#self-trust

[the-healing-mindset]

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You know what you're seeing.

You know what you're experiencing.

Don't convince yourself that what you are seeing is a mistake on their part or that they just "need more time" to make the adjustments you asked of them. They can say that they "love" you all they want.

What does that look like though? That love should not require you to sacrifice any of your needs and boundaries just so that they can remain in your life doing the same things over and over, getting worse as time passes.

You don't have to lie to yourself. Your needs and emotions matter as well, and you should protect that.

[thepersonalwords]

There's that "margin of error" that you allow to exist in your mind, you want to give everything the benefit of the doubt, you want to look at another person and say "maybe we could be friends" and that's all well at first, but then you have to reach that point in your life, wherein you don't have time to live on the margins of error, and you have to say, "so what if there is a margin of error that exists? I don't think that this person and I could walk down the same path together, because she's like that, and I'm like this; I must relieve myself of fearing the error, the 'what could have been'." You know, sometimes we can be so afraid of the "what could have been" that we overlook the right here and now! And end up forsaking who we are and what makes us happy, and what we want and don't want! There is an error that takes place; when living too much for the "what could have been." There comes a time when you must give YOURSELF the benefit of the doubt! Know thyself. Color-in those margins of error with your favorite color; make them your own, make them work for you, let them be in your favor!

C. JoyBell C.

[ceanlia]

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[feminiel]

Part of standing in your power fully is about trusting yourself to make you feel safe when some insecurities may arise due to internal or external conflicts.

[entrepresapien]

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[thecleverconfidante]

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[kellymagovern]

"Trust is possible only, if first, you trust in yourself. The most fundamental thing has to happen within you first. If you trust in yourself, you can trust in me, you can trust in people, you can trust in existence. But if you don't trust in yourself, then no other trust is ever possible. And the society destroys trust at the very roots. It does not allow you to trust yourself. It teaches all other kinds of trust – trust in the parents, trust in the church, trust in the state, trust in 'god', and ad infinitum. But the basic trust is completely destroyed." —Osho "The Book of Wisdom" Vol. 1 Discourse 3 [x]

[jrich103]

Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm. –Winston Churchill