#intersex system

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Intersex system

This is my personal take on an intersex system flag- A flag for those who are systems and are also intersex.

Notes:

This is intended for bodily intersex systems only, transintersex and altersex this flag is not for you.

Questioning systems and intersex people are more than welcome to use!

Tagging: @radiomogai and @intersexflags for archival reasons

[hawkeyeflags]

intersex system !

[starstruckpurple]

please talk to some intersex trans women (actual trans women who are intersex) before calling yourself transfem when it doesnt describe you at all.

Alright. This is my first ever anon stuff and I don't know what to feel about this. Thank you for the ask itself. I only shared my personal experience and history, and given the likes, some people did find that relatable. I would have loved to ask you what you think it is that describes me, if you were not anon. Do you think I am a perisex AFAB who just has PCOS? That is what I deduced from this ask. I did feel alienation because of the circumstances that were not on my hands. Whatever I am in the eyes of you, this doesn't change that. And this specific alienation, "failure" to be a woman, based on what people around me told me or implied to me (and maybe this is not the word suitable here), further alienated me from the concept of femininity altogether. I escaped from it, I didn't want to be associated with it, it made me feel scared. I did not feel like a cis woman, but I didn't really feel like a man either. Hence why I had been using the word nonbinary, but even that has started making me feel bad lately. Something is wrong and I am trying to find it out.

I might be very well a perisex AFAB woman for all I care. I am literally figuring this out. It has been just 24 hours I have found all this info. What I know for sure, was that my childhood and teenage years were vastly different from cis women around me. Both physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. I felt like I was only a guest or trespasser. Something that belonged to nowhere. And I was severily bullied and pressured by my own family for this. I was told this was my fault, that I had no willpower to change it (my PCOS), that I "did not have a woman's soul in me, never the daughter she wanted", exact words coming out of the mouth of my mother. Could this all be perisex cis woman's trauma and her struggle with patriarchial gender roles? That is what I thought as well, for years. I even denied myself the word nonbinary, because I thought I was faking it. Still to this day, I am my own worst enemy, but gradually getting softer with myself. I am filled with contradictionary labels, I feel like a minority within minority within minority.

I would love for you to tell me what I am. Thank you for your concern.

If there are any "actual trans women who are intersex" seeing this post, I would be glad to hear your thoughts. Help me.

[formidablefangs]

Should be obvious but some people may not realize they're doing it until its said idk

You're not an advocate if you:

- don't support normalizing things that can otherwise be used to target and single out victims

- pressure people into meeting higher standards than they can achieve without breaks / into handling far more than they can take

- get defensive and snap at anyone who thinks differently from you rather than listening and learning to form more informed takes (does not mean you have to agree but that you can take something from what they have to say)

- weaponize victims, your own mental health, ignorance or what have you for any sort of manipulation to get your way or harm others who disagree with you

- use victims of something as a shield to defend your argument but don't listen to those victims if they're the ones disagreeing with you (cherry picking which victims you support and hiding a personal opinion behind victims to make it seem more substantial or "important")

- think it somehow isn't invasive to ask people for personal information (trauma, race, ethnicity, nationality, sex etc) in order to justify them using or reclaiming something (you aren't the judge, not your call, nor do they owe you shit)

- blame someone for their own misfortune, telling them it's their fault they got hurt in a situation out of their control or their fault despite it being someone elses actions. (victim blaming)

- set a bar for others or put people in a box of how something should be but dont apply it to yourself or refuse to make room for nuance.

- believe your experience is the golden standard

- justify yourself and your actions against others using people you know with the topic at hand despite not experiencing it yourself or having said thing yourself, without communicating with those people if it's okay/if they haven't asked you to defend or support them or if you are talking over them (you cant speak for someone who's marginalized about a topic they experience if you arent part of it just because you know someone who is)

- bring up unrelated or irrelevant things to derail the discussion of something you so "advocate" for

- bring someone whos against or harmful to the very thing you claim to advocate for into what's supposed to be a safe space / support and platform the people harming the thing you claim to advocate for

Feel free to add to the list, just discussion not fighting or arguing thanks

Applies to many things not just cdd advocacy

[intersex-questions]

Hi! We have DID and one of our alters feels like intersex best describes them, but they worry it might be offensive due to the body being perisex, them not having an actual physical body, and their memories of being born that way and their difficulties growing up didn't ACTUALLY happen, and are likely inaccurate compared to the reality of intersex people. If it IS offensive, do you have advice on where to start on looking for another term for them?

I mean, it's whatever you all feel most comfortable with, but an alter can have traits that the body does not have such as being of a different age, gender, race, sexuality, mental conditions, and more. An alter can still be intersex in the headspace or their own understanding of themself, as long as that alter or any alters with this experience aren't claiming that the body is intersex, speaking over people with intersex bodies, etc. It's a nuanced situation of course, but again, alters can (and usually do) have traits that are different than the body. I personally don't think it's offensive for that alter to call themself intersex, but I can definitely understand those who would find it offensive or harmful. I would just be careful around the topic. Like, I think the alter themself can call themself intersex to describe their life, but the body isn't and it isn't the same as someone who has an intersex body. I think a lot of people might disagree with me on this. I don't really have any strong opinions.

I'd also look into the term altersex and terms that fall under that umbrella. Maybe there are systems who have experienced this that have coined terms related?

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Intersex system pixels (v1)

@nimnimz

[syscourse-shmiscourse]

Absolutely insane to me that Sophie prefers the generative AI that tells her she's right over the actual Asian and Intersex people telling her that her mindsets are actively harming them.

What's even more insane is watching her fall right into the right-wing mindsets she hates so fucking much. Pot meet kettle, you've become what you hate.

As we all theorized.

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