#people-pleasing

[kellymagovern]

Christopher Walken teaching me how to set boundaries. 😂

[the-healing-mindset]

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The time it takes for you to redevelop your sense of self isn't time that is wasted. This time is very much worth something because when you're reestablished in your identity, you will never go back down the same path again. Your worth at that point will be unshakable. You won't accept the same treatment again. You will now be able to stand up for yourself. You are enough and you always have been.

[entrepresapien]

How to Trust Your Own Judgment (Without Approval Hunting)

How to Trust Your Own Judgment (and Stop Asking Everyone) You know the moment. You have a simple decision to make, like what job to apply for, whether to text them back, or which apartment to sign for. And suddenly you’re running your life like a group project: you ask your best friend, your sister, a coworker, three strangers on Reddit, and the barista who spelled your name wrong. If you want…

How to Trust Your Own Judgment (Without Approval Hunting)

[camewiththeframe]

[c-ptsdrecovery]

[quotecollector14]

It's entirely normal to feel anger when you start breaking the people-pleasing pattern and setting boundaries. The more you speak up for yourself, the more you realize how small you used to make yourself in others' presence. You begin to see how you exchanged your comfort for the comfort of people who didn't have your best interests at heart. Let that anger alchemize you. Let it transform you into a version of yourself that takes no shit.

Hailey Paige Magee

[dein-wille-geschehe]