in Capricorn which just further stimulates the emotions being felt. All I can say is, take deep breaths my loves. Try to focus on the fun loving side of Sag and let things roll off your back because these tense energies will get personal and stick around til Sunday. ☮️💚✨ Learn more about your energies and how the daily forecast affects you! Comment below⬇️ or DM me for a free consultation. Grow With Me Astrology provides astrological roadmaps that empowers people to take full control of their lives. Let me reveal to you what you already possess. If you’d like to support or donate: 🅿️ PayPal or Venmo @Kamey Batiz 💲CashApp $NaliniFlor #growwithme #astrology #empowerment #loveyourself #bethechange #healing #dailyhoroscope #dailyguidance #selfcare #healingwounds #love #zodiac #sun #moon #plutoreturn #revolution #pisces #mercuryinpisces #saturninpisces #sagittarius https://www.instagram.com/p/CpuY8uYOvi8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=